Uncomfortable conversation
Htxx
So, I'm just getting home from spending a few hours at a SA girls place. Had a good time overall, however, after I cim from a great bbbj, she looks at me while spitting Into a towel and says "I'm getting rid of all your babies right now, but what if I'd taken this, got a syringe, & shot your cum into me and got pregnant? What if I could prove with a dna test said it was your kid I'd be pregnant With? Would you pay me $20,000 for an abortion? Or would you just pay child support. I mean WHAT THE FUCK WAS THAT? I couldn't wait to get out of there after that, and even more so I'm giving serious consideration to getting a vasectomy....
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Hopefully she doesn't have your real name and address.
Sometimes the best counter to crazy is crazy.
Say you don't believe in abortion. You'd have to have the kid or you might sue her.
Then you'd either have to get married if your crazy father with all his rifles and shotguns found out and you know he would or you'd have to disappear to a foreign country to escape the wrath of your crazy relatives. Probably be best for her to have the kid so your relatives didn't hunt her down and you'd have to disagrees overseas. Hopefully your relatives don't do any honor killings. That would suck. Probably better just to not get pregnant.
One reason it will be difficult to leave my current SB is that she does not want kids.
BTW, season 2 (or maybe it was 3) of a TV show called "You're the Worst" has similar scenario in it, but it's an exwife trapping exhubby to get back together. The actual "impregnation" scene is hilarious.
Did you spend much non-sexual time getting to know this girl before this situation arose? Yeah, I know, pre-screening might not have caught this kind of crazy, but NO pre-screening is definitely NOT going to catch it.
What she said does not sound like something a girl in a sugar relationship would say to a guy she is hoping on receiving regular financial support from. Sure, if you can prove paternity that creates a legal requirement for support, but I'd convert my life over to cash basis, underground economy so no one could prove I had any money before I gave in to extortion like that.
At least now you have a story you can tell to other potential SBs at meet-and-greet dates and see how they react.
Last thought: maybe this is why arrangements with guaranteed amounts of $1000/month or better seem to be the most typical? If a girl can get $1000-$1500 out of a guy without having to give birth and raise a child, why deal with it just to trap him into a $1000-$1500 child support payment, which you may still not get?
1. Blackmail is a felony. Hope you enjoy your time in jail.
2. I know a guy with a backhoe and a lot of isolated land. What say we take a little drive?
3. It’s unlikely to work. The enzymes in a typical human mouth are deadly. Even to sperm.
4. Joke’s on you. My vasectomy is older than you are.
I guess the lesson is keep track of used condoms and also help clean up after to prevent crazy stuff like that with girls who might be baby daddy hunting.
To willingly and knowingly pay for it is just plain masochistic.
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Price of vasectomy is something like $1K which should be pocket change if you are sugaring. Do your research and find someone really good -- someone who's done thousands of procedures in a major metro area.
Assuming it is true, do not use georgmicrodong's #2 option. That is fighting crazy with out of your skull psycho. Remember, out of you skull psycho = non-brilliant!
georgmicrodong's option #3 would work. It has a sort of fighting crazy by being nonchalant thing going for it. Kind of like quoting Shakespeare to a crazy homeless guy to get him to leave you alone.
Good catch. I wondered about that too. Most guys here on tuscl who have discovered SA and recounted their stories seem to be using it as a replacement for backpage, and I think bottom trawling is bottom trawling whatever the medium. The chick is obviously a bit crazy for saying something like that, but it's worth a pause to see if she's just saying what other girls are thinking... some of these girls are in pretty desperate situations, and what she described *is* an exit strategy (minus the black, which lands her in trouble; but either way, lands you with 18 years of child support).
Sal, any more backstory on this one?
Had three visits after that to check sperm count. It was kinda funny telling my OIC that I had to take off work to go home and jack off. :)
Whether she'd do it or not, this is her trying to assert a level of dominance over you, but in a very stupid, batshit manner.
She *probably* would not follow through on her threat, because if this were something she'd actually do, she likely wouldn't tell you about it. She'd just show up at your door preggers and greedy.
Regardless... ditch her.
I see a number of different women on a weekly basis so some I support monthly but most per visit basis. Been trying to cut down though have started seeing a few civilian women lately. Going to see where that goes...
Here are some other poster's comments I agree with and wish to highlight.
@orionsmith said, "Sometimes the best counter to crazy is crazy."
@twentyfive said, "I’d ditch her quick."
@flagooner said, "I just plain wouldn't choose to remain in the company of..."