Yes... some of you are hot.
poledancer83
Narnia
During my time dancing i have had some pretty hot customers. Its important to realized dancers are still girls... humans.... so if your sexy then obviously we will think your sexy. Each dancer is different just as each customer is. some prefer older some younger etc. but the bottom line is hot is hot. Ive danced for customers that are super sexy to me. Dancers can be and are attracted to you. If your their type then its only natural. There are two parts to attraction for dancers when dancing. One is physical and the other is money. Money is the universal attractant if you have money then im attracted but the unique attraction is physical. Physical attraction is just as important as money in getting you laid. If im attracted to someone then sex is probably gonna happen. So dont get yourself down if a girl doesnt want to fuck around with you. Its almost only about those two things.
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Don't get yourself down? Just be happy being ugly and poor? Got it. Thanks for the pep-talk.
As a still relatively youngish guy in my 30s, strippers tell me how attractive I am all the time. And then I pay them. I also occasionally venture out into Civilian Land, where fully-clothed civilian women also tell me how attractive I am. And sometimes I offer to pay them, too. Having said that... would you mind if I just suck on your vagina for a while? I'm sure we could work something out together :)
The universally hot guy - I’m not that guy.
Just setting the record straight. I’ve never been recognized as the hot guy - except for the times I’m badly sunburned...
And to think of all the money I spent trying to get them to have sex with me, when they really enjoyed it themselves!!!
Lol.
You can be a short wet back pool cleaning MF but if you feel good about yourself then you'll pull more ass than a rich tall self conscious MF. Period.
Gurls give good advice about everything but girl advice.
Didn't change until I got my IDGAF attitude back that I had in college. Sorry but most girls are attracted to men that don't give a flying fuck about anything other than themselves...well toxic hot girls I should qualify.
Money and looks is more of an entry fee for the most part. Sorry but you need swag for the finish line.
Wanna fuck?
Physical attraction by a woman for a guy partially involves what you said. PD was not excluding the other elements that make a guy attractive. Just raw physical attraction is pretty much a guy thing (or I suppose a one night stand girl mood "get it on" thing...).
But for real. So sick of bitches telling guys what is attractive to then when these hoes are in denial. For the most part treat'em like they ain't shit. If they begrudge you then it's probably a girl with a somewhat healthy sense of self. Super easy to apologize and switch direction and tell then how special and unique they are and not like the other hoes out there
Big mistake to ever treat the women in strip clubs, or anywhere, as anything different from ordinary women. Never treat any of them like 'prostitutes'.
SJG
Now that I'm older money is starting to play a Factor but I still get a lot of complement on being a natural charmer
Strippers like guys with "swag" aka have an air conference about them that adds to their presence, and if she wasn't at work she probably would want to hang out with him anyway. But since she is at work and she is there to make money her cerebral cortex takes over and maybe she'll go to this customer first but if he's broke and she's at work and she has to make money.
Im my dealings with these girls they are more about an emotional experience, the story behind the man, not so much the physical one until after this emotional portion is taken care of... unless of course there's money to be made.
Does not mean, she's gonna jump his dick.
That is when clubbing is the most fun.
I'm still waiting for hot dancers to offer free dances and more because they think I'm hot.