Anybody here like lapdances?

That is like asking Josephus in History Of The World Part I if he is a unich. I know that I'm not one when it comes to lap dances and sometimes it leads to further companionship after her shift. So here is to all lovers of the art of the lap dance....UP Periscope

AN, whenever I've gotten to that point I've almost always warned the dancer by saying something like, if you keep that up I'm going to lose it. I've never had a girl stop when I said that. In fact usually they become more aggressive.

I love lapdances, and until very recently they never lead to anything else. I liked them as an end to themselves, but from both a financial and "frustration" standpoint I'd always found it paid to take some breaks and chat, drink, grope, etc. The sense of having a good customer she'd get usually paid off in better and better lapdances. Chitown pretty much nails how my recent consumation came about. A very skilled dancer had me in a state that few others had brought me to (i.e. on the verge). She seemed very determined, I figured what the heck and offered the slightest encouragement that we were very close if that was her goal (not verbally, but she got the point).

I don't remember a free lap dance that I didn't enjoy.

I've had some free dances offered by dancers, one by someone I knew just to keep quiet. That may have been an all air table dance in that one club from many years ago but I still remember she had one of the hottest bodies I had ever seen and great looking nipples. Oh, I remember a few months ago I had my first free double dance from two girls at the same time. Never found out if a customer I did not know paid for it or if the dancers did it because they liked me or something.

I remember in one military town I suddenly did not enjoy part of the extras offered for free during the lap dance. These free extras or I call them extras were when many of the dancers started biting the customers during the lap dance per some suggestion from some guys who must have been awfully persuasive. The girls usually seemed to go below the belt. They were biting too hard I thought and I kept saying OWW! during the lap dance to let them get the hint. After a while I started to get used to it and it actually felt good if they didn't bite too hard. Then they stopped doing it as suddenly as they started. Makes you wonder if they didn't enjoy it as much. When I initially tried to talk the dancers out of it all I heard from a dancer was some guys told them that they go numb after drinking too much and they are simply giving them some feeling. I had a few beers but I wasn't that numb. Biting my nipples only caused pain. Biting my arm or ear lobes didn't ever excite me but it did make me a little bit nervous.

I like them but I guess I am wierd in that I don't mind a little air in the dance. I don't like the girls who grind so hard or push their pelvis into my chest or stomach or crotch. It just doesn't do it for me... I know some guys love it but it just makes me laugh or get annoyed. I like to see good stage shows and see what happens from there... depends on my mood I guess. I may be in the minority, but I don't actually go to get my rocks off when I go to a club.

But hell... I'd be lying if I said that I minded if it happened more often than not :)

But as I was always told - don't go in expecting something because you might not get it... or worse - might not want it.

liar :)

Unless of course you're one of the unlucky ones who only can get air dances.

No. I don't. :)

I also enjoy lap dances and it's usually my main reason for going to a strip club. I also like cuddling. And interesting conversation. And I enjoy all of them a lot more if I get to know the girl a little first and find that I like her as a person. In fact if I don't find someone like that I'll usually skip the other activities beyond just watching.

I believe Chitown hit on the explanation very succintctly.

Of COURSE I love lap dances. I'm also a very visual and oral guy, so I enjoy looking at a beatiful girl and kissing her, ALMOST as much as her dances. When I can get all three at the same time, it's JACKPOT!

So, MY goal, is to get great lap dances with a beautiful girl, and make them last a VERY long time, with some good views, kissing, and some good conversation.

As for extras, and OTC, etc. I'm definitely up for them, as long as it adds to my goal. In the case of OTC, it most definitely accentuates my experience when I spend even more time with a girl, enjoying those things.

I love lap dances Chandler...at the risk of being a smart ass, a strip club is not the only place you can get them. I am currently seeing two escorts who have both either danced or are still dancing. Both use a lap dance as part of their foreplay repertoire and both are very good at it.

That being said, I go to a club looking for lap dances, not extras or sex, if something else happens with the right girl I'm not going to complain but it's not my motivation for going.

I love lap dances as well, especially when the dancer is happily grinding her pussy on my crotch without stopping (as long as the $$ lasts-- LOL) but whenever I'm in a town that has dancers as obliging and fun like the ones in Houston, Texas, well, I'll do what any straight guy would do: I'd take them up on their services.

I enjoy lap dances for the dance itself. I don't need further enticement but if a dancer wants to please me, I'll take more.

Now Chandler, I like lap dances as much an anyone. In fact, it is the fact that I like them so much that leads to another problem. A well-executed lap dancer (or even one executed with only average prowess, but by a good looking woman) leaves me with a problem. Now, at my age, I do have the ability to apply the old __________ (insert the adjectival form of whatever ethnic group you like to pick on) birth control method, and just let the swelling go down. However, that seems to be squandering an opportunity for an additional kind of enjoyment. I could hit up on Dr. Chitown, but that is hit or miss, as she may not be frisky, esp. if I am getting home after about 11:00. Furthermore, I might be hitting a club as part of an out-of-town business trip, and there is no Dr. Chitown back at the hotel (in fact, until a friend corrupted me earlier this year, out-of-town trips were the only kind I had). I could take matter into my own hands, but that seems to represent developmental regression. Therefore, if I can get a dancer to bring about the "rapturous consummation", that seems to be the most logical and most efficient solution to the problem.

The "take away" message here, Chandler, is not that I seek relief (when I do) because I do not like lap dances, but because I like them all too well.

I like lapdances. Sometimes it's fun to chat with a stripper but most of the time I'd rather just get to it. One of the reasons I avoid the VIP/champagne rooms, besides the high cost, is that I really don't care to spend that much time with a dancer. Three lap dances is usually my max with one girl. And the few girls who I'd describe as ATFs have earned that by their skills on my lap, not their conversational skills.

BTW, I've never be fortunate enough to get any "extras" or action OTC. I've never asked because I always thought it highly unlikely, but since I've been reading the postings here I've discovered that it happens more often than I thought (either that or you're all lying, which may be the more likely explanation) Well, another explanation, I guess, is that I never take enough time to get to know a girl well enough.