Did I mess up?

26 comments

• PrimetimeSchein

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  7 years ago

  But she was a 4 lol If she was hotter this wouldn't even be a discussion
• flagooner

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  7 years ago

  If you aren't attracted, why even consider it? The options seem to me to be: 1. Send her packing, or 2. Throw down a couple of shots hoping she starts looking better.
• JohnTitor

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  7 years ago

  Seems more like dodging a bullet.
• Cashman1234

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  7 years ago

  I would have given her a go. It had to fuck her up to find her bf with another guy. She was definitely worth a round in vip - but my standards are very low...
• wallanon

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  7 years ago

  How did she look after she changed into her business attire?
• Subraman

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  7 years ago

  -->"At best she is a 4" Geez man, I could have stopped reading after that :) Me personally, I don't go to strip clubs to fuck 4s, no matter how horny they are
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  7 years ago

  No.
• WillMunny

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  7 years ago

  Unless your rating scale works on a curve, and/or you were particularly hard up, the 4 rating is sufficient to justify you passing on this "opportunity." Just for additional analysis, though, if her story is her boyfriend was bi on the down-low that's an enormous red flag. She claimed they were together 8 years, so it's impossible to imagine he wasn't still giving it to her at least occasionally, and who knows how safely he was playing with her or his boy(s) on the side? It's also possible this is the gal's hustle - outlandish story that builds both sympathy and visions of freakiness dancing in your PL head, whereas a conventional approach you would've dismissed right off the bat. The only potential up-side to engaging would be her openness to really get her freak on in that circumstance, but the most willing/horny/submissive 4 is still a 4. You made a good call.
• JohnSmith69

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  7 years ago

  She was a 4. Anything under a 7 is not worthy of discussion. A 6 if Mary Jane is clubbing.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  Sounds like you were not feeling-her, thus not worth it - plus she sounds a bit off her rocker and can potentially become a PITA
• beekers

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  7 years ago

  Like it says below, everything a stripper says should be considered a work of fiction. I'd say you did right to pass and stick with the known quantity.
• londonguy

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  7 years ago

  I'd never engage in any kind of sexual experience with a girl below a 7. You did the right thing.
• san_jose_guy

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  7 years ago

  Well, if a girl jumps on you like that, you have no choice but to decide fast. For me, if I want to go for the girl I'll find some way to turn it around, make it like I am chasing after her. The way to do this is to act like you are screening her. Talk to her some, ask a couple of questions, and if she seem to pass this sham test, then start coming on to her. If you don't want to go for her, best to find a polite way to brush her off right at the start, some kind of an excuse, so it is not about what she looks like. A 4? Well, for me that would not settle it, really it is about, "do I like her?" SJG
• flagooner

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  7 years ago

  Now, if it was a freebie... Yes, I'm a cheapskate.
• JamesSD

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  7 years ago

  For me I would skip a 4 and would bang a 6. 4s are girls I won't touch in the civvy world. 6s you bang if it's free but try not to get in a relationship with (unless they are amazing in many other ways)
• Huntsman

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  7 years ago

  Tough call if it was a juice bar. If alcohol was available and she could’ve passed for a 5 or 6 at that point...
• san_jose_guy

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  7 years ago

  ^^^^^^^^ :) :) :) FWIW, I also have had dancers come onto me while still in their street clothes. I think they get some sort of self-affirmation from doing it that way. SJG
• rl27

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  7 years ago

  For a 4 no. Anything below a 7 is not worth it. Especially with dancers, were often their rating drops if you happen to see them before they are all made up for the the club.
• mark94

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  7 years ago

  The way you describe her sounds more like meth than ADHD.
• rh48hr

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  7 years ago

  Usually a 4 is an end of the night slump buster in a regular club not a strip club.
• Htxx

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  7 years ago

  Let's see... The guy she's been fucking, has been fucking other guys. Yeah. Deal breaker for me right there. Chances of picking up a bug from her are infinately higher. No thanks, pass.. throw in the fact she's a 4? WTF dude I'd rather beat off
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  7 years ago

  "Last night an ugly lunatic wanted to fuck me and I said 'no'. Now I'm worried that I fucked up. Did I fuck up?" #onlyontuscl
• georgmicrodong

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  7 years ago

  @[view link].Ishmael: Exactly!
• rickdugan

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  7 years ago

  She is a 4 and a headcase. No, you didn't fuck up. Your eyes and your instincts both said no and you listed to them.
• rickdugan

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  7 years ago

  listened
• san_jose_guy

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  7 years ago

  Yes, there are some really forward and some really talkative girls. I also have been turned off by obvious druggies. @grand, might you elaborate about her being a '4'? Face, figure, skin, age, weight? How old, how heavy? In full stripper regalia, how do you think she would rate? Of course the real issue is not what might have happened with her in the back room, but rather, would she be a girl you would like to know and be bedding down with? Oh well, especially when pressed like that, one has to just trust their instincts. Care to give us some idea where this was, and what the typical club mileage was like? SJG Tumbling Dice, live outtakes [view link]