Why didn't I try SA sooner

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• RandomMember

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  7 years ago

  I've had six over a period of about two years. The longest lasted about a year. I only go for college girls and filter out strippers. Wonderful, pretty, responsible, interesting, girls with a bright future that I can trust at my house with unprotected sex. Maybe I have a sort of college-girl fetish -- but being fixated on strippers is also a kind of weird fetish (you might call it RickDugan Syndrome. To each his own.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  7 years ago

  Get thee to Subraman's article on the subject: [view link]
• RandomMember

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  7 years ago

  I think everyone should go OTC with a stripper at least once as a bucket-list item. After that, you go on to something better.
• jackslash

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  7 years ago

  I tried SA without any luck--and I have 2 large universities near me. I think these were my mistakes. I posted my real age and my real pictures.
• Doces300

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  7 years ago

  Have posted both of those things too, but the offers keep coming lol.
• twentyfive

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  7 years ago

  I got plenty of offers, but most of the pics were either old or accented in such a way to make the girls appear better than when I met with them. I did find 2 on SA that were ok but most of them were prostitutes and not what I was looking for, generally I prefer strippers most of them are way hotter than these girls and I have never not been able to find a stripper that I could have a good time with.
• shailynn

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  7 years ago

  Ha this I saw my luck... I met a few girls in different cities over the years on SA and it’s predecessor, [view link]. I always went for women more my age (over 30, under 40) and often met women actually older than me. Here’s what I found. Find a woman over 30 on there and there’s a good chance she’s bar shit crazy or still married and wants some side action. Sometimes some just want some attention and don’t even want money, 8 years ago those girls were common, not so much today. My best story ever is I met a married woman on SA. Our distance was too far apart for it to work, anyway I told her about [view link] and she ended up meeting an attorney, and left her husband for him. It’s a cycle for her, she’ll eventually leave the attorney as well.
• Papi_Chulo

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  7 years ago

  This is another article about sugar-babies written by TUSCLer "sinclair": [view link]
• Subraman

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  7 years ago

  -->"What is the downside of this service?" For me, the main downsides are: - As with escorts or any other picture-based service, prepare to be disappointed often with her looks vs. how hot her pics are. - Unlike with escorts, expect worse-than-strippers level flakiness on the whole (which doesn't mean there aren't high-quality, reliable girls on SA; just that overall, the flakiness level is worse than strippers) Keeping in mind that I have a chronic and severe case of Rick Dugan syndrome, as defined by RM, I've found that the girls with the highest combination of hot looks + exciting fun personalities are all strippers and ex-strippers. I've met some wonderful sweet college girls, all of whom lacked in looks (vs. a stripper) or that heart-pounding excitement factor (vs. a stripper) or both. On the upside, many current strippers have SA profiles. It's become a conversation point in the club, and once the stripper realizes you're looking for a sugarbaby, it'll be her asking you to go OTC, at least that's been my experience.
• joc13

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  7 years ago

  In Atlanta, most of the offers I got came from black girls. Many of them were really hot, but not my interest. The hot young white girls I contacted generally turned out to not be interested. They wanted guys in 30s and possibility for the SBtoMRS upgrade. Or, if they were interested had severe cases of GPS. One 19yr old college girl wanted $300 per date for non-sexual get to know you dates until she got comfy enough for sex in which case it would be $500. I might do $500 for a long date with a really hot chick, but I ain't spending $300 x ? for coffee dates and dinners not knowing if sex will ever come. My current SB from SA makes me happy. She's probably only a 6 in the looks department, but she's a 10 in sex and 10 in value and is turning into quite the accomplished PL wingman.
• Mate27

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  7 years ago

  Shailynn, how do/did you keep your wife from seeing the SA app or sugar daddies log ins? Or do you use a separate phone for that side action? My SO has access to all of my personal phone apps, online access(history) yet she never sifts through them, anyway. Course she wouldn't find anything but tuscl, and that's as bad as it gets. Porn is too much for me these days, maybe once monthly. Anyhow, just curious how a married man can keep dusting his tracks so well?
• RandomMember

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  7 years ago

  SB math: My area has 55,000 college students within driving distance and the published SA participation rate is 8%. That means 4400 college students online, which sounds about right. If the top 30% of those have stripper looks or above, that leaves about 1320 to choose from. This is vastly more the than the stripper population in the 18-23 yro range in my area. Probably by at least a factor of 10. My wife's out of town this week and on Tues evening and went to three strip clubs in my area, paying the cover three times, and scouting out the talent. One of the clubs is a high-end low-contact place. I don't buy dances which I find a complete waste of money. I admit that Tues evening is not a great time for clubbing, but the selection out there is just not even close to what you can find online. And at the dives, there are some really hideous, flabby, dancers out there. Stands to reason that the really hot young girls who are willing to have sex with older guys will prefer one professional guy over grinding on random dicks all night. This seems so obvious to me, and the rise of sugaring probably has everything to do with the decline of stripper quality. My opinion is an outlier on TUSCL, but it's mainstraim on the sugaring forums. When the subject of strippers comes up over there, it's usually a discussion of how to avoid them.
• ajvj

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  7 years ago

  So u keep paying monthly for SA whether you get a SB r no
• Doces300

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  7 years ago

  @Meat72 I don't know how shailynn does it but my phone is fingerprint locked then they are in an Icon fingerprint locked. I have my private CC she does not know exists and a private bank account she knows exists but has no access to and doesn't care to.
• shailynn

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  7 years ago

  Meat I haven’t been on SA for years, and I would never publicly post a photo on there. You can set internet browsers to delete all search history every time you close them. Lastly, only play when I travel, always behaving when at home, I don’t even go to strip clubs when I’m at home even when she’s out of town.
• Warrenboy75

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  7 years ago

  I've commented a couple of times on here about this but never, ever, ever post a picture. Keep a separate e-mail account just for SA that is not tied directly to your browser-preferably an overseas account....think hushmail, safe-mail, or even some of the less known. ( keep the hell off of gmail or yahoo, or aol, or even [view link] Keep a separate and private bank account, preferably where you have nothing else and where any statements/info is sent paperless to the account not on your browser. I've met everything on SA from college students to teachers to nurses, to actresses......strippers as well. I've been lucky in some ways and not so lucky in others. For the most part the girl in the pictures has been the girl I first meet. Only once was I ever unpleasantly surprised and I'm not sure why women do this because in the end they set themselves up for failure. She knew five minutes in any chance was dead. The two best women I have met were not strippers when I met them but became strippers after we parted ways. Not sure what that means. Stripping changed both of them and not for the good. The one is drop dead gorgeous. Although SA isn't what it was five years ago in places such as DC the quality of women you find on there is still high but then if your think about it a lot of colleges, a high cost of living, and a lifestyle all around them that promotes money and power.
• Dougster

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  7 years ago

  How much do you guys pay compared to OTC w/ strippers?
• Dougster

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  7 years ago

  Never mind. Rates around Manhattan probably gonna be vastly different. Any JAPs on SA? Hehe
• ajvj

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  7 years ago

  So for all you SA experts out there. I had signed up a account sometime back but never really checked. I din't pay or upgrade guess it was a free registration. After this discussion came up I just logged into check and I couldn't send any messages. I got mail notification saying someone has sent a msg and all I see is upgrade to read. Is this a trick to get me to pay for site or there r actual ppl sending me msgs.
• twentyfive

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  7 years ago

  ^^^you will have legitimate messages from sugar babies and other females but yes you need to upgrade to read them My advice to you is don’t do endless messages back and forth if you don’t get a phone number to call within 2 messages just move on also be sure to schedule meetings at a diner or coffee shop for lunch. that way if she’s not to your liking it will not cost more than a few dollars. If you can’t ace a meeting in a phone call or two move on. By the end of a month (their minimum) you’ll have more phone numbers than you know what to do with.
• ajvj

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  7 years ago

  @twenty-five thanks. So I will pay for a month and see hw it goes. I don know will I get a otc for pay pr visit like bp or cl with out monthly commitment and if their rates are in my budget.
• twentyfive

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  7 years ago

  PM Rando Member he knows the most about how SA works Subraman also has a good handle on it.
• Subraman

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  7 years ago

  There are lots and lots of fake profiles and scammers on SA, just like on any other sex-based site. You won't have any idea if your messages are from legit profiles, or scammers, or legit profiles who happen to live 300 miles away, or anything else, until you pay, alas. In my experience, most of the higher quality girls -- with quality either as RM defines it (smart college girls) or as I define it (hot fun stripper-like girls) -- will wait for you to contact them. Girls who contact me first, well, I'm not sure I've EVER had that work out. They tend to be: scammers, girls who want an "I'll send you pics and vids and you send me money" arrangement, less-attractive and older women, and volume-oriented escorts. None of the types of girls I'm targeting initiate the emails. I'm sure it's possible, I just don't see it. Make sure the first thing you do is a google image search on every one of their public pics, and then do it with their private pics as soon as they give you access.
• ajvj

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  7 years ago

  @subraman, thanks as always for ur insights. I guessed it so. Ppl messaging me in these kinda sites have always been scammers. Now I will have to decide if I pay and go this route or stick with SC.
• Warrenboy75

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  7 years ago

  I've had a much more positive experience........not sure why. If you look at a profile and the girl looks back or pings you take a chance. I've generally found younger women to be more forward. All I try to accomplish at first is to get them off the site and into communicating. The ones that start off with money as the topic I weed out--also if they want to message back and forth after a couple of days I move on. --and no expectations on the first meet---she shouldn't be expecting money and I have no expectations except to verify I am dealing with the girl in the pictures and she is sane. You can search your preferences and distance. I feel I am particular, very particular and I stick to what I know I want regardless of how long it takes to find a good match. I've been stood up once or twice along the way but in my case I am typically traveling out of town and need to get out of the hotel anyway.......and the girls come and go but as long as you keep a level head you should be find.