Thoughts on the fantasy aspect of SC'ing
chitownlawyer
Florida
Saturday, February 3, 2007 7:44 PM
About a year ago, I met a stripper who looks a lot like Penelope Cruz, with long hair, an incredibly ripped abdomen, and a thin build except for firm natural boobs. She was a steady member of my "A" team at the local club that I frequent. In the last couple of weeks, I found out that she is a lesbian (most dancers I know who will cop to liking girls will soften by saying that they are bi-...not this lady. She is pure mackeral snapper.) Furthermore, I saw her leave the club, and without her stripper clothes and make-up she looks just like a boy. Indeed, I found out why she won't let me touch her long black hair--it is a wig! In real life, she has almost a buzz cut.
Although I have always been a strong proponent of the philosophy that says, "Don't mix the real world and fantasy", I have been almost embarassed to discover how little she appeals to me now that I have discovered her "truth." Mind you, I never had any pretensions about getting her outside the club. But the idea that she has no interest in men at all, coupled by her butch appearance, have completely put me off of a dancer that I used to hope to see at the club.
Does this experience mean that I need to work on separating out fantasy from reality? Perhaps constant vigilance is the price of mental freedom in a strip club.
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