Can't pull the trigger
PrimetimeSchein
Michigan
To all my fellow mongers out there, I have a question for you. Is there any club where you've had apprehension to visit?? You've read the reviews and it sounds like a nice time can be had but you can't just seem to make yourself go.
What reasons would stop you from going? Location, price, fears of being clipped, untrustworthy staff?
I'm asking because it's a club I've been considering trying out but whenever I'm out clubbing I just can't seem to go. Just something seems off about that place. So I wanted to see has this happened to anyone else before...
What reasons would stop you from going? Location, price, fears of being clipped, untrustworthy staff?
I'm asking because it's a club I've been considering trying out but whenever I'm out clubbing I just can't seem to go. Just something seems off about that place. So I wanted to see has this happened to anyone else before...
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After all you're not really living life if you haven't been shot at once or twice.
Most of the time you can sense when you are doing something you shouldn't be doing.
I've been apprehensive about certain clubs mainly thinking they would not be very good but still checked them out for myself and usually ended up having at least a decent time.
If you have doubs then just do a recon trip on a slow shift (midweek evening maybe around 9:30 pm) when the clubs are usually docile and u can get a feel for the place.
I've learned that I rather check out clubs with my own eyes b/c everyone's taste is not the same; but if most of the TUSCL reviews say stay away, then I may not bother.
Like Papi, in a bad neighborhood, I'll reconnoiter on a slow day, read up on the neighborhood and where to park. In my city, there's only 3 strip clubs in bad neighborhoods, but for years 2 of those clubs where the best clubs in town. Figured out the neighborhood, where to park, brought a defensive tool when warranted... no worries, no problems
Thus I'm not used to hitting clubs where one has to park street-side, sometimes a couple of blocks away, and then walk to the club - but this is what I had to do when I visited NJ last year and hit some black dives in Irvinton and one in Paterson - I was def not comfortable parking a block or 2 away then having to walk to the club in an unfamiliar area with not the best rep, but I ended up having a great time and fucking 7 different hos b/w the 3 dives I hit, it was a pretty-memorable trip
this happens to me all the time. i guess it is part of the excitement.
They can't keep your CC if you don't use it.
Location rarely is an issue for me. Even in the most dangerous areas, most violence occurs between people that know each other. Mind your business and you will be fine. Clubs will not survive if they are in an area that is so dangerous customers stay away. Whoever runs the club will make sure that the area immediately around the club is safe to park. In Newark I tip the homeless guy on the street not because he will protect my car from others but because I know he will do something if I don't.
In my experience, brawls in Stripclubs happen far less often than in other bars. When I've seen them it was almost always between people that knew each other. I do hear about them in the news more often than other clubs. I assume this is because there is the titillation factor of it being a strip club. With that said, the one man I know that was killed in a bar brawl was at a stripclub. The one person I know that killed a man in a bar brawl was at a neighborhood bar. I still frequent both locations.
Neither of the clubs that first come to mind have TUSCL reviews (maybe no fat, old, bald guy has made it out alive to write one.) If there were any, I might take that into account, but as often as not, a new manager will post a bunch of CLUB ADS on TUSCL, Yelp, etc., to try to drum up business, while people are still getting stabbed and robbed out front.
7 nuts in one night?! I thought the multiple LDKers in one evening were something else, but they have nothing (or is it nutthing?) on you! I suppose you don't have to nut every time (and it might not happen if covered), but still...
1st nut was on a late Fr afternoon visit, then FSed two more bitches on that same visit where I got hard both times but didn't nut (I don't mind fucking and not nutting b/c I can fuck for 30-minutes or more straight).
2nd nut was on Fr eve.
Then FSed 3 more bitches on Sat afternoon and was hard with all 3 but didn't bust b/c of the prev day's 2 nuts - 6 of the 7 FS's were barside fucks in dives (ebony would put condom-on on the diwn-lo while I sat on my barstool, she would turn around standing in front of me with her back to me, then in would go the banana from the back similar to doggy-style and it would just look like she was grinding on me, for w/e reason I find that type of barside fucking enticing and kinda fun/exciting - since I didn't bust on most of the FS's, some of those ebonies I'd be fucking for up to 30-minutes straight (those bitches didn't complain and knew how to fuck and they def put in some work) - I paid them b/w $80 and $100 and some reviewers state paying just $40 or.$50, but I did have them on lockdown for a good while (and barside dances were just $10).
Closest I've come to public sex was a handy and some FIV while seated in a booth in the main club. Next was the infamous group VIP at Bogart's (metro Detroit) where a half dozen couples would be at various stages of engagement on padded chairs in the semi-private group VIP area. Bogarts has redesigned the VIP to have more private booths.
I’m a tall, skinny, pasty white guy - and I know that I stand out like a white golf flag in some AA clubs. I checked out a few Irvington NJ clubs before going. It turned out to be a great time, so it was a good experience, but I believe it’s good to be aware.
I still have yet to pull the trigger on driving to Detroit. It's the $$ for gas, hotel, extras, OTC, etc. It's like a 6 hour round trip. Maybe I'd take a vacation day or move my schedule so I'm not trying to do night shift and try day shift instead. It just seems unnecessary when I have 4 or 5 clubs within 10 minute drive. But I know the Detroit clubs are probably better.
Hearing that a club is in a bad neighborhood doesn't really scare me. I'm black so I blend in well with the thugs lol. The thing that scares me more is seeing a review that says air dances. Much worse than gun toting thugs for me.
* Would rather hit up my home club (and have a guaranteed good time)
* No attractive girls at the club (or just not my type)
* Clip joint
* It's an air dancing/no-touching club
* Don't want to pay cover/drink minimums just to get my matchbook
That inner voice is there for a reason. I will venture into most any club, even some in very sketchy areas. As a female monger I rarely feel any fear (clubbing in the daytime helps with that, lol). But there are a few places with known violent pasts that I do avoid, like Sam's Haufbrau in DTLA for example. I always listen to that gut feeling, whether it's for a stripclub or a grocery store. Bad mojo is bad mojo regardless of the destination.