Dancers that talk about their husbands or boy friends.
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Why do they do it? Is it their way of telling you that you have no chance? I won't say that this is widespread. Seems like it would be counter productive. But still some do it.
I'm thinking of one Follies dancer in particular. She is NOT hot but is likable. She is sweet and will sit and talk to you as long as you want and if you decide to give her a pity dance, you won't be disappointed. But she constantly brings up her BF.
Then there was tumblingdice's GF. She would call me on the phone and fuck my ear for 30 minutes telling me what the ass hole had done. I don't want to hear it.
I'm thinking of one Follies dancer in particular. She is NOT hot but is likable. She is sweet and will sit and talk to you as long as you want and if you decide to give her a pity dance, you won't be disappointed. But she constantly brings up her BF.
Then there was tumblingdice's GF. She would call me on the phone and fuck my ear for 30 minutes telling me what the ass hole had done. I don't want to hear it.
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That doesn't mean they are successful.
On the other hand i've had girls tell me that they haven't had sex in a very long time. Strangely, these girls were kind of lame opposed to GGG. i didn't want to hear about that if i couldn't do anything about it. One even said that her husband didn't give her sex much at all and never went down on her. ...............................................
I listen to what they say about their SO, and I can see it there way. But I also know that I am glad that I am not their SO.
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I think it serves mabe three purposes, 1. Because you will listen is probably the main answer...nobody else will listen to her. 2. because she wants you to feel sorry for her and give her $$, 3. She wants you to feel like there is a chance to be her new bf so giver her $$
I did meet one about a year ago who talked about another dancer who girlfriend who works in a different club in the area. From what I gathered they both used to work in the same club, but the dancer I was talking to doesn't like seeing or thinking about her getting doing things with other guys. Yet, she didn't have any problem giving me and other customers some very intense lap dances among other things.
As much as we like to make fun of SS, and keep some emotional distance from the strippers we love to grope, the fact is = they are human. They are capable of very human, and often very convoluted scheming and thinking.
2. Just letting off steam.
3. Prepping you, so her cuck can watch someday. (Yeah, Dream on you perv.)
4. Making conversion.
If I don't know a stripper well, it's a big turnoff, and I take it as a sign she wants to maintain a bit of distance.
After building a bit of rapport with a dancer over time I look at it differently.
My M.O. is to find strippers I genuinely like and enjoy the company of (who also give very high mileage dances). While it is probably often SS, as the relationship builds I actually appreciate when a stripper feels comfortable enough to trust me with that part of her life. It helps me with my fantasy that she really cares about me.
Other benefits:
It provides quite a bit more opportunity for better conversation.
A sympathetic ear can often lead to enhanced attention.
I'm a suckered for drama and actually enjoy some of the stories.
Example:
My ATF told me that her baby daddy came back in the picture (after getting out of jail) and that she was giving him another chance. She told me because he didn't like that she got texts from her regulars and she asked me to respect that. She assured me that it was a last chance and that she wouldn't allow him to drive her back to her old bad habits (luckily she apparently considers grinding on older men's cocks as a good habit).
Surprise, surprise. A couple months later she greeted me as I came into the club enthusiastically. She needed a shoulder to cry on. She "loves" this guy but he had been treating her like shit.
After I commiserate and relate how we both go through similar things we go up for dances. I'll just say it was the best experience I had ever had in a SC, before or since.
I find the enjoyment much more intense when I do allow feelings to develop. When I get off from a stripper I don't really know, it doesn't feel much different than masturbating, only lazier and much more expensive.
The problem with getting this close to a stripper is the vulnerability ito can create. It makes it even more important, but harder, to remember that what goes on inside the doors is fantasyland and that I have to turn that all off when I go back outside.
I think some of them are just clueless - I recall a SW thread a while back a young-dancer asking if it was ok for her to wear either her wedding or engagement ring in the club - most of the SW dancers adviced against it but this young dancer was defiant that "she was in-love" and she never wanted to take her ring off even when at the club.
Dancers are at the club to make $$$; and it's clear-cut for them - for the young inexperienced dancers it probably does not cross their minds that there are custies that don't see it just as clearly (busine$$ only) and thus it does not cross their mind that it would affect certain custies.
And some do it as a way to keep some distance as for custies not to ask them on dates.