Why won't she take my $20?

If you were doing all that for free why give her $20 let alone vip?

Some strippers aren't that bright (much like some PLs...).

Keep eating at the free buffet my friend ...why destroy a good thing

If you're getting all that for free, she might think you expect sex for 20 and wants more than 20. Maybe try 40.

Maybe she doesn't trust you.

She wants to be your wife

@chessmaster "If you were doing all that for free why give her $20 let alone vip?"

I don't ever do VIP but I feel the $20 dances you get are better if the girl thinks she'll eventually go to the VIP with you. It doesn't have to be a fantasy for just 1 of us.

The reason why I offered $20 is because I think the girls that let you touch for free should be rewarded. And if she's letting you touch her tits and pussy for free, you're generally able to get more extras out of her.

@juicebox69 "Keep eating at the free buffet my friend ...why destroy a good thing"

In my experience, girls either see you as a paying customer or non-paying customer. At the end of the day, she'll realize you groped all over her and she didn't make any money. At least if you're feeding her a $20 now and then, she'll keep coming over to try to make that VIP fantasy of hers happen.

@sharkhunter "Maybe try 40."

She has to earn my $20/visit first before we move up to $40/visit.

"girls that let you touch for free should be rewarded" i agree but why not just tip singles and 5's rather than that one 20. get more time for groping if you split up that 20.

i guess it depends on where you are. in my next to " most favored club" in los angeles it usually means ' maybe'. in tj... it means a green light.

dang. i love these girls.

It means that she doesn't want to waste her time for $20 when there are other customers willing to pay the VIP price without further testing.

Just to clarify - she was sitting on your lap in an open area of the club. To get your $20 would require moving to a different area - possibly a lap dance area? If that's the case - then it's an upsell - as she wanted you to take her to VIP and not the $20 dance area.

I doubt she would refuse if you slipped a $20 in her garter or hand.

Who knows. There might be a camera in the lap dance area, or the dj/bouncer might have a better view there. It could be that she doesn't want one person to get a cut of her money, but is okay with someone else. There's a lot behind the scenes that we can't explain in case you were to tell the wrong girls.

It's hard to know. It's like a guy visiting a club first time offering $5000 to a dancer at Platinum Plus in Greenville SC to try to get sexual services. He was told you have the wrong girl. He wasn't an expert undercover officer that had spent a year doubling money several times to get the girls to crack eventually spending up to $2000 a visit to get a few of the girls to break the law. The undercover officers got nothing when they spent the kind of money everyone else who's not a billionaire like Trump spends in a strip club. I heard they got nothing when they doubled the money again and again. It took a year and they got the money up to $2000 a visit before they had success in getting illegal activity with a few girls at the club. Obviously this club had to be shut down because it was deemed a hot bed of illegal prostitution. They even had simulated sexual motions in one or two cases. A girl probably pretended to move her hands on front of her mouth as a joke when an agent asked about something before telling him she didnt do that. I think these agents could have busted Nina for something illegal even if she didn't do anything wrong in most people's eyes.