Amateur vs Professional PL
shailynn
They never tell you what you need to know.
It seems like recently there are mostly two types of PLs on this board, the professionals which have been at it for years and can offer great advice, and the beginners who are just getting their feet wet. No disrespect to the beginners, we all started there too.
There's also a few who should be professionals but for some reason just don't get it, so they are stuck in the middle somewhere which seems to be a desolate wasteland. Those guys who have been clubbing for 5+ years steadily but have yet to do OTC, or have sex inside the club, etc. etc.
What experience has made you feel like you've "arrived" and become a professional?
There's also a few who should be professionals but for some reason just don't get it, so they are stuck in the middle somewhere which seems to be a desolate wasteland. Those guys who have been clubbing for 5+ years steadily but have yet to do OTC, or have sex inside the club, etc. etc.
What experience has made you feel like you've "arrived" and become a professional?
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Earlier this year, I had a dancer tell me "You know, there's pluses and minuses when it comes to guys like you who know what they're doing." Possibly SS, but I don't think so.
Now when I walk into the club, everybody just says, "JACK."
I'd give up one of my nuts to relive that weekend.
I still am learning and I have been clubbing off and on for decades. Despite my supposed varied experience from air dances to ... in various types of clubs in most of the lower 48 I am sometimes not much better than some PL beginners, There are times when I catch myself thinking what if? LOL then I move on. But I do avoid basic beginner mistakes like: real names, using credit cards and avoid most ROB's etc. so maybe I could be a semi pro.
Agreed. But there's still a lot worse out there, so I try not to complain.
Those are my sentiments exactly. And so I look for ways that men and women might relate differently. Originally strip clubs for me were just a curiosity. Now, what has been learned in them is my source for building an entirely different kind of life.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CGMJiGe…
SJG
Well recently, I paid off the mortgage on one of my rentals. That freed up several hundred dollars a month of cash flow. I decided it was time to stop saving, and live a little. I don't care if there is a better use for my money. I wanna grab some inappropriately young T&A every week!
I started young in the game so for my first twelve years was in the waist land for sure..18-30...was also married during this time
Then I found tuscl and had my divorce..not connected but sounds funny....from 30-36 I've just now left the waist land and have started making a strong case for my Pro Card.
Application goes as follows
1. One stripper I dated and lived with for three and half years.
2. ITC at in five clubs with about 50 different dancers
3. OTC at 3 different clubs with about 10 different girls.
4. I've LDK aka LapGasm so many times I can't honesty count it lol
Above statistics are from the time I found tuscl from age 30-36
I thought jackslash was gonna say "when I became a mobile ATM, I knew I had arrived." !!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've read about the process of negotiating extras as far back as 2013, shortly after I moved to the Detroit area. That helped make my transition into the extras scene go smoothly.
I regret that I can no longer compete in the PL Olympics.
I was a pretty solid tic tac toe player but I could never beat this guy:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLdGsUG5…
It would be nice if dancers paid me. One did buy me a drink the last time she saw me. I've gotten free dances from dancers including a free double dance but I've never been paid to allow dancers to dance for me. I'm an amateur. There might have been a couple of dancers who I might have been able to talk them into paying me for a back massage. I've had 2 different dancers say I have skills and one asked if I was a professional masseuse. I rarely tell dancers that I may have skills. They like it too much. Hmmm, that might be a way to get some free action away from the club.
I've lost more money to ROBs, air dances, and straight up escort robberies than some guys have spent on dances in the strip club. I consider myself a pro.
When I returned to clubbing back in '15, I let the Ohio anti-strip club laws passed 10 years ago trip me up by reading to much into the no-nudity no-contact laws and ordinances. After a rocky trip and a half I was pretty much back into it. Even started getting solicited by dancers for OTC.
But, keep in mind that 90% of the guys who go to a strip club just get a few dances, pay too much for booze, and then go home. They have no idea that ITC or OTC is available, and if they create a cum puddle in their pants it's a source of embarrassment rather than accomplishment.
So, yeah, there is a pretty wide experience gap between those guys and a lot of the guys who post/review here.
I haven't seen this, but according to him they sit, chat, drink, and maybe tip at the stage. No lapdances or VIPs, for obvious reasons. I can't imagine the dancers are thrilled, but the clubs are happy to sell booze.
Yeah, not everyone goes to strip clubs looking for dances, let alone ITC or OTC.
SJG