Kind of feel bad for the girl
PrimetimeSchein
Michigan
So looking at the title, I know you're thinking what the fuck has he gotten himself into. Well guys it's not that type of thread bare with me.
Went into my usual club a couple of weeks ago and I ran into I guess you would call it one of my ATF. We don't have each other's numbers but whenever I see her she always takes care of me for a good price.
I've seen her on and off for almost a year so we do have some repore. Checking off SS: bum boyfriend who she supports, has a kid, and never remembers my name (because I change it Everytime) but remembers my face.
It's been about three months since I last seen her so we catch up on what's been going on. She talks about the job and the new day shift manager. Tells me how her and this girl banged this guy and he ran out the club without paying. But he was so drunk he forgot he didn't drive to the club. Just wild ass stripper Chronicles.
So as we're talking I ask is the black cloth on her arm apart of her outfit. She says no and takes it off to show me about 25 stitches she got from falling thru a glass table. She claims she tripped over daughter Legos and fell into the table. Obvious SS so I ask her WTF happened. She was arguing with her deadbeat boyfriend at the time and claimed that he pushed her and tripped on the toy not that he pushed her thru the table. She also went on to show me a couple bruises she had on her arms from the guy grabbing her up.
Now I'm fuckin heated at this point. Regardless of SS whenever a pussy ass bitch puts their hands on a woman I get pissed. She tried to seduce me and take me to VIP but I cut it off. I told her she couldn't dance for me until she dropped the jackass. Not because I love her or have any remote feelings for her. Simply because he's only there because of the cash. If she doesn't make any money he'll find a new victim. In turn she gets pissed at me and walks away.
Like I said Idk her well enough to know have feelings for her or none of that shit. But seeing she is a victim of DV it does piss me off she's making excuses for the asshole. Not to mention she's expertly skilled in VIP but I couldn't do it.
So my fellow brothers in arms, was I wrong? Should I kept the arrangement going or what? Have you ever broke it off with an ATF for similar reasons. Looking for all opinions and takes
Went into my usual club a couple of weeks ago and I ran into I guess you would call it one of my ATF. We don't have each other's numbers but whenever I see her she always takes care of me for a good price.
I've seen her on and off for almost a year so we do have some repore. Checking off SS: bum boyfriend who she supports, has a kid, and never remembers my name (because I change it Everytime) but remembers my face.
It's been about three months since I last seen her so we catch up on what's been going on. She talks about the job and the new day shift manager. Tells me how her and this girl banged this guy and he ran out the club without paying. But he was so drunk he forgot he didn't drive to the club. Just wild ass stripper Chronicles.
So as we're talking I ask is the black cloth on her arm apart of her outfit. She says no and takes it off to show me about 25 stitches she got from falling thru a glass table. She claims she tripped over daughter Legos and fell into the table. Obvious SS so I ask her WTF happened. She was arguing with her deadbeat boyfriend at the time and claimed that he pushed her and tripped on the toy not that he pushed her thru the table. She also went on to show me a couple bruises she had on her arms from the guy grabbing her up.
Now I'm fuckin heated at this point. Regardless of SS whenever a pussy ass bitch puts their hands on a woman I get pissed. She tried to seduce me and take me to VIP but I cut it off. I told her she couldn't dance for me until she dropped the jackass. Not because I love her or have any remote feelings for her. Simply because he's only there because of the cash. If she doesn't make any money he'll find a new victim. In turn she gets pissed at me and walks away.
Like I said Idk her well enough to know have feelings for her or none of that shit. But seeing she is a victim of DV it does piss me off she's making excuses for the asshole. Not to mention she's expertly skilled in VIP but I couldn't do it.
So my fellow brothers in arms, was I wrong? Should I kept the arrangement going or what? Have you ever broke it off with an ATF for similar reasons. Looking for all opinions and takes
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A. Learn to fucking listen!
If it's a hustle, then I'd still not give her any of my money because that type of hustle is fucking vile.
I hope she comes around and dumps her boyfriend - as he sounds like a total loser.
Is he the father of her kid? If so - that could make it more difficult.
Why do girls get involved with abusive guys? One possibility is that if their father was abusive, they may assume that all men are abusive and look for that. It's called "transference" and @DrPhil can explain it to you.
Thanks for all the positive comments guys. I wasn't trying to be heroic or shit like that but nobody deserved to get their ass kick let alone pushed thru a table.
I don't think it was SS because the boyfriend has been a certified bum the whole time I've known her. Never had a job and wouldn't watch their kid while she worked. This is the first time I've heard of the DV thing so maybe she tried leaving him IDK.
Why get emotional over something that you didn't choose?
That's fair, but it's your issue not hers. If you're not her friend or her family, that's got nothing to do with you.
"So my fellow brothers in arms, was I wrong? Should I kept the arrangement going or what?"
No. But not because you did something particularly noteworthy or honorable. If the situation isn't working for you, as a customer you walk away. It's that simple.
"Have you ever broke it off with an ATF for similar reasons. Looking for all opinions and takes"
Sort of. My ATF (there's only ever one)? No. For another example it was mainly because the other guy in the picture was having a tough time dealing with the situation and I didn't need the drama. I was being uncharacteristically sloppy about the whole deal, so it was easier just to end things once she tipped that feelings were involved.
Apologies in advance to our contributing stripper members of the board. But the reality in my experience is that majority of the girls in the he strip club have major vices they are feeding and/or domestic/emotional problems. Things that I have heard I just cant believe they are doing.To be clear I said the majority but certainly not all.
The more you delve into their personal lives of your fantasy girl its likely you will be shocked at her choices and long standing problems. Not to sound too cynical but it normally doesnt matter what I have offered to suggest to them or offer help with unless it involves $$$.
The fantasy of the club is just that and its best to keep it that way unless you want to exclusively end up with the few ones that have their shit together. But please refer to the crazy-hot index if you think you will be left with best looking club girls.
I'm not sure if your involvement will help the situation - but you made a point and I hope she understands that you were trying to help.
I'll tell her once "you you can always leave him but if you don't leave him it's your problem and I don't want to hear about it."
But I've seen girl after girl stay with guys and want to cry the other people because girls love to feel like the victim. And everybody else in the world needs to feel sorry for them except for the son-of-a-b**** who's actually doing all the damage.
Drama.. It really is these young girl's f****** drug of choice.