Lap dance EXPECTATIONS
What are your expectations when receiving a lap dance?? I recently started providing lapdances in my home. I feel as though the men that walk through the door come with big expectations. I have found condoms on two of them now .. what are you looking for guys ??!?
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So they way it was on San Francisco Red Book was that the Gold Standard was Red Book GFE = DFK + DATY + BBBJ + MSOG ( Multiple Shots On Goal, covered ). Most of the providers complied with this, as a minimum, for a one hour session.
Back then people were not allowed to talk about BBFS. Today more and more people seem to expect it.
And also on Red Book, once you moved out of the Asian Massage section and got to White, Black, and Latina escorts, the envelope expanded. Most of them where also happy to do Anal or BBBJ 'till completion w/ swallow.
Now as far a lap dances in strip clubs, read my posts, and the follow up to BJ69, about not buying dances or ejaculation services, but instead let a front room make out session ensue, and then you invite her to the back room for FS, and then take her home with you to continue.
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SJG
Treat your girl like a civilian!
SJG
In a club, at minimum, I hope for two way contact, be able to play with the tits and feel up her body with good grinding. Additional things I would like are mutual kissing of the neck and nibble on the ears. I'll play with the clit over the panties if encouraged. I would expect grinding and some over the pants play with my dick. I generally wear shorts so if they would like to reach up my shorts to play some it would be acceptable and encouraged.
If you are giving lap dances out of your house, guys are probably thinking you also are willing to sleep with them for an additional fee. If you are not willing to do offer additional services, you should advertise no sex. It should weed out the guys who just want sex or a bj.
Many dancers offer those extra services now so just a private dance at your house won't garner much attention if they can get the same thing at the club and they are willing to sleep with them later.
Many of the guys on here like variety so the club is a better option to try different dancers. If they don't like one dancer that's ok, here's another one on stage.
Please feel free to stick around and provide thoughts and insight as a dancer. We love our dancers who can wade through the b.s. of some of the trolls here and provide good insight.
anyway, itc I'm looking for at least a good cockgrind. two way contact is welcome. not neccassarily extras. otc(which I've never done) if the agreement was only lapdances that's fine. some guys may talk about only lapdances that really want sex. maybe they think it's an unwritten rule. idk. but lapdances only otc would be fine with me if its a low mileage club and your willing to do more(not sex) otc for the same or similar price. of course since we aren't subject to club rules I would not object to sex.
Then, when they want to finish what they've started, they take to the back room. In some clubs, they don't even bother with back rooms. They just go to couches in darkened corners. More plausible deniability for the owner that way.
We don't have clubs like that here, but numerous TUSCLers have privately communicated to me that in the mixed race dives, all the girls do it the same way.
And then as is written about on TJAmigos and here, and shown in videos, in Tijuana, many of the girls lead with DFKing. They don't wait for you to kiss them, they really give you very little choice in the matter. Then they will often say, "Ficha or Arriba?"
SJG
Well if your giving dances at your house most men are thinking your providing sex with the dances as a Front...so if your selling legit dances you need to polity but firmly let them know it's a legit dance.
With that said you need to offer more than what is being offered in the strip clubs in your area. So if you haven't been you need to go to these clubs and gather information...dance prices and what they are doing in the room's...once you figure this out then your able to set a competitive price and offer things that set you apart.
I know a massage Girl that does just this...she let's people know she is not an escort and their is no sex...she is a legit sensual massage...she offers it in her house and offers an amazing connection for your $200 for the hour....she strips herself down then strips you down...deep eyes contact..heavy petting mutual and oils...then a legit full body massage with her hands and body on yours...her goal at the end is to grind on you with oils naked to make the guys cum...works every time and it's an amazing experience...she also let's you mouth kiss but no French.
Not saying you need to do this but take what your comfortable with and provide that yo your clients...hustle hard and market yourself and in time if you love what your doing you will do just fine for yourself
... unless I pay extra for that