Lap dance EXPECTATIONS

At a minimum an LDK, but that's just me.

atleast a little more 2 way contact than in the club since there is no one watching to make a long story short. Maybe kissing on the neck and ears, both ways.

Butterman completely open to that! I think some are still looking for more ..

LDK?

Thank you for your feedback gentlemen !!

Home lap dances? Well to set it up like that, where the guy cannot just pick whatever girl suits his fancy, but it is all prearranged, that is an Escort Session.

So they way it was on San Francisco Red Book was that the Gold Standard was Red Book GFE = DFK + DATY + BBBJ + MSOG ( Multiple Shots On Goal, covered ). Most of the providers complied with this, as a minimum, for a one hour session.

Back then people were not allowed to talk about BBFS. Today more and more people seem to expect it.

And also on Red Book, once you moved out of the Asian Massage section and got to White, Black, and Latina escorts, the envelope expanded. Most of them where also happy to do Anal or BBBJ 'till completion w/ swallow.

Now as far a lap dances in strip clubs, read my posts, and the follow up to BJ69, about not buying dances or ejaculation services, but instead let a front room make out session ensue, and then you invite her to the back room for FS, and then take her home with you to continue.

https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5157…

SJG

It all depends on the club. If extras are available, then that is what I am looking for. If extras are not available, I am looking for good two-way contact with lots of grinding and LDK finish.

^^^^^^^^ buying dances is for chumps!

Treat your girl like a civilian!

SJG

LDK - is a reference around here for cum in pants.

In a club, at minimum, I hope for two way contact, be able to play with the tits and feel up her body with good grinding. Additional things I would like are mutual kissing of the neck and nibble on the ears. I'll play with the clit over the panties if encouraged. I would expect grinding and some over the pants play with my dick. I generally wear shorts so if they would like to reach up my shorts to play some it would be acceptable and encouraged.

If you are giving lap dances out of your house, guys are probably thinking you also are willing to sleep with them for an additional fee. If you are not willing to do offer additional services, you should advertise no sex. It should weed out the guys who just want sex or a bj.

Many dancers offer those extra services now so just a private dance at your house won't garner much attention if they can get the same thing at the club and they are willing to sleep with them later.

Many of the guys on here like variety so the club is a better option to try different dancers. If they don't like one dancer that's ok, here's another one on stage.

Please feel free to stick around and provide thoughts and insight as a dancer. We love our dancers who can wade through the b.s. of some of the trolls here and provide good insight.

I think some people missed where she said she is doing lapdances otc.

anyway, itc I'm looking for at least a good cockgrind. two way contact is welcome. not neccassarily extras. otc(which I've never done) if the agreement was only lapdances that's fine. some guys may talk about only lapdances that really want sex. maybe they think it's an unwritten rule. idk. but lapdances only otc would be fine with me if its a low mileage club and your willing to do more(not sex) otc for the same or similar price. of course since we aren't subject to club rules I would not object to sex.

At the most loved places in the US, dives, shitholes, extreme places, as written about widely and especially on blackstripclubs.net, they explain how girls jump onto your lap, without asking, and then they start nibbling at your ear lobe and licking your neck. Basically, defying you to start making out with them.

Then, when they want to finish what they've started, they take to the back room. In some clubs, they don't even bother with back rooms. They just go to couches in darkened corners. More plausible deniability for the owner that way.

We don't have clubs like that here, but numerous TUSCLers have privately communicated to me that in the mixed race dives, all the girls do it the same way.

And then as is written about on TJAmigos and here, and shown in videos, in Tijuana, many of the girls lead with DFKing. They don't wait for you to kiss them, they really give you very little choice in the matter. Then they will often say, "Ficha or Arriba?"

SJG

@Dancingdelight. be aware that san_jose_guy has never been to a strip club nor will he ever go to a strip club. just wanted to give you a head start on ignoring the fucktarded idiot who feels he has to comment on everything that he knows nothing about and has never experienced

For offering lap dances at your house, I'd expect extras of some sort to be on the menu -- HJ, at least. I'd ask, to make sure, but can't see why anyone would be interested in this as a service if it didn't include a pop.

I smell troll!

You won't find condoms on me. I expect BBBJ and BBFS.

Shadow I agree I smell troll as well but just in case it's legit or another dancer might read this and gain value let's go....

Well if your giving dances at your house most men are thinking your providing sex with the dances as a Front...so if your selling legit dances you need to polity but firmly let them know it's a legit dance.

With that said you need to offer more than what is being offered in the strip clubs in your area. So if you haven't been you need to go to these clubs and gather information...dance prices and what they are doing in the room's...once you figure this out then your able to set a competitive price and offer things that set you apart.

I know a massage Girl that does just this...she let's people know she is not an escort and their is no sex...she is a legit sensual massage...she offers it in her house and offers an amazing connection for your $200 for the hour....she strips herself down then strips you down...deep eyes contact..heavy petting mutual and oils...then a legit full body massage with her hands and body on yours...her goal at the end is to grind on you with oils naked to make the guys cum...works every time and it's an amazing experience...she also let's you mouth kiss but no French.

Not saying you need to do this but take what your comfortable with and provide that yo your clients...hustle hard and market yourself and in time if you love what your doing you will do just fine for yourself

I have started out with a just lap dances OTC at my place with a lot of my girls some of them that eventually turned into more but that's a good way to get it started and get them comfortable with you. But if she's serious yes let them know up front there's no sex but it definitely needs to be a little more touchy-feely than in the club

I mostly expect her to not knock over my beer and to take off her stripper shoes so she doesn't step on my balls with the point of her high heels.

LMFAO

My expectations are to sit down for however many 3.5 minute intervals i can afford.

:)

Ldk...

-->"to take off her stripper shoes so she doesn't step on my balls with the point of her high heels..."

... unless I pay extra for that