Bitch, Part 3
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
If you read the prior posts, or are interested in reading them, I have a follow up question.
Part 1
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5125…
Part 2
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5126…
I am going to be at the club where Bitch works in about 10 days. Should I ignore her, or have I made my point, preserved a little dignity, so now it's ok for me to spend money on her.
Ordinarily I'd ignore a dancer who pissed me off like this. But the girl is my perfect type, and I've been running my system on her for over two years. Plus the little head wants a taste. What should I tell him?
Part 1
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5125…
Part 2
https://www.tuscl.net/?page=post&id=5126…
I am going to be at the club where Bitch works in about 10 days. Should I ignore her, or have I made my point, preserved a little dignity, so now it's ok for me to spend money on her.
Ordinarily I'd ignore a dancer who pissed me off like this. But the girl is my perfect type, and I've been running my system on her for over two years. Plus the little head wants a taste. What should I tell him?
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You're not looking to marry the bitch - ti's business - if she provides what you are looking for, then indulge; that is what you are there for - if she's still on her GPS-high-horse, then just humor her pretending you are buying her bullshit.
I expect SS when dealing w/ strippers - my most effective way to deal w/ it is play dumb and pretend IDK any better and let them show their cards then proceed accordingly - I try to be in control sorta in stealth-mode where I know I'm in control (know the deal and see thru her SS) but don't let them know I know the deal by not calling them out on it; it's futile IME - I let them do their little hustle-routine to see where they stand and then I make my expectations clear and either she gets w/ the program or "no soup ($$$) for you".
As for your system, even I would be tired of that after two years. She may be also.
But good luck to you and Been Franklin on getting your dick wet. It might just happen. And welcome back John. Looking forward to reading more of your SC adventures soon. How's the milf doing these days anyway?
go for it!!!
If your first instinct is to ignore her, I think you should stick to it.
But if you truly want to give her another chance, take a wait and see approach. She may avoid you because she thinks you're still mad at her or don't want to see her anymore. So you need to think about what you want to do if she doesn't come to you.
Good luck my friend.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CSG8SY2n…
"One day it hits you -- I'll be dead one day! Am I using this time the way I should?"
The DC is good. I only play with strippers part time these days.
Leave that in the past and move on.
There are always new dancers at other clubs.
Otherwise I agree with rewarding only good behavior. Calling out undesirable behavior is probably counterproductive most of the time.
Rewarding good behavior isn't incompatible with self-respect, imo, even if she screwed up on a previous visit. There is a difference between self-respect and nursing a narcissistic injury.
I like CP's approach with multiple faves that he cultivates and hardly says 100 words to them. I like to keep it light and fun.
RandomMember +1.
What if she is not in that night? What if you call/text her before your visit? What if she's busy all night? and is it a 2 night visit again?
I don't think I've ever had a long-time fav ITC that I haven't fallen out with ... its kinda the whole point of taking a stand / being firm once in a while. And it gets sorted next visit about 90% of the time (or via a phone call before).
I'd have two or three scenarios planned where I'd look to get across my message (which would include a degree of empathy for her world). Plainly, when the time is right she's up for a BJCIM so it becomes a question of whether you think on the night she'd deliver well (Part 1 suggests you thought not on the fateful night), and $$$.
Initially I'd not be focusing on the $500 previous offer .. but a whole re-kindling of the relationship. If the GPS is still shining too brightly I'd be prepared to say goodbye.
Just try to arrange it so the DJ doesn't intercept it and read it in front of the whole club.
I think the grown men on Tuscl feed off the dancer drama for some reason. I don't get it.
Really if that's what they're into then so be it. After all they should be grateful they don't have real drama in their life if they have to rely on a stripper to provide that on top of sex!
But I'll give JS credit for one thing: at least he's consistent. ;)
John, I wouldn't do it because she sounds like a conflicted self entitled head case who will invariably run one game or another on you. But to each his own and it's your money to spend.
Get yourself a puppy, @JohnSmith! You need that unconditional love that only a pet can offer.
LM, agree that overall that's a right way to look at it. But, the fact is, the previous experience does matter: regardless of claims to the contrary, especially with strippers, past performance IS the best predictor of future behavior. Tigers don't change their spots, strippers don't change their g-strings (okay, I'll work on coming up with a better metaphor). At some point, a stripper who is annoying is a stripper who is annoying.
In addition, I find sexual attraction an odd thing. As I said in my earlier reply, once she annoys me enough, the magic spell is broken, and even if she's hot, it's easy for me to move on. Of course, that's me... JS's little head is a bit more forgiving than mine (sorry, I'll work on a new metaphor for that, too). It's not a matter of grudges, it's one of her desirability bubble being broken.
This has me wondering... will she let him finish the DATY even though she feels his warm tears dripping down her vulva because she is really close to getting off?
Mind, I've chased girls farther than I should have a few times, but I've never thrown stupid money at them just to pry open their legs/mouth to satisfy my curiosity/moment of lust. As Rick points out, there's plenty of them out there who aren't GPS Attitudes in a g-string.
But "value" for me is obviously different than it is for you. I routinely walk into clubs with $500, or more, in my pocket. In this market, there's only a couple of clubs where that wouldn't buy a good time with 75% of the hottest girls there, and probably 95% of the middle tier. But it's *also* good for at *least* three good blow jobs from that same 75%, and four or five from the lower tier.
No point in throwing it away on one "unicorn" that's really probably just a narwhal anyway.
We all know you're gonna give her the money and do your thing. Enjoy your fun.
I'll post part 4 in a couple weeks if there's a story to tell.
Makes sense to me.
A slut fucks anyone a bitch fucks anyone but you.
As an aside, how in the world can you accurately plan club visits 10 days out? I can't plan mine 2 days out, nevermind 10.
But ok, away from the criticism and back to the point...
I wouldn't do it. The chick has an attitude problem, which rarely translates to good service in my experience. For the money you are spending, there is no doubt a more willing "perfect type" waiting just around the corner.