At what age?
larryfisherman
California
This is kind of a OT thread, but I'm 26, close to being 27. I've started to notice that I'm not really super interested in girls my age anymore as far as the civilian world goes. When I was 19 I loved girls my age, when I was 22 I loved girls my age. 26, 27 a lot of girls I see start the slow decline from their prime. I know for sure when I'm 30 I won't be interested at all in women my age.
At what age did you stop being interested in girls your age?
At what age did you stop being interested in girls your age?
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@che huh?
gotta go back to skool.
@che I'm gonna guess you're not a older guy. I could be wrong, but I don't think there are many guys in their 50's and 60's that are attracted to women in their 50's and 60's.
My tastes could change over time, of course there's always exceptions, I've seen a couple of girls in their late 30's that I'm still very attracted to, but it's not the norm.
The people on this board are much older than us. Try to put yourself in your-50-year-old-self's shoes. If you're rich, handsome, famous and banging supermodels all the time, then maybe that question wouldn't be so offensive. But on the other hand, you might just want to slap your younger-self in the face.
If you primarily interact with this age range, it should be a lot easier. I could tell the difference a lot easier back then. Now they are more likely to be either trying to act like a mature adult or young sweetie around me, so it's harder to tell.
When I lived in Hawaii, I would have a good idea of whether someone was Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese or Korean at a glance. Having lived inland in the continental US for a while, now it's more like "Wow, there's an Asian person here!"
I see plenty of hot 26, 27 year olds. I'm just saying I've noticed some of them are slowly starting the slow decline out of their prime. I think 30 is the age I really meant when I won't be interested in girls my age when I'm 30.
I had a CF not too long ago who was around 30 which wasn't far off from my age, though. There is a lot to be said for how well you interact with an individual rather than whatever their demographic particulars are.
If someone cooks me pasta, I know the feeling because I gain 2 pounds a day just eating spaghetti, pizza, or whatever pasta there is. I usually lose the weight within a day or two eating normal food.
I've heard that before, maybe that will eventually be the case for me.
Now, at the age of 34, I will say this. Since age 30 I am slowly noticing a decline when it comes to finding hot civilian girls my age. It is still easy for me to find hot strippers that are my age.
I think the lack of finding quality civilian girls my age is because a lot of them have settled down and now have families. Therefore, you won't find very many of them at a bar on a Friday or Saturday night.
Of course, this is all subjective. It is very hard to guess a woman's actual age based on looks. It may be easy to tell if she is in the 18-22 range based on the way she looks and how she behaves. Once they reach their mid-20's, it is not so easy because they look and act a lot more mature.
We've all heard it: age is just a number.
If you haven't fucked a MILF, let me tell you it will be a great experience when you do. I used to not care too much for MILFs, but a recent club visit completely changed my perception. Just by looking at her, I would not have known this woman has 2 kids. Her body showed no signs of baby damage. She was very intelligent and knew how to hold a conversation. When it comes to sex, they get right down to business and know how to take care of a man. Fucking her in the VIP was the most satisfying experience I've had with any sex worker, both stripper and escort.
At my age, I think it would be in my best interest to chase after MILFs.
For you: “I'm 26, close to being 27...I see start the slow decline from their prime. I know for sure when I'm 30 I won't be interested at all in women my age.”
At this age *most* women are maturing from young girls [early 20s] to young women [mid 20s to early 30s]. Perhaps they sense your shallow interest in only their physical appearance and find you too immature to be interesting. Even a one-night stand wouldn’t be *pleasurable* to them unless it was p4p.
As Che said -” People mature at different ages. Be patient and one day maybe you too will grow up.”
Che, in Larry’s case, maybe you’re too optimistic?
And, I heartily endorse the MILF comments
AK
I will go back to eating less calories eating no pasta but something simple like a piece of meat like hamburger, chicken, ham, turkey, etc with potatoes and or fries. So much for losing weight. I was down to 212 just a week or two ago. I'm not worried about it. I have been losing weight when I'm not even thinking about it over time by eliminating a few things I used to eat. I did not eliminate pasta though. That would not be American.
This goes for gals n guys.
In the world of beauty - a 19 yr old hot body can be the sizzling appetizer or the decadent dessert. And yet an older hot body can be the main course that satisfies your deepest cravings. Love 'em all !
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26-27 year old girls are like what LeBron James is right now with the Cavs. LeBron is still the best player in the league and in his prime, but he was a little better player when he was with Miami. In Miami he'd dominate offensively and he would lock down the other team's best player. In Cleveland now he's not as good offensively and he's lost a little athleticism from his Miami days. LeBron has 2-3 years left of possibly being the best player and then the decline will be steep. Same thing with 26-27 year old girls, they have 2-3 years left of being decent, then the decline will be steep.
Obviously it doesn't apply to every girl, there are always exceptions, but yeah I would say most girls.
For example, if a guy goes to strip clubs when young, he will be engaging with dancers his age and a bit older.
Then say the guys gets married and he tries to play it straight, and he stays away from strip clubs. But surviving a marriage can be like surviving a war. You are tested in fire every day.
So eventually the guy is just trying to stay alive and so he starts going to strip clubs again. He finds that by virtue of being a marriage veteran, he is older and wiser. The young girls actually like him for this. But he can't let down his guard, he has to protect his private life from his strip club life. So it is never really a peer relationship. But at this juncture, and not just because they are better looking, he learns to get along with younger women. The appeal is that they have less life experience than he does. So instead of judging him as they do guys their own age, they look up to him. Eventually he gets to where he is the same age as their father's, or even older, and they still look up to him and respect him, instead of judging him. They are much easier to deal with than it was when he was their age.
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