How to make your local club worth it ?

My goal is to eventually have sex with these local girl's. I assume it will take some time getting acclimated to them. After that my assumption is I will have to deal with a inflatable sex fee.

Just become a regular. Be generous and friendly. Do not let yourself be tied down by a favorite.

What's the minimum effort to become a regular ?

Do I need to buy dances to establish myself or can I just pay for the girls drinks ?

A "regular" in strip club terms means a *spending* regular - the strip club is not a singles-bar, the girls are there for only one reason, to make $$$ and when you just buy them drinks that $$$ goes to the club not her so you are not doing much for her bottom line.

w.r.t. sex with the girls are you thinking of getting it for free or paying them? 99% of custies that bang strippers outside the club (OTC) pay for it b/c strippers are into $$$ and not banging customers for free

I'm looking to pay. I just need help on finding the correct way to spend my cash. I'm afraid of spending to much on dances then the girl not needed to do out side actions. I also don't want to spend so little the girls avoid me.

Become a regular, get to know the dancers, be nice, don't be cheap, and DON'T by private dances at the club. If the girls know that they can empty your wallet there, they have no reason to do any OTC action with you (and sounds like that's the only way your gonna get what you want from them).

So how can I be generous without buying dances ? Or was you talking about champagne rooms ?

If I took $100 for $25 dances every other weekend would this qualify as respectable ?

Just tip the girls who sit w you at the bar, and buy their drinks. Then let them go off and "work" when a customer of theirs comes in. Talk to many of the girls bc some just won't do otc ever. Tell them you don't buy dances. I'd never suggest this tactic at a typical club; It's best for small town clubs, which is how my first club was.

Good idea. Is a $10 under the table tip decent for a few minutes to chat and figure out if outside activities can be scheduled ?

90% of what you're asking is highly subjective. Depends on the club, the dancer, the town, and the night.

Search through some older discussion threads for useful data. Search through club reviews in your area for pricing.

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What call.me.Ishmael said is true. Lots of good advice overall. You'll have to pay for VIP access since you don't have any reviews if you want to see what other reviews have said about your club. If there have even been reviews since you said this is a pretty small isolated club.

I would also suggest reading the article written by subraman on otc. Many of the suggestions written there are applicable at all clubs regardless of size.

^ agree. It depends on if it's a small town club, and girls really don't do otc, or if it's a high end "no extras" club that just happens to be local. If it's the first option, don't buy dances, buy the girls drinks, and tip on stage. Wait until you know them to bring up extras, or you, and girls who talk to you, will get a bad reputation. If it's the second option, then you need to get dances, or tip more genoursly, and you should bring up otc fairly quickly.

These are strippers. The more money you spend on them the better they will like you. This also applies to non-strippers.

^ haha, yeah. I genuinely like guys who give me money! I don't care if I get tipped the money, or get it for dances, but just tipping seems to make guys more popular in general.

You're basically asking how to be successful at strip clubs, and even SJG couldn't write that many words at once. Hang around here and youl'll learn. It would also help out to read reviews and old posts.

Having sex OTC will almost certainly be $200+. Plus, you'll need to spend enough ITC over 2 or 3 visits to give the impression you can afford that.
There are guys who are willing to spend that. If you aren't, the dancer will quickly ( and, I mean quickly) figure that out and move on.

DS told me that her 'regulars' come at least once per week. (not necessarily 'every' week, but mostly a weekly habit if you catch my drift) That may be SS, who knows, but once a month hasn't been getting me any positive traction when I've been focusing my efforts.

^^ where (not when)

You can absolutely make it happen even if there is only one club in your town.

Good news is not all dancers are married, nuns, or stripperweb chicks. There are several with a naughty streak and a smokin body. That's all you need.

Mandatory qualifications for OTC fun:
1. You are not an axe murderer
2. You don't stink
3. You are not broke

Sadly, there is no authenticated, government issued ID that has the 3 qualifications listed - something you can simply show the dancer of your choice and get on with OTC planning.
How quickly you are able to convey the above three depends on many factors. Yourself and your personality; City, Club, Dancer. But every man is able to convey one way or another in 1-2 visits (max 3).

In fact - most OTC regulars have this opening line:
"I'm a nice guy, take care of myself and love adventure dates with hot dancers who prefer making money privately"

Desirable quality to enhance your OTC experience:
4. You are not exactly a gentleman either and not infatuated with just one dancer.

Yet, if one dream date does appear in front of you - don't be afraid to spend generously.
A couple of months ago at a club, I loved everything about a dancer. I gave her my phone and asked her to type her OTC expectation. She typed 150. I shook my head with a big "NO" - and typed back 250. Dancer was simultaneously puzzled, confused, pleased and ecstatic. Result - great sex after a long time for me. All positions! Yes I gave her more than 250.

According to Ricky Boy and his system it should take six months of weekly visits costing a grand total of $6,000 at minim before OTC is accepted