On a side note I was out with this 21 year old stripper the other day. It felt nice to see all those heads turn, she was dressed to kill! She kept taking pictures of things, I suppose it's that Snapchat thing. Also she had like 20 unread text messages, so I could see why she doesn't always respond to my texts promptly!
Can't believe no one answered the question. They must not like you larry...LOL I'll esitmate that i've probably spent OTC time with abt 20 strippers since my first OTC date abt 18 years ago.
I feel like I hardly ever meet a customer otc (not sex. stuff like a restaurant or event), but I've gone out w ab 9 different customers in the past year or so.
Since 2011, only 4. I am still young enough to get enough play from regular woman at a much less significant cost. I prefer to keep the activities with strippers ITC only.
I have had hundreds of OTC meets, but I have met many fewer strippers OTC. Mostly I have multiple meets with favs like my CF. I'm kind of a serial monogamist with strippers.
So bj99 you say you've never done OTC but you've gone out with 9 customers in the last year just curious what is the intent? Is it friends ? romantic interest ? just curious cuz most dancers that hang out with us it's pretty much an OTC event to be honest
@mistah I feel you, but just to play devil's advocate, is it really a much less significant cost to get pussy from a civilian woman? Especially nowadays?
But anyways, I mean something like a meal, shopping (like for Christmas or bday), or some fun thing they want to take me to. When I say I don't do OTC, I mean physical stuff. I don't get usually get paid, and I don't go on actual dates either. A couple of my customers have become real friends.
@larryfisherman: for me in the Atlanta area it is. I'm primarily into black women so I troll social media (Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, Black People Meet, Tagged, Plenty of Fish, and Badoo) and find the women that needs a little financial assistance (phone bill, light groceries, etc). The women on these sites are not necessarily pros so I'm able to dictate the rate so to speak.) With these women, I make it clear that I pay no higher than $100. There are some women that openly escort and advertise their services but I get a thrill finding the lesser, under the radar types.
Well bj99 that's cool at least your not one those dancers a guy should buy you dinner and then pay you to sit there and eat it with him LOL... we're not really fans of that type here too much:)
i only asked one to meet up with me that I ended up routinely seeing outside the club. I was new to strip clubs and we never had sex. She didn't tell me she had a boyfriend. The few others talked me into meeting up with them. I had mixed experiences. A couple just wanted to skip dating and just go straight to sex. Others acted like we were dating or friends with benefits in one case. One girl I did meet at a bar but I thought it was an accidental meetup even though I had asked her what clubs were good in the area. She came over and talked to me for a few minutes before going to work and asking if she would see me there. She might have been a better choice to date but I had promised myself to stop going out with dancers. Too much drama I think,
I could have met up with several other dancers and some female customers if I met up with everyone who asked or suggested it. Some asked for money. Others never said anything about money being involved. The female customers who tried to get me to leave with them didn't say anything about money. Who just goes to a strip club and asks a guy to leave the club and go back to their place first words out of her mouth?
Maybe I have a doppelgänger in a parallel universe that had sex with them. One girl one night asked if I had been somewhere because she knew someone who looked like me.
I've seen some weird stuff and I'm not making it up. I even speculated that I could have died driving home one night and woke up in a parallel body in a parallel universe. Another night the huge electrical storm in Greenville seemed to be centered around me for about 2 or 3 hours. Interstate flooded. When I traveled between clubs, suddenly people changed at Platinum. One of my favorites used to be blond. Suddenly she was brunette and when I said something. She looked puzzled and said she's been brunette for ages. I can't remember when one dancer changed back to before she had breast implants. I remember she had implants for a whole year. She worked in two different clubs that year. Suddenly she appeared to never have gotten implants and her personality was like it was before she changed working back at the club she was two years prior. When I mentioned something about her history she told me, she seemed surprised she told me and blew it off saying she must have really been wasted. She wasn't. I'm experiencing glitches in these virtual reality worlds.
Different dancers? Over the last 30+ years or so, maybe 30-40. Total OTC meetups with the same or different dancer? Too many to count. Figure once ever couple of months or so, though the last decade or so, it's probably more like a couple times per month.
I lost count a long time ago. Dozens in 14 states, almost all just regular ol' p4p. I've only taken 3 strippers out for more than that and it was fun to be sure, but not really what I'm looking for. My cup already overfloweth on the relationship and quality time fronts. Strippers are just a fun diversion for me.
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But I've only asked 1 and it looks like she ain't up for it
It's 4 girls for me.
On a side note I was out with this 21 year old stripper the other day. It felt nice to see all those heads turn, she was dressed to kill! She kept taking pictures of things, I suppose it's that Snapchat thing. Also she had like 20 unread text messages, so I could see why she doesn't always respond to my texts promptly!
But anyways, I mean something like a meal, shopping (like for Christmas or bday), or some fun thing they want to take me to. When I say I don't do OTC, I mean physical stuff. I don't get usually get paid, and I don't go on actual dates either. A couple of my customers have become real friends.
Maybe I have a doppelgänger in a parallel universe that had sex with them. One girl one night asked if I had been somewhere because she knew someone who looked like me.
I've seen some weird stuff and I'm not making it up. I even speculated that I could have died driving home one night and woke up in a parallel body in a parallel universe. Another night the huge electrical storm in Greenville seemed to be centered around me for about 2 or 3 hours. Interstate flooded. When I traveled between clubs, suddenly people changed at Platinum. One of my favorites used to be blond. Suddenly she was brunette and when I said something. She looked puzzled and said she's been brunette for ages. I can't remember when one dancer changed back to before she had breast implants. I remember she had implants for a whole year. She worked in two different clubs that year. Suddenly she appeared to never have gotten implants and her personality was like it was before she changed working back at the club she was two years prior. When I mentioned something about her history she told me, she seemed surprised she told me and blew it off saying she must have really been wasted. She wasn't. I'm experiencing glitches in these virtual reality worlds.