I got played by the DS
Recap: In my previous thread I told you guys about wanting to hang out with my DS OTC. A couple of other times I tried, but for whatever reason our schedules didn't match up. This time I invited her to a sporting event, she was out of town, but she said she would probably be back in town on the day of the game, and she said she would love to go. Fast forward to yesterday, I texted her if she was still down to go. NO RESPONSE. She always texts me back right away, so this time I knew there wasn't gonna be a response.
I prepared myself for the worst, but it didn't take away any of the pain. She was my dream girl, I really wanted her to be my girl. I think we both found each other attractive, I'm only five years older than her etc, not a huge age difference etc. I thought we had a connection. I didn't spend crazy amounts of money on her. Damn it hurts right now. Maybe I should have taken Gawker's advice and told her I wanted to fuck, I've sucked her tits, kissed her ass during lapdances.
How do I get over this?
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last commentFind another DS ASAP. And next time, do NOT fall in love with a dancer who blows off OTC. If she cared, she'd have been there.
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When you get bucked off you gotta get right back on the horse.
Ask someone else to the junior prom.
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Jerk off. That'll take the edge off.
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^^^ Pornhub.com.
Start there.
And tissues. Lots of tissues...
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Gotta get a copy of The System, only $29.95 plus shipping. Avoid this kind of heartache in the future.
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" I thought we had a connection."
That's her job @Larry old buddy. It's her job to make you feel like there's a connection.
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Why not offer her a reasonable price for P4P? If she takes it, you can fuck her & it should be much easier to convince yourself you didn't want to date a girl who fucks for money anyway. If she doesn't, well then you're no worse off than you are now.
Other than that, nothing gets you over the last one like the next one.
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Some people just do not get how the strip club game works, the OG is a perfect example.
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I think we all knew it would turn out this way. Sounds to me like you're looking for a girlfriend, and a strip club is a dangerous place to do that. A strip club is where you go for paid sex. Next time you find a DS (and maybe it's not too late with this one, but I doubt it) run your own version of my system and pay her a lot. That's the only way you're going to be fucking a DS.
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Told ya Larry...
RockStar666 is, in my opinion, the closest to the right way to get over this. Although, in my opinion, the real right way to get over this is to stop going to the strip club.
Larry, we're both in our mid-20s. What is the point of going to a strip club? To spend $1000s to get lapdances in the pursuit of OTC sex or possibly a stripper girlfriend? Even if you did manage to seal the deal, get some OTC sex... you still probably paid way more and got a much bigger headache than if you had just hired a real sex worker. And if you do OTC enough and make her your girlfriend, congratulations, you spent $1000s to get a girl to go steady with you and her job is to take off her clothes for hundreds of other guys. And if she did OTC with you, and she's hot, she's probably also doing OTC with bunch of other old rich guys.
The real right way to get over this is for you to be with the girl who has greater interest in you than you do in her.
Fact: If your interest in her is greater than her interest in you, she will eventually leave your sad sorry ass (or just ignore you as this DS did).
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"Larry, we're both in our mid-20s. What is the point of going to a strip club?:
^^^ The best advice in the thread.
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Larry, you were not played, you were warned...you played yourself
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@dolfan-she is currently making over $1,000 every night at the strip club not doing extras. I doubt she would even entertain my offer now (unless it was severely overpriced). You're right though, there's other fish in the sea.
@johnsmith-I'm not necessarily looking for a girlfriend, but she is my dream girl, I definitely wouldn't have minded her being my girl. You're right though, the strip club is the last place to look for that.
@futuretrackstar- I love the stripclub because there are tons of beautiful women topless and/or naked all in one building. On top of that you can fuck a lot of them. I guess I try to convince myself that some of them are good girls and are only stripping to get through school. In the civilian world the 9's and 10's aren't interested in me, I can get 7's and maybe the occasional 8. I want the best of the best, and that's what the strip club offers (especially here in LA). You're right though, sometimes I ask myself why am I even in the strip club.
These girls are hard to figure out. Just last week she gave me her new number. She told me she is in school, she told me she is single, maybe it was all a lie. Maybe she found a sugar daddy in Miami that's gonna take care of her financially.
I rarely give out 10's, but she is a perfect 10 to me.
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If she's making over 1K every night, she won't need anyone to take care of her financially
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Like I said though, the weird thing is she JUST gave me her new number last week while she was still in Miami making lots of money. I had her old number, but apparently she changed numbers. I didn't ask her for her new number, she just texted me and told me she got a new number. I might see her once every two weeks and spend 100 bucks on her ITC, nothing major at all, that's why I thought maybe she wasn't just after my money.
Her best stripper friend works at the same club as her in LA. Her stripper friend is ALL about the money, she has had regulars just give her 500 bucks for nothing. I think her friend had some influence on her, telling her to treat me like a ATM and nothing else. That's what I think anyway.
@govikings-maybe she realized she doesn't need my money anymore?
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I really need to stop messing with these strippers, nothing good comes out of it.
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^^^ there ya go. As JS69 already said, the ONLY reason his system works is because he is absolutely loaded and pays her handsomely. So, unless you're a trust fund baby like Trump, you're probably not loaded, which means you really aren't what strippers are looking for in the club.
In my opinion, there is only one other type of guy she might go for in the club... but I'm also quite sure you're not a 6'5" 220 lb ripped black dude who is hung like a horse and who makes her pussy soaking wet just by talking to her.
As 20 somethings, we should be working our way up the Status ladder so the 9s and 10s will start doing double takes.
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Larry I'm going to tell you something and it is not a joke or a putdown, she wasn't making a thousand a night in Miami unless she was fucking half the night with 2-3 guys don't forget the club takes its cut whatever she was doing she made it clear it doesn't involve you. You need to get real and realize these girls ain't ever going to tell you the truth ever only what they think you want to hear. The only guys that have a real chance with these whores are rich fuckers who have life changing money otherwise nine hundred and ninety-nine times out of a thousand they are just playing you. The common expression is true "You can't wife a whore"
Do you really want to be the sucker that is cuckolded regularly, fuck em and forget em, Find a nice civvie girl there plenty of gorgeous civvie girls out there your own age that would be thrilled to have a guy spend one tenth of the money, that you drop on these whores, on them and they would show real gratitude not this fake bullshit that makes a fool out of you.
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You didn't get played. If you had paid her up front for OTC and she didn't show up, that's played.
A stripper giving you her number is meaningless. They do this so they can text you and tell you to come in to the club if it's a slow night.
Strippers will sometimes meet you for some non-sex fun like going to a game or the zoo, but it's not usually as much fun as it sounds.
And she is not making $1000 a night, at least not every night.
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I think I've been as big a sap as any who posts on this board in regard to falling for a stripper. My ATF has been the prime focus of my attention for close to 8 years. I know her family, I've spent hundreds of thousands on her, I've travelled with her, cannot think of a sex act we haven't done (except golden showers), and probably most importantly, we really enjoy each others' company. She was 23 when we met and I was 63. I never had an illusion of "riding off into the sunset" with her and the closest she ever came was the time she said,"Why the fuck aren't you 30 years younger?".
After that I have to repeat: Don't fall in love with a stripper. Don't go to a strip club looking for a girl friend. Accept the fact that 95% of strippers are damaged - psychological problems, drug problems, self image problems , daddy issues, social problems, ex-BF problems, current BF problems, and on and on and on. The other 5% are using the system to achieve an objective - earn tuition, avoid a 9 to 5 job or whatever and 99% of that 5% won't meet otc.
If you are looking for the company and perhaps more of beautiful women, there's no better place, but listen to what experience has told all of us who have commented. Get real.
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All this dose of reality is good for me, I need to harden up.
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Larry, this is Mary Jane talking, but I'm pretty sure she's right. If there's any way you could come up with $1K to pay her for a night, you should do it. At first I thought you were just casually throwing around the term DS. But now it looks like this girl really is your perfect 10, just like my DS is. If so, it's be worth it if for only one time in between her legs, Trust me I know. And you dont have to let her know that it's a one time thing. Offering a DS $1K is how I got mine, and I'd never foregive myself if I hadn't done it. I know you're probably not going to do this cause it's way outside of your comfort zone, but I have a lot more experience than you and I know what I'm taking about. You could still swallow your pride and run my system on her.
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Who knows for sure what she is thinking, but actions speak louder than words and if she was interested in meeting then one would think she would have made the time.
As I mentioned b/f, IDK why she would be telling you how much she's making, maybe a subliminal message of how much you would have to pony-up for you to be worth her time , who knows - again talk is cheap (w.r.t. her saying she'd love to meet you but something keeps coming up).
I would think many of these girls, especially the young and hot ones, live fast lives and probably party a good deal - not the ideal girl to date unless one lives that lifestyle also.
But hey look on the bright-side, now you can take Juice to the game.
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@Papi-I asked her how much was she making, and she told me. She didn't just voluntarily tell me on her own.
@JohnSmith or Maryjane :) -I'm not gonna do that, I'm not gonna treat this one like a prostitute. Like trackstar said I'm too young to be paying women for sex, hell I really shouldn't be even be going to strip clubs right now.
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Well - it's not uncommon when we're young and looking for love that at times it is not reciprocated, pretty-common actually stripper or not
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"I really need to stop messing with these strippers, nothing good comes out of it."
Larry, that's what I've been telling myself for 10 years.
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Larry, in this thread you mention that you only spend about $100 on this girl once every two weeks. However, you spent $20k on your other favorite in a few months: /postread.php
Now, you are saying you don't want to pay for sex and shouldn't be going to strip clubs now.
You are all over the place. Keep your story straight. Sounds like you were full of shit all along about making it rain $30k and spending $20k in a few months on your old favorite.
It seems to me, based on this thread, that you are only spending $100 every couple of weeks and you shouldn't really be spending that much.
Bullshit much?
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^^^oh God another newbie with no clue. It seems like you're the one rambling all over the place.
I DID NOT MAKE IT RAIN 30K, IT WAS A JOKE. Most sensible people can see that.
Yes I spent big time on a fav when I first started and had no experience. I've since severely cut down on my spending.
Futuretrackstar made some good points about me being too young to being a strip club addict and paying for sex, and I agreed with him. Plus she is my DS and I'm not going to treat her like a prostitute.
Anything else Sherlock Holmes??
While you're at it, write some reviews.
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So, making it rain $30k was a joke, but spending $20k in a few months was true? Okay, got it. We'll try to keep the truth and the lies separate. Btw, your jokes are fucking lame if that was supposed to be a funny joke.
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LarryFullOfShiterman
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LarryFullOfShiterman gets angry when he is exposed. His stories are BS. He never made it rain $30k. He never spent $20k on a favorite in a few months. He spends $100 every two weeks and thinks he's a big fish in a small pond! He's the biggest balla in all of LA!!! Haha!
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This isn't fiction, this is real life at TUSCL.
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You're never too young, or too old, to pay women for sex.
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No JS...you can be too young. My allowance never was enough for even a BJ.
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Haha sounds like larrybis getting a dose of his own medicine
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Louiesailorman lmfao
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Larry... don't call others newie... newbies make posts like this one. Op is full of shit hahahab
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A stripper being noncommittal? Not the norm, really it's not -_-
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You find a girl, you engage with her, you ask her out. It might go off it might not. Either way, no big deal. And also, it still might go off. If she backed out you don't really know why.
Just be open and assertive, and also safe for her if she has to sometimes decline.
It only becomes a big head trip when you are being way to slow in asking her out.
Good Luck,
SJG
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