Does she really like me or is gaming me?
Sunday, January 8, 2017 10:45 AM
So there is a new strip club that recently opened about 25 minutes from me. I've gone a few times, twice with my buddy and once by myself. The new club offers 10$ dances on Thursdays to get business in the door and to promote the club. We have gone enough times that the general manager now knows our faces and will even come check up on us to see how we are doing and if we need anything. Anyways, we would go on Thursdays to check out the new club and to meet the new dancers.
Well -- I went Thursday as in the 5th. It was particular slow that night and my friend and I were doing are usual talk to any dancer that approached us. My buddy would mostly just talk to them and never get a dance. Kinda like my wingman. Well the first girl that sat down and talk to me hustled me for 5 dances and I agreed (like a idiot.) I then went back to my seat and continued enjoying my night. A few of the dancers knew us by our faces and would ask us how we were doing and would just talk with us, never ask for a dance or try to hustle us.
Well on Thursday there was this one really cute dancer that grabbed a chair and would sit next to me. Her and I were talking about anything, places we want to travel to, favorite foods, music etc, If she offered and only if she did I would accept dances from her. After we did two or three dances, she would walk me back to my table and continue to sit with me. Typically most dancers give you a dance and then go on there way to other guys. She would sit with me all night and occasionally make her rounds around the dance floor. She would check in with me from time to time. We were talking and she asked me if I had Snapchat. I did not. So I take out my phone and she whispers to me. "Do me a favor, turn down your brightness on your phone a little bit, the manager is watching us, I don't mean he's over your shoulder, but they are watching." So I downloaded the app and set it up. She tells me her username and says "Send me a message with an emoji or something so I know it's you." So I add her and send her a message. She continues to sit with me and I would never ask for a dance unless she asked me first. She asked and I would agree and we did five dances. We talked about the VIP room and she told me she would show me the VIP room for free and I said "Are you sure you will show me for free?" I asked again and she said yes both times. We then went back the table and she sat next to me.
I would tip her instead of just forking over fifty dollars. She would sit with me again and we would talk and she would tell me about other dances on the stage and what I think of that dancer. She came back to me with and she was drinking champagne from a party that recently ended, but this time instead of sitting in a chair next to me, she sat on my lap and continued to talk to me about everything. Well we stayed pretty late, past 5AM. Around 4:40AM she asks if I will wait about ten minutes or so she can say goodbye to me. I agreed, well ten minutes or so passed and she came back and we hugged. Then my buddy and I said goodbye to the the GM and waited for the vallet to grab our car.
The whole way home my buddy and I were talking about the night and my phone was in my pocket and when I dropped him at his apartment I see she added me on Snapchat and she sent me a message saying "Goodnight" with a kissing face emoji. I replied back and told her I had a great time and would like to come back soon. She did not reply back to me until the next day. It was around 10PM on Friday when she sent me a message and we were talking briefly. She was going to work so we had a few minutes to talk. She sent me a picture of herself and what she was wearing that night. I replied back to her, I have not heard back from yet since then. I am not worried about it. Should I maybe send a message to her on SC with my Google Voice phone number attached or, go back on Thursday or Friday and see what happens?
She only works at that club two days a week and works her other job on other days. She told me where her other job was and It's pretty close to me. I don't want to seem champagne and show up there, I don't even know her real name yet so It'd be weird. Should I assume she's playing me or does she actually want something more then me being a customer of hers.
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