Dancer says "Not interested in OTC anymore"
rogertex
Texas
Then she went out of town to see family.
Saw her in the club last week after a long time.
Spent good bit of money and got lotsa love.
Broached OTC.
She says - she is tired of sex. Only with BF.
She now likes girls - had sneaked 3 encounters with different girls past few months without her BF knowledge.
Dancer was a 10 last year and last week was 9. So still top notch.
Not a hustler. Guys seek her out. So do other dancers.
Also likes to get drunk and then get's wild.
Probed a bit into "no sex with guys".
Seemed like a case of burnout. She's in school and will quit dancing as soon as she finishes school and gets a job.
Over the past 4 years I've seen lots of better looking dancers dance for 1-3 years, find another vocation and happily quit.
I'm usually the first guy to move on - but she's a lot of fun generally and especially in bed.
Also because she is 2 leagues above me - if I were to run into her in civilian world.
Have you experienced dancers who you are friendly with - and they wanna hangout but not do OTC?
Is it temporary or permanent? In other words, dancer says no to you but a week/month or so later is back in the sack.
As a guy - I've had the tits/ass/pussy burnout. But the desire has always come back. Sooner than later.
Not sure about girls - and she could be playing nice now cuz I'm spending money on her ITC.
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I think the smartest thing to do, assume you'll never have OTC with her again... if you think it'd be fun to hang out with her ITC, then hey, go for it. I often -- but not always -- move on once I"m sure OTC is off the table. Sometimes, there's chicks who are just great to hang out with ITC, and I'll still hang with them occasionally, although they will no longer be treated like my ATF or CF, and instead be a convenient target of opportunity on days my CF isn't there. And, if she DOES change her mind about OTC, you still have that relationship with her.
I have never had a relationship with a stripper where sex wasn't involved. That would be new territory for me.
I also have never had a lasting relationship with a dancer who was truly bi-sexual, as it appears this one is. Maybe playing with girls is just a phase for her and she'll want sex eventually.
I understand your "pussy" burnout - I've gotten that too. Maybe to keep her around ask her to go on a "non sex date" and do something fun.
... mrrock - so I thought! wait till you get a series of stankin ones and you'd wanna stay away for a while.
I'm movin on. Will keep her on friendly terms. Will tell her big bucks reserved for girl responding to booty call.
Wont burn that bridge - but will find other bridges to get me across.
I've never heard that before.