Waiting too long
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Ever gone to a club with the intention of getting lap dances and/or going to VIP for extras. When you arrived, you see one dancer that meets your desires but you decide to wait awhile and see if any thing better comes in. After awhile you decide that nothing better has arrived and not likely to. So now you seek out the original dancer that you liked but find that she is now tied up with a whale or has left the club. You see nothing else that interests you. So you split with your blue balls.
This has happened too many time to me to count. Another fly in the ointment is that you see that she has already done 1 or more VIPs. I won't knowingly do sloppy seconds. One of my TUSCL buddies thinks the best thing to do is take the first decent one that comes along and live with it.
"A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush". I just can't talk myself into doing that. I drive an hour to my favorite club. I don't want to spend 45 minutes there and then drive another hour home. I like to sample several "flowers" and then cap it off with a trip to VIP. I used to bat .666 but lately it's been closer to .333. Dancer quality has taken a hit.
This has happened too many time to me to count. Another fly in the ointment is that you see that she has already done 1 or more VIPs. I won't knowingly do sloppy seconds. One of my TUSCL buddies thinks the best thing to do is take the first decent one that comes along and live with it.
"A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush". I just can't talk myself into doing that. I drive an hour to my favorite club. I don't want to spend 45 minutes there and then drive another hour home. I like to sample several "flowers" and then cap it off with a trip to VIP. I used to bat .666 but lately it's been closer to .333. Dancer quality has taken a hit.
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Scat I've been there many times too. One girl in particular I like is always tied up. I usually give her an hour before I give up and leave, sometimes up to 90 minutes if it's early in the night.
The best way to deal with this in my experience is when I send the dancer away. I tell her that I'm genuinely interested in playing with her and I have the money but please please come back later because she won't regret it. This doesn't always work but it can increase the odds that my first lust interest returns.
I don't mind the issue...I enjoy the waiting...if it's meant to be it will be
I've had visits where I've spent most of my dough on pretty-good dancers but then seen some really-good dancers later-on but I had already burned thru all of my dough on the "pretty-good" girls and was unable to get w/ the really-good ones.
What also often happens is that I'll be unable to get w/ a dancer(s) I really want b/c I am engaged w/ an ok dancer.
But the other side of the coin is also true in terms of missing an opportunity - I'm usually one to jump on ok dancers but lately been thinking I should be more patient and a bit more choosey and not spend so much time w/ ok dancers and wait for the better-ones which are often fewer in # - w/ the latter approach of waiting I guess one needs to be more proactive once one is ready to make the move (instead of sitting back waiting for her) - in the few occasions I've been more patient I've felt I've gotten better bang for my buck - patience is a virtue so the saying goes
Anyway, often times one needs to make their own-luck in the club instead of sitting their like a log.
"He who hesitates is lost"
Fools rush in, it works both ways. You win some you lose some.
On a side not...
I do find it amusing reading about those wanting to get a dancer at the beginning of the shift so they don't get sloppy 2nds.
That's is a good rule but should only be applied just so far looking for VIP. I may settle for second or third choice in the room, but not taking just anybody. I just come back in a couple of days or try another club (out of desperation compared to my "extras almost guaranteed" club of choice).
1. I've been on here for almost several years; 2. A lot of my new club visits occur during business trips, which is why my reviews of new clubs often come in bunches; and 3. I don't find writing reviews to be all that challenging or time consuming.