ITC vs OTC fees ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I'm not much of an OTCeer and for now don't really care to become a regular-one.
This thread is just to get some opinions.
In my non-practicing OTC mind I would more or less use ITC VIP dancer-fee as a barometer for what I would think I would expect to pay OTC *for about the same thing*; i.e. more or less the same amount of time and services.
What are your thoughts on ITC vs OTC fees (w/ the caveat that it may not apply across the board to all clubs and/or dancers):
a) OTC should be less the ITC (just w.r.t. the dancer fee and not taking any VIP/hotel room fees)
b) OTC should be more than ITC sorta to give the dancer the incentive per se
c) they should be about the same cost - and if so should it be about the same length of time as the ITC session; basically meeting in a hotel room for an hour or so and getting down to business; or do you feel the OTC date should include more time and services (dinner, etc) than ITC and for the same ITC price - or do you take the extra time w/ her into account and offer more $$$ for her extra time?
d) other
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The structure: I always see a girl ITC a few times before I bring up OTC, and even the first time I bring up OTC, I just get her saying yes, then we do high-fives to how awesome it's going to be, and talk about how we'll drink and go strip clubbing beforehand, and more high-fives and shots. Then, the day I want to negotiate, I negotiate a price for the sex (we'll get to that in a moment). Chances are we're buzzed already, and high-fiving once we've negotiated successfully. I continue getting her drunk, and we talk about how we're going to go eating and drinking and strip clubbing and OMGitwillbesomeAWESOME!
In short, she understands from the start that there will be drinking and having fun, apart from the sex, but the negotiation is strictly for the sex. The entire advantage of strippers over escorts is their lack of professionalism: a professional escort charges for every minute of her time, whereas strippers (at least the ones who don't have OTC as a business model, and I'm not interested one bit in those girls anyway) don't think that way. Encourage it, work with it. Otherwise, might as well just go with escorts.
THE NEGOTIATION: I don't have any hard and fast rule. I think sex OTC should cost about as much as sex ITC, even though the club isn't taking a cut (which should bring the price down), even though she's taking more of a risk physically (which should drive the price up), even though the OTC sex plus partying lasts hours longer than ITC sex (which should also drive the price up). Sometimes I'll pay a little more. Sometimes I'll pay a little less. You can't logic this out -- you can just decide the most you'll pay, and how flexible you are.
The first night I used to pay them $300 / hour for the interview. Now it's only $200 / hour for the new girls.
So as OTC is more involved and complex, a girl could try for more money. Also, I think most guys would want more time with OTC.
But as it is extra money, pure gravy, I don't know that girls really want that much necessarily.
For myself, treating the girl just like I would any other girl is the key. So it would never be strictly P4P.
I think the money can be just what you want to pay.
SJG
SJG
In terms of pricing in any given area, I find the midpoint between the average BP price and the average Eros price to still be a fairly good barometer for what is fair. From there, it is a game of adjustments up or down (more often up for me as I tend to chase good talent) depending upon the talent level and the kind of money I believe she is already earning ITC.
I also have a max cap I am willing to spend and if it is not sufficient for where I am clubbing then I just save it for my next club night. Fortunately for me, my cap is more than enough in most clubs that I visit, but not so much in places like NYC or L.A.
When I club I'm using ITC as an opportunity to try out the merchandise and see if they make a good GF experience.
I only do OTC if it's going to be a GF experience. It's the best option because you will drop $200-$500-$1,000 depending on if she is a 8-9-10. 7 and under all get $200 or less. The main point is this. She doesn't stay just for a hour or until the job is finished. If that was the case I would stay ITC. She stays at the minimum of 4 hours up to 24 hours for a sleep over. This covers multiple pops and all the snuggling and conversation you can stand. The other big point is you actually make love and French kiss and do all the Shit that makes you feel like its a real GF.
This can be done with strippers, massage girls, escorts...it's all about getting them off the clock.
This is the true angle I shoot for. The dances, entry fees, first date cost is all to get to know each other and see if you guys can make a good situation out of this.
This is why I think I will be a natural at being a sugar daddy once I get my paper up. Until then I have to save up to do so.
Example I basically spend about $300 month on trying to find a GF situation witch hardly happens. In the mean time I'm actually saving another $300 month to fund the OTC experience once I find the correct play.
Usually I will have $3,000-$6,000 saved up before I start pampering a bitch OTC. In this way she believes I'm loaded so she is getting what she needs and wants and I get what I need and want even if I'm technically on a budget but making it seem to her like I'm balling lol
Gotta fake it until you make it dawg.
By the time I'm in my 50s with every thing I'm doing now I will no longer be faking it
Bet theirs son advice for all you young or broke players and inspiring daddies in how to fake it until you make it
Example $6k down to 3k bitch number one start to finish
Bitch #2 I start with $8k then go down to $6k at finish
Bitch #3 I start with $9,000 and exit with $7,000k
My payment on avg is $300 per GF experience and on avg the girls are 7-8 range.
The math might not be perfect but you boy's get the point...I never did clam to be smart lol
I also agree manly with strippers starting out some give ridiculously expensive prices that later on comes down
It's a lot like buying a new car and the sticker price
I'm not much on going out in public with my hoe but I've been known to cater some fine dinning back at the house or hotel for the two of us
Bitches love da wines