Neighboring dancer/customers

No problem here, I pull out my Glock and fill the pig full of lead.

I admit it, I'm a talker. I almost never do lap dances anymore, only VIPs, but in areas with VIPs that are not private, you get stuck with me doing some talking, if the stripper and I are onto something interesting. I definitely don't talk loud or non-stop -- after all, I don't want the creepy quiet couple next door overhearing me :) -- but I talk

Yes. Loud talkers are the worst. Also, a private dance area that isn't truly private sucks as well.
Being right next to a customer and overhearing their lame conversations with their stripper is annoying.
I usually find myself settling for a second tier girl because the primary girl is usually too busy to dance for me.
Then as luck would have it, the primary girl does her dance right beside me. That sucks as well.

Some dancers make $1500 per night just talking

The dancer I'm with usually keeps my attention such that I don't really notice what is going on around me. If not, there isn't a dance #2

Only if she is talking with her mouth full

I only do VIP/CR with my CF these days so it's usually not an issue, but if some dancer is doing loud fake orgasms, it pisses me off.

It bothers me. But I don't lose my mind over it.

Tune it out.

What bothers me is if the guy next to me is getting a blow job and I'm not.

If the dancer next door is hot enough, I consider it free extra entertainment. Hell if I had the balls, I'd tell the dude we should switch every few songs or so lol

Like flagooner, I usually tune-out those around me - what I don't like is when a dancer & custy sit to talk in a spot that is good for getting dances so I can't get a dance in that spot b/c they are sitting there talking (e.g. Inner Room in Cocoa Beach has benches in the back where people get their dances, yet some un-self-aware custies & dancers wil sit back there for 30 minutes talking after they've gotten their dance and thus taking up dance space or a good dance spot).

What does bother me that I can't seem to tune-out as much is when young people wanna treat the strip-club as if it was a dance/night club & you see them dancing on the floor sorta trying to draw attention to themselves (this has been more so at the dives)

BTW, the two things I love, when I'm in curtained private rooms, but can hear the other couple:

- I love hearing when the stripper is pretending to enjoy the sex but her acting is TERRIBLE. Gives me and my stripper something to laugh over.

- I love hearing when someone is spanking someone else super hard. Sometimes you can't tell who is spanking whom, but I find it absolutely funniest when the stripper is spanking the customer

@subraman I think I'm going to try spanking a bitch. Sounds fun.

Dude you would have not liked getting a dance at Bogarts or HS8 south where the couple on the chairsnext to you was "engaged" or in the next open booth across from you!
I was at HS8south years ago and went to the back for a 'private' dance. There was a couple finishing up across from us. He left after he was done but she did not and sat back fingering herself off watching us. If you were bashful in then you did not do so well there!
I was like being in a live action porn show with you as a participant

It is situational. It depends on "how loud" and "how much." If it's not that bad, you need to just get over it. If the guy is like drunken, alpha-male poseur loud (since women respond to that), they say something to him, ideally in a humorous way.

Like some of the others, I go on a Friday night, and often I'm that guy talking to dancers. So I roll with the punches especially when it is a party atmosphere.

During the day the clubs are usually empty enough that you can avoid this kind of thing. Often when I do a VIP or even a regular dance me and the dancer are the only ones in there. One of the perks of clubbing during dayshift.

I've talked about the Sunnyvale Brass Rail. It is pretty much alcohol powered male bonding during the night shifts. A party, and with girls so that the guys don't have to worry about being perceived as gay. So you just need to let them be loud or whatever. It is like that because our clubs have zero mileage.

But my preference is always on the day shift. Older girls, often a B-team. But still lots of fun and easier to talk with them. Sometimes I'll have my favorite girl to myself on a stage.

Better though if it could be front room GFE and then the VIP room.

When you get into harder core and more costly environments, I don't think the loud drunks matter is as much of an issue. And here in California the nude clubs are no alcohol. And dropping alcohol makes it harder for LE to regulate anything else either.

Used to have the Sunnyvale Hip Hugger, old fashioned. Girls and the stage are behind the bar. So it is a more talk oriented environment. So guys who go to talk with pretty girls are not usually that obnoxious. Tragically Sunnyvale was able to get the building torn down, getting rid of the Hip Hugger and a porno store.

SJG

I envy you dayshifters. That never fits in my schedule.

Many of these places have prettier, younger, and more civilian available girls on night shift.

But for myself I don't want to be up at 2am. And I don't want to be a 2am statistic either.

Need to talk about clubs where girls can come and go as they please.

SJG