Sadomaschism

One more. She rubs ice on her nipples and then let's me warm them from rock hard to soft and tender using my mouth. Im going to ask the DS for this.

I think you just make shut up

And if not

Your a pussy

I love taking it up the ass from a stripper lol

I do, but not all the time. 95% I'm dominant but 5% of time, I do nice and appreciate a dominant dancer. Part of it is the mind fuck where you don't get what you want. The other aspect it is lets you fantasize about rough sex sex with her. Gripping the pole over and over each night also gives some of them incredible finger & hand strength (aka kung fu grip). Often they are pretty good at choking, if you are into that sort of thing. It sound like you aren't or maybe she's not good at it.

Think about it, stripper heels (stilettos) are practically lifted/borrowed from a dominatrix' stiletto boots. That's sort of the precursor to the dancer image we have today.

Plus my wife is 100% submissive all the time. And I get my way 100% with her in our relationship. It's the ways she was brought up by her parents. So it's nice to have the contrast and the option for something rough, new, and fresh from time to time. He helps me to reset and clear my mind.

Naaaah, I'm not into a dancer hurting me. I don't hurt them, I treat women well. If you like it, fine, not for me.

"Naaaah, I'm not into a dancer hurting me. I don't hurt them, I treat women well. If you like it, fine, not for me."

You sound like a brilliant guy vincemichaels!

So, BDSM is not brilliant. But licking assholes is brilliant? Okaaay .. I'm not being judgemental .. really I'm not .. but okaaay.

JS - if you are turning rock hard nipples soft with your mouth, you're doing it wrong.

I'll take vanilla. :)

Well, as I've claimed for a long time, tuscl is generally insanely vanilla. Which isn't a criticism, just an observation. In fact, it's always super vanilla in every strip club forum I've ever read, and I"ve been reading them since before the web, so that's a long time :) It does make me wonder, given how common these acts are in the club (they are incredibly common, there's lots of strippers and customers engaging in at least light play), whether what we're seeing is SW-style posturing in many cases.

Anyway, as you probably guessed, I'm definitely into it. Most strippers seem to be submissive -- they might rather be dominant in the club for control and trust sake, but that's acting and they seem to actually enjoy being submissive -- and I've choked, lightly spanked, pussy spanked, etc. every single one of the strippers who became faves of mine... in some cases they like reciprocating, and I'm willing, but mostly the girls would rather be submissive. (most people would rather be submissive, male or female, stripper or civilian, IME)

-->"I don't hurt them, I treat women well."

This is a pretty retarded view of consensual domination, don't you think? If she likes and wants you to pinch her nipples, then pinching her nipples IS treating her well. Consensual pain for sexual pleasure is not mistreating someone, it's doing what you both enjoy

Several years ago I was in Jen's den in Akron and a hard body older MILF type comes up to me and introduces herself by reaching under my shirt and pinching my nipple so hard that it hurt. I pushed her hand away and reached out like I was going to pinch her nipple and she invited it so I gave her a light pinch and she literally wanted me to pinch as hard as I could. I'm not really into the pain is pleasure scene but she was attractive and cleaner and hotter than the typical Jen's dancer so I bought some dances from her and she was very physical but toned things down a bit. She gave me her number for OTC but I never called her and I never saw her again during other Jen's trips.

She was mild compared to another one that I met in a zero extras bikini bar a few years ago. This one wasn't as attractive and was a little chubby but she was persistent so I agreed to buy a dance from her. She wanted me to slap her and pull her hair which I did lightly but she insisted that I do it harder which I did but I wasn't into hurting her so I never reached the point where she was satisfied. In spite of that it was obvious that she liked me, she offered to dance for free. My thoughts were, ok she's only a 5 in my book but if it's free i'll go along with her. She was really wild, instead of a grind she jumped up and down like a jackhammer and I had to constantly slow her down but went along with her because I was getting all the mileage I could get in our semi private corner, lots of groping, tit sucking, pussy rubbing, I could do anything I wanted. She wanted me to stand up and hold her while her legs were wrapped around my waist and she bucked like a wild horse which I did for 2 songs. I finally stopped it after 5 or 6 free dances because even though I was free to grab, feel, and grope it wasn't that pleasing to me because she was too hyper and we were polar opposites. As we walked back to the bar she wanted to hold hands, strange, and I pulled my hand away. Then she hung around and started talking about me visiting her at her house to the point that I finally had to point out some other guys and tell her to go make some money. Even though she didn't visually appeal to me that much the possibilities with her could have been great if she wasn't so hyper and bat shit crazy.

Nice! which club, if iI may ask?

I think Subraman is correct, there seems to be at least one in each club I go to. I was downtown a couple weeks ago and there was a dancer with a riding crop walking around, that one was easy to pick out.

I wasn't into it but I think it's cause this girl was very dominant. I tried to get her to be submissive but she couldn't deny who she really is. If I got a dancer who was heavily into being the dominated submissive I could probably get more into that.

Just remembered. This girl slapped me during the dance. I was shocked. Pretty hard. But I could tell she wanted to do it harder and was holding back cause I'm a newbie. I considered slapping her back but I really had no desire to.

Yeah I'm not into that either. Would turn me off. If I had gotten a long dance session I would ask her to stop or not continue the dance.

Juice often knocks out bitches in the VIP - keeping it 100

w.r.t. the physical stuff; I assume one is either innately into it or not - not my thing either but I could see how it can be pleasurable at some level - I prefer to grab and feel-up for pleasure not for pain.

Many a time I've had black dancers tell me to slap their butts - I give them s mild slap and they always tell me to do it harder which I'm not into; and even when I slap it harder they still want-it harder - IDK if they tell me to slap it harder thinking I will like-it or b/c they may like it (I think for most it seems to be the latter).

I don't mind physicality at all most of the time; but not to the point of pain although there seems to be something to it at least for some people.

It's fun both ways John. I've had girls tell me to break into their houses (they leave the back door unlocked) and pretend rape them. They want hair pulled, they wanted smacked on the ass. They want to be called sluts.

I had a girl head butt me one time and gave me a black eye. It took me by surprise but hey it's only kinky the first time.

Some girls are dominant. That can be fun too.

To each his (or her) own. I'm neither dominant nor submissive, neither sadistic nor masochistic, into neither bondage nor discipline, so the whole BDSM thing leaves me cold. When a stripper pinches or bites my nipple, I ask her to stop. When a stripper asks me to spank her, I comply, but so half-heartedly that it makes her laugh. One favorite, a thick white girl at Jimmy's in Chicago Heights, once asked me to choke her while she was grinding on me. I did, a little bit, but it was too weird so I stopped.

However . . . I wouldn't be at all surprised to find out that many (if not most) strippers are submissive. As long as they will submit to grinding or blowing me to ecstasy, I don't care.

I live tying a woman up and spanking her ass, but I like to be in control.

Domme girls and I tend not to click.

I once had a dancer tell me that she wanted me to make her feel pain - so I got 10-dances from her and didn't pay her

:)

Yeah I"m into this shit. I can do maledom but I'd rather femdom. Femdom is like you listed (plus more) are many of my favorite things to do during LDs and VIPs. Makes everything way more intense, intimate and unpredictable for both parties.

I'm not into pain but biting can cause me a good deal of pleasure if she doesn't bite a sensitive area after I've been drinking. Some parts of my body at least at times are not very sensitive. I accidentally scratched my thumb up and started bleeding when a screw driver slipped a few weeks ago. I felt no pain at all. I was thinking this doesn't seem right to not feel hardly anything. I remember some dancers asking if I like things rough. One time a dancer bit my nose and neck. That didn't feel so great. Nipples I don't want bitten.

One dancer playing with me kissed or licked my neck and found a ticklish spot there. I didn't care for that either but she found it very amusing on several occasions. I never told any other dancer. I'd rather find a ticklish spot on a dancer. I do think it's funny when I get to do it.

And when you pulled it, what happened?

I haven't had much luck with finding a willing sub in clubs until recently. A couple of escorts have been into it, but strippers haven't typically been receptive until I get to know them.

Recently, I met one who is very submissive, pain, bondage, abuse, humiliation, forced acts, the whole nine yards.

In one session recently, she was blowing me while with one hand I was pushing her down on my dick, and with the other I was whipping her ass with my belt. I managed to hit her pussy once (not hard), and it was like an electric shock went through her body.

When I apologized, she stopped and said "No, don't stop!" By the time I nutted, she'd cum herself about five times from the smacks.

Hot. As. Fuck.

Hell no. Plus there is no way I would put any type of mark on a dancer that later on could be used as evidence for an assault accusation.

GMD: that's how you do, man! love that story, love when they tell you not to stop. I don't use my belt, I prefer my hand, but a lot of women get totally lit up by pussy spanking.