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Cowboy12
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Sunday, June 12, 2016 7:31 AM
Does anyone go to the strip club just to sit at the bar/table to have a few drinks, chat with a dancer and not get any dances?
If yes, do you pay the dancer something for their time?
Also, I always tip my favorites when they are on stage, at least $5.
I usually go to the local club 2 or 3 times a month and spend $150 or more each trip.
I would like to go more often, just to relax and enjoy the scenery....but can't afford to spend that much each time if I go in more often.
If yes, do you pay the dancer something for their time?
Also, I always tip my favorites when they are on stage, at least $5.
I usually go to the local club 2 or 3 times a month and spend $150 or more each trip.
I would like to go more often, just to relax and enjoy the scenery....but can't afford to spend that much each time if I go in more often.
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I have never paid a dancer just to talk. And I never will. However, I don't hang with them more than 5 minutes if I don't plan to spend money without at least telling them that I'm not buying. Sometimes they leave. Sometimes they stay.
However, sometimes there's no strippers there I want to have sexy fun with .... but, perhaps different than many of the guys here, I find many strippers have rockin' personalities, and given that I've already driven an hour to get to the strip club, if I can find a stripper I enjoy, I'll sit and talk and slam drinks with her. Once I've made clear I"m not getting dances, I consider anything I pay her optional -- but I usually do tip her for her time, if she spends lots of time with me. On super slow days, I've had girls spend 1-2 hours with me easy... I'll slide them $50
If yes, do you pay the dancer something for their time?"
Yes Rickdugan does. He once estimated he gave one dancer over $3k just to talk. He was running a real good system...or was she running the system?
SJG
When I’m not in the mood to spend I’ll choose a bigger club with lots of custies that way I can sorta blend in the background and dancers have other options while I just sit there – I can sit there and just enjoy the show and do some stage-tipping w/o having to have the company of a dancer.
If one wants the company of a dancer then I think it’s tougher – I personally don’t like to take up a dancer’s time b/c she’s there to make $$$ - and paying for her time can be costly b/c IMO one needs to make it worth her time.
I guess it’s ok to just hang and take in the show; but wanting a dancer’s time/attention for free or just a few-bucks is kinda wishful thinking and not fair to the dancer.
By tipping generously at the bar I generally mean $100 or so on top off the bar tab, which includes drinks for her, but I only spend that kind of money on girls who are truly entertaining me and/or are potential OTC candidates.
This is no criticism of guys who can sit for hours in a club and simply enjoy the vibe and the scenery - cool beans if you can. I wish I could as well, but I just get frustrated and bored quickly when I start the night with no possibility of being anything other than a passive barfly. For me, there are just far better ways to spend a night and limited entertainment dollars.
Certainly not an option for me. To the club and back home again is close to an hour and a half. I'm not going all that way just to sit, I go with the intention of getting dances. I take out about a hundred for each trip, drinks and some dances, not a stage tipper or for time but do tip for dances if they are good.