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OT: Should he bang her?

chukko

Ohio

My buddy called me the other day and told me about this girl he met at his new apartment complex that he moved into a few days ago. He's an average looking guy, but reasonably attractive. He also told me that he is at the final stages of his divorce from his last wife that he has been married to for 3 years (dated for 5 years before getting married).

Based on what my buddy told me about the girl he met, she is a really cute short haired red head with blue eyes, in good shape, somewhere between a c cup and a b cup, and a small bubble butt. She is single and lives on the 3rd floor with 2 cats and a dog (She is a veterinarian and animal lover) and he just moved in on the second floor with his one cat.

They met after he came from the store to buy some pet supplies for his cat. She was taking some groceries up stairs and he offered to help her carry them upstairs. While heading up stairs, she noticed his pet supplies and that's where they hit it off.

She invited him into her apartment to meet her pets. She talked about her job and the fact that she loves animals. She mentioned how she just moved to the area 1 month ago and is still learning area.

To be fair, because he stopped wearing ring, he told her that he is soon to be divorced and is living alone now. She didn't seem put off by this comment at all. He talked about how he was new to the area too and had decided to move there to be closer to his job (he used to commute an hour to work).

They joked about their pets and were really hitting it off. She even mentioned sexual interest by stating that lately she's been feeling frisky, because she hasn't been with someone in months. She gave him her number and said that he should invite her over to his place sometime so that she can meet his cat and that they should get to know each other better since they are both new to the area.

She is 25 and he is 27. He hasn't had sex in several months as well and says he has less than a month left until his divorce is settled so he is rearing to go. His soon to be ex and him never had children together even though for awhile there they were trying. The divorce has left him bitter about the prospect of ever remarrying or having children. He says that the girl up stairs seems really sweet and open minded, but somewhere in their conversation he jokingly notes how she has so many pets and ask if she would ever want kids. She says that one day she would probably want to have several kids and a family. He told me that he feels like he is going to be rebounding for awhile and probably won't be looking for anything serious for awhile.

So the golden question that he asks me after this whole description of the situation is "If given the chance... should I bang her?"

I think that he should go for it, but just make it clear that he isn't looking for any serious commitment and is down for a fun time getting to know the area better. On the flip side, if things go sour then it could make for an annoying neighbor if she turns out to be crazy.

Should he bang her? What are your opinions?