I just watched this liberal documentary on sex trafficking. And I'm high. Which means that I feel very liberal.
This documentary claimed that almost every sex worker is trafficked in some sense. They focused on prostitution but occasionally mentioned strippers and just talked generally about sex work. I know what I think which is that this is bullshit. Most strippers who give extras are just making a voluntary decision that this job is the one for her.
But here's the point this show made. Most of these girls are in some sort of desperate financial condition that in effect forces them to sell their bodies. So it's not really a voluntary decision because they in effect have no choice. And the guys/johns that buy them are just taking unfair advantage of the girls' hardships.
As this is being described, I'm thinking of all of the prostitutes that I now fuck. All but one is motivated by a desperate financial event. Two were on the verge of homelessness when we met, one still is, there's a parent desperate to provide for her kids, one had very deep student debt, another had no student debt only because she worked as a stripper/prostitute on the side, etc, etc. How do I deny that at some level I have taken advantage of the dire financial circumstances of these girls?
Yes I treat my girls well, I spoil them. But the show said that's how pimps get girls. They treat them like a goddess until they're hooked. I treat mine like a goddess. Shit. Am I a pimp?
The show also talked about how young the girls are, and how that's another way they are taken advantage of. Pimps start grooming them at 17, but don't make them a prostitute until the day they turn 18. The pimps want 18, 19 year olds because they are easier to manipulate. Sound familiar?
Historically I haven't ever felt much like I was taking advantage of my girls. I pay them so much money I sometimes feel like I've been taken advantage of. Mostly though it feels like a fair, voluntary, mutual transaction with no sense of coercion. But this show made me feel very guilty. But tonight I'm liberal. So I'm not sure what feelings are real and which ones are temporary.
So which is it? Do our strippers chose their jobs in a fully voluntary manner? Or at least at some level, are they forced into the job? Am I ( are we) taking advantage of them? At least a little bit?


The media in general confuses dancers with sex trafficking. Both liberal and conservative press seem to have a poor grasp of the difference between sex slaves (i.e. underage and forced prostitution) and students/drug addicts/housewives who are also sex workers. I don't pay much attention to the media's sensationalist style on this subject.