I recently posted a discussion on finding another lady for a threesome. Thanks for all the advice.
In telling her I would be scouting another club for our next new threesome friend My ATF jthrew me a curve saying we since we have had 2 threesome with another lady our next threesome should be with a transsexual. I just sort of stared at her in disbelief.
She said "I'd like for us to take turns fucking and sucking her". My oh my.
While I admit some of those lady boys can be hot they still have dicks. I've got a problem with this.
My ATF is a babe and doesn't charge for OTC but I just don't see me taking the high hard one down my throat it up my ass. Even for her. I have already expressed reluctance to this, but she says her birthday is coming up and really wants to do this. I am willing to risk blowing up my good thing with my ATF by simply refusing a threesome with a transsexual.
Maybe We can just hire a TS escort for her and I can observe the action.
I'm also hopelessly heterosexual so I get where you're coming from, but if you're getting OTC for free, she'll eventually dump you for someone who fulfills her desires. I say much as free OTC is valuable, if you have no bi tendencies you'll have to disappoint her and hope nothing changes. Never do anything sexual that freaks you out.
The only compromise that I can think of that would keep your dignity is to talk her into doing a threesome with you and another straight guy, and no crossing swords what so ever. Tell her she will have 2 dicks in her at the same time and won't have to worry about anything else.
Do you think she's saying she wants to fuck a tranny because she really doesn't want to do a threesome and lesbian things with another woman, and is just throwing it back on you?
Not sure what I'd do in this situation. I'd be inclined to clarify the rules heavily prior to agreeing to this. If your rules are too tame for her desires - you have learned two things - her sexual interests cross some of your lines - and she's going to lose interest in you soon (as she will find another guy who will fulfill this fantasy of hers.
She is heavily bi so I'm an more than a little surprised by this. Her first 3 "relationships"'were with women and interesting enough her next 3 guy relationships were disasters.
I seem to be a safe haven for her since I have resources and patience in dealing with her issues. Whether or not she is sincere in our friendship OTC remains to be seen. I'm a normal looking guy who has an executive level position that allows me to play in stripper world. By normalI mean that I am 50 and have about 30 lbs that don't belong on my frame.
She has repeatedly mentioned that my intelligence and humble character is appealing.
Been with her almost a year. I find it Interesting that she expressed that the TS be verrrry FEM and also being "hung" would be a plus. I am a solid 7" so I guess she is fantasizing about something better than that.
She may just be much more kinky than I thought It will be interesting how this plays out. I like her a lot and thought I could eventually even grow to love her but now every thing is in up in the air.
I've got the money and she has the pussy. Volatile combo.
Conviction over profit my friend. Would you rather lose all dignity of yourself just to keep a fuck buddy happy? I call her a fuck buddy because she doesn't seem to be your girlfriend BUT you said she gives you free sex so she's a FWB or fuck buddy. Or would you rather draw your line and say no men and risk losing free nookie because of standards. Remember, you can always find another women willing to give up the pussy for free after all. So something to think about.
This is more than an OTC relationship - as you've given the insight for us to see that. However it's an interesting idea - posed by the dancer. I'm rambling - but I wonder if this is a turning point? You have the money - and she has the pussy - and you seem to be almost equals in this relationship. Is this her attempt at taking the more dominant role? If you agree to this - I think the chance of ever bringing another girl in is over (even after hearing about the dancers bi history).
It's speculation - and I could be totally off base.
Well as you have determined this OTC relationship is more between a FWB and OTC. Some days it seems she is my GF but we aren't there yet. Maybe never.
OTC doesn't always include a roll in the sack. About half the time it's just dinner , cofee or a visit to a mutual interest venue such as a ball game. Her Time is limited as she is a single mom and has twin girls who I've met and socialized with multiple times.
When we do get busy in the sack it is the best I have ever had. By far. That bus what keeps me in the game. And now I realize it is just that. A game.
Even though I'll risk losing her I'm going to advise her that she can do the transexual and I'll be in the room with no guarantee I'll parricipate with the TS any way. If I get turned on I'll certainly put my Johnson where it belongs- In one of my ladies holes. I'm seeing her tonite for dinner so We will see where it goes.
Buy Bi and Buy Buy to normalcy. This is more than a little homoerotic and (not that there's anything wrong with that) a little out of place in this most hetero of sites.
As far as the TS issue...I have been invited countless times to join strippers and their boyfriends, and that's a big negatory. As much as I may want the stripper, having their bf there is a complete deal breaker (even just watching), so I get how you feel.
Am I the only one that sees how fucking unacceptable the need for this discussion is? If you are not gay which the need for this discussion puts that in question then what the fuck is there to discuss. If you're Bi go your thing but there is no woman so sexy I would blow a guy for. There is no measure for the PL level you would be on. SMFH
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last commentDo you think she's saying she wants to fuck a tranny because she really doesn't want to do a threesome and lesbian things with another woman, and is just throwing it back on you?
She is heavily bi so I'm an more than a little surprised by this. Her first 3 "relationships"'were with women and interesting enough her next 3 guy relationships were disasters.
I seem to be a safe haven for her since I have resources and patience in dealing with her issues. Whether or not she is sincere in our friendship OTC remains to be seen. I'm a normal looking guy who has an executive level position that allows me to play in stripper world. By normalI mean that I am 50 and have about 30 lbs that don't belong on my frame.
She has repeatedly mentioned that my intelligence and humble character is appealing.
Been with her almost a year. I find it Interesting that she expressed that the TS be verrrry FEM and also being "hung" would be a plus. I am a solid 7" so I guess she is fantasizing about something better than that.
She may just be much more kinky than I thought It will be interesting how this plays out. I like her a lot and thought I could eventually even grow to love her but now every thing is in up in the air.
I've got the money and she has the pussy. Volatile combo.
Although I think that this is likely trolling I'll give serious advice: bring lapdanceking82 in on this! I suspect he can give some ace advice!
It's speculation - and I could be totally off base.
OTC doesn't always include a roll in the sack. About half the time it's just dinner , cofee or a visit to a mutual interest venue such as a ball game. Her Time is limited as she is a single mom and has twin girls who I've met and socialized with multiple times.
When we do get busy in the sack it is the best I have ever had. By far. That bus what keeps me in the game. And now I realize it is just that. A game.
Even though I'll risk losing her I'm going to advise her that she can do the transexual and I'll be in the room with no guarantee I'll parricipate with the TS any way. If I get turned on I'll certainly put my Johnson where it belongs- In one of my ladies holes.
I'm seeing her tonite for dinner so We will see where it goes.
Not crossing swords!
Jared
Not for me! ;)
As far as the TS issue...I have been invited countless times to join strippers and their boyfriends, and that's a big negatory. As much as I may want the stripper, having their bf there is a complete deal breaker (even just watching), so I get how you feel.