Do you gentlemen really like anal?

I pass on this offer.

Strange, it's all over porn, everyone says they like it but over the past 2 years I have run into only 2 women that say they liked it. All others were like "no way" and over half of these were strippers.

Anal is fun once in a while (it's tighter, warmer, and defiles the woman more) but I much prefer vaginal sex. Maybe I'm boring though. I need to be buzzed and really horny to want anal. And the woman typically needs to be hammered/drunk (due to discomfort and stretching, even when lube, butt plug, etc are used). Although sometimes you're both just *that* horny and you dive in without any preparations. The girl typically regrets it the next day, obviously. My $0.02.

Most guys I know want to try it or have tried it. Most girls I know are the opposite.

I've done it with 2 girls and it was pretty cool.

If there's a choice between anal and vaginal - I'd choose vaginal every time. The feel of a pussy wrapped around my cock never gets old. Anal is ok - but doesn't compare to vaginal - in my opinion.

When my ATF was still married, her husband wanted anal. She told him to go out in the back yard, find a stick the same size as his dick, stick it up his own ass & see how he likes it. He never asked again. I'm with my ATF on this one.

Yes. I've talked about it a lot. I like both giving and receiving.

Only the DS could turn me on enough to do anal. We originally had an agreement on no anal, but then some guy fucked her in the ass and she liked it. Now I've started studying her asshole when she twerks. When I eat her out she likes me to finger it. I've come extremely close to licking it. I've rubbed the tip of my penis around her asshole. But so far I haven't been able to bring myself to stick my dick in there when the best pussy I can imagine is an inch away. Eventually I suspect I'll get high enough to do it.

I've done it. Not a fan actually.
It's not something I dream about or fantasize about.

Her mouth and pussy are just fine with me.

@Estafador. Thank you for starting this thread. I was thinking of the exact same question while I was taking my morning constitutional and was going to start it myself. I'm like you, no thanks. I've always thought of it as gross and can't imagine any lady wanting to do it. But since I've never tried it (or wanted to) I try not to be judgmental about it.

@ PontiacGuy - Is this because the guys are doing it with each other?

For me, it's a HUGE psychological turn on. And, I feel insanely dominant with her submitting to an ass fucking -- I feel like my testosterone level raises 100 points just from doing it. Better than squats! That said, the feeling itself is very nice, and it's different than vaginal, but eventually the novelty wears off and I want her pussy. So for me, I like it as a rare treat.

Esta, you're super young, right? One of the interesting things about this generation -- and something that has been happening for at least 15 years in my experience -- is that young people are much more likely to look at assholes as an erogenous zone. If you're in your 40s-50s-60s+, it was a whole lot naughtier and rarer when we were in our formative years. Not only was anal sex rarer in porn, but I remember it was YEARS before I ever saw a porn with anilingus in it. These days, as one young woman told me (and all young women concur): " I pretty much expect guys my age to lick my asshole, they almost all try", and this is reflected in the fact that young people have different terms for it (e.g., "salad tossing") when we old people only had one word for ("ewwwwww").

To me, this all came about through much more complex reasons than just porn. Porn is just the reason that everyone points to because it's easy to blame, but there's always an extent to which porn is REFLECTING back to society, rather than leading. To me, asses became much more accepted as sexual organs coming out of the AIDS scare, the rise of straightedge, etc., where young people latched onto "don't have sex", but interpreted "sex" the same way Bill Clinton does, as sexual intercourse only, so young people creatively upped the amount of oral sex and anal sex they had. And started adopting prison terms like "salad tossing" because they previously had no slang words for it. Porn merely reflected this back, and made it more extreme.

My CF is willing and at least pretends she is into it when we go OTC.
It is not better than other options but it is different.

@subraman I'm not sure what your implying to when you are concerning me but I will assume you are saying I'm the black sheep of my generation. I would certainly believe so, because you'd never catch me licking no booty hole. Not in any young lifetime I ever live from past to future.

@Flaggooner - nothing gay about anal sex with hot girls. You should try something different once in a while with a girl.

Esta: not implying anything, it wasn't an insult, just an observation: young men and women are far more likely to engage in anal sex and anilingus than people in my generation. WAAAAAY more likely, as in, "it's just a normal thing, we have a zillion words to describe it like eskimos have 72 words for snow" vs "WTF, you did what?!?!". Obviously enough, that doesn't mean everyone

@ PontiacGuy - Relax.

"Most guys I know want to try it or have tried it. Most girls I know are the opposite. "

Assuming the guys and girls you refer to are telling the truth and that the sample is representative of the population... This combination implies to me onla few explanations.

1. The guys are doing it with each
2. Several guys are doing it with only a few women.
3. The guys mostly want to do it but haven't.
4. The girls mostly don't want to do it but have.

I'm sure there are more, but these are what came to mind. I simply asked if the first was the explanation.

Also, you do correctly assume that my repertoire is comparatively limited, but I enjoy it. Not sure that I need to expand, especially not to ass fucking.

Also @PontiacGuy. By definition anal sex with hot women is not gay unless you are talking about using dildoes. MOTO

No, it's a real shitty way to have sex. :)

It's not an every day activity, but I like having the option. I've only done bareback anal with women with pornstar hygiene back there.

@subraman I never took it as an insult.

I'm a hypocrite, I only enjoy anal when I am doing it to a beautiful woman. Not the other way around.

It is not for everybody and most girls I fuck are not into it at all. Some are curious but cautious, and a very few are willing. Based on my experience it is not nearly as common as porn would lead us to believe.

But it is a new and different experience and sensation for sure. More taboo, more dominating, more intense. But also not something you just jump into unprepared. At least not in my experience.

And the only prediction I am willing to make here is that John and the DS will get so high on weed one night that she begs him to fuck her ass and he writes an epic, SJG length story of his new addiction: weed and anal.

I agree with Warhawks. I tried it and really don't like it. That opening is intended for something else and I am fine with that. I am more than satisfied with the vagina and mouth, no need to explore that dirty thing again. I don't find it sexy at all.

Sorry - I just reread the discussion topic - and I need to disqualify my statements - as I am not a gentleman.

@Corvus: Another thread seemed to have a consensus that rough and dirty (ha ha) about 1 out of 6 girls will allow it. That's been my experience as well.

It's great with the right person. No different than switching up positions.

Occasionally, yes. Just to change things up. I don't make a big deal about it, though.

No thanks to anal.

One of my fuck buddies is exclusively an anal freak. I wouldn't be surprised if she DAP'ed once in awhile.

No. I like girls because they have pussies. If you are going to fuck someone in the ass you might as well fuck a boy because it's the same thing really.

@rickdugan I believe I said something like that in another thread somewhere

!!

SJG

So that means no more blow jobs for some of you because only gay guys suck dick. Plus, no more eating pussy because only lesbians eat pussy. You get missionary with the lights out and nothing else.

Some of the things that some of you guys say just embarrass me as a human being. Do you realize what website you're on and the morally ambiguous activities you talk about doing here? Then you want to pass judgement on others on here for their legally consensual (except in some southern states) sexual activities? And in the same breath you're talking about how you are committing adultery with a female ½ to ⅓ your age? I don't see any of you running around making wild blanket statements condemning yourself or others doing that.

But someone mentions they enjoy anal with their consenting female partner who enjoys it as well and suddenly they're gay. If it's not your cup of tea then don't do it. No need to be an asshole about it.

Plus one on what @seaboardrr said above.

Good point @seaboardrr - well said.

Pretty girl, painted up face, doing a blow job, is like nothing else in this world!

Got to be bona fide female though. It is the entire persona which matters. No trannies.

SJG

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I like girls because they are girls. They are more than just anatomy. But having said that, they have three inputs.

SJG

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rickdugan used to get a lot of shit from other TUSCL members and I saw it as a bunch of bullies picking on him. I now see why he's picked on: it's deserved. Rick...Rick....really??????

I've never understood the thinking, that if you fuck a woman in the ass, you might as well fuck a man, since they both have assholes. They also both have hands, but I only like handjobs from women. They both have mouths, but I only like blowjobs from women. The notion that if you're fucking a woman in the ass, you might as well fuck a man in the ass, is as cringeworthy a notion as I've ever read here, and THAT is saying something.

A woman is not just anatomy. So you can partake with any part of her, and still be relating to her as a woman.

SJG

@seaboardrr not sure how I feel about that statement. But then again, I don't fuck women less than my own age so I suppose I shouldn't worry about it.

I'm of the belief that if you enjoy anal and you're partner does as well. Then go for it. It is of no interest to me (exit orifice only).

:)

It is of interest to me, in women only though.

SJG

Estafador, if I only fucked women in my age group I'd never have sex.

Wow. This thread got quite contentious. Fun reading.

Estafador is one of our younger members.

:)

SJG

Someone once told me that there taint much difference between the pussy and asshole.

You know about the taint line? The line that separates the two, taint the pussy and taint the asshole. Some have referred to it as their chin rest.

SJG

Generally dirt roads that run right next to paved roads are not that useful. But can get into it watching it in porn now. Ever since stripperweb had big thread about how great it was to get fucked in the ass with a horse cock. Maybe everyone in that thread was really a Khazakstani dude pretending to be a stripper. But hey, I have the fantasy now.

Ditto Subraman!

If you've never tried oral, anal, two or more girls, various positions and locations for sex, etc., etc. (I'm always amazed at the remarkable range of sexual activities that people try), then don't judgmental with those who are more adventurous in their sex lives (as long as we're dealing with consenting adults and no one is getting hurt).

If you've tried something that you didn't like it, then don't do it again--- just that simple. No need to get church lady (a SNL reference for the younger readers) and condemn those who enjoy something that you did not enjoy.

Adventurous is a matter of opinion, not a rigid rule. I went through an interest in anal sex with a lot of the women i dated when I was 18 - 35. Last 20+ years I lost interest. I never considered it adventurous, just something I wanted. As far as getting judgmental? What type of insecure nitwit cares if other people think what they like is disgusting?

This discussion began as a simple question about whether guys like anal - and now it's become more about what's "right" to enjoy. It's all good - if you and your partner enjoy it...

I personally have no interest in it and don't understand why either the guy or girl would prefer it to vaginal sex. That being said... If both partners enjoy it, go at it.

"When my ATF was still married, her husband wanted anal. She told him to go out in the back yard, find a stick the same size as his dick, stick it up his own ass & see how he likes it. He never asked again. I'm with my ATF on this one."

He should have emphasized that his dick doesn't have splinters! You'd really need more lube with a stick! ;)

"rickdugan • No. I like girls because they have pussies. If you are going to fuck someone in the ass you might as well fuck a boy because it's the same thing really.

How do you feel about blowjobs? Just as well let a male relative suck you off, no?"

Ace comment Rech!

When a girl gives me a blowjob, I don't run the risk of my dick grazing man stubble. When I am getting a HJ from a girl, I very much hope that it is different than how a larger and rougher man hand would feel.

But an asshole is just an asshole. ;)

Hey look, I'm not debating whether any guy here has the right to fuck another person in the ass. I'm just saying that it is seems a bit too much like fucking another guy to me. I don't care who or what any of you fuck as long as it is of age and can consent.

@rock: You're a emotionally weak sissy trying to wrap himself in warm group approval as a means of protesting my views. Well, if you like fucking asses so much (though you strike me more as a catcher than a pitcher), then perhaps you are enjoying that troll dick that you are sucking right now too. ;)

Rick, being on your ignore list would be the best way for you to proceed.

Late to the table again-I have had anal sex with two different women and it was fun because she wanted it. Having been in the Army, too many gyms, and college dorms I have seen lots of male ass. Female ass is different (sorry Rick) and it was fun. I don't seek it out but would partake if offered and hygiene was established .Either that otr I am really drunk and that would probably disable me anyway.

@rock: My ignore list is reserved for real trolls, not for wannabe troll groupies. ;)

Rick, you must have yourself on ignore then. Or are you just a troll groupie too?

I would also just raise the following, which just came up in an other thread as well. A guy is 18 times more likely to contract HIV from anal sex than he is from vaginal sex. So if you are going to do Greek with a p4p provider who has seen a lot of cocks in her day, then proceed with caution.

I've never had anal with a p4p partner, for all the reasons stated. Too risky.

It's definitely the case that HIV is transmitted more readily with anal sex. A condom addresses that, but condoms are more likely to break during anal sex also. That said, this wasn't a question about bareback anal with a prostitute -- which I agree is pretty crazy -- but anal sex in general, under any circumstances

+1 @seaboardrr

Just so you guys know, what I like to do with women is normal, fun, and awesome.

... But the rest of you are sick perverts.
/sarcasm

I think for me, the big difference between a man's and woman's asshole is, the woman's asshole is surrounded by a woman. To me, this a substantive and profound difference, but could understand the consternation to someone for whom this isn't an important difference :)

Subraman speaks for all we hopelessly heterosexual men who also enjoy anal.

^^^^^ Yes, I fully agree with Subraman!

SJG

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