Last month I had some time off of work and a burning desire to see some T&A. So, I went on a little road trip. I ended up going to strip clubs 7 nights in a row. Is that a sign of an addiction? Should I seek help? Or should I make a New Years resolution to beat my streak next year? I'm sure some hard core clubbers out there can beat my record. Do tell.
That's a nice little streak. Personally, I appreciate going to clubs more when I take at least a week off between trips.
To each his own though. If you can afford it, are enjoying it, and it's not causing problems in other areas of your life, then maybe it's okay. If you are not sleeping enough, it's hurting your work performance, adversely affecting your personal relationships, or causing a financial strain, then maybe it is too much.
I think deep down, you know the answer, one way or the other.
If you can afford it, are enjoying it, and it's not causing problems in other areas of your life, then maybe it's okay. If you are not sleeping enough, it's hurting your work performance, adversely affecting your personal relationships, or causing a financial strain, then maybe it is too much.
I agree with this ^^^
7 day's is very impressive...the most I've accomplished has been 5 days....it's possible in my future i might try to get 7 in
I've found if you repeat the same club more than once a week the regular girls are not as lively when they see u twice in the same week. They tend to be more friendly once u give some time between visits. I also have less enthusiasm when I've been in a club too many times in a short period, so my receptiveness to the strippers is quite low. Rest to recharge, and go forth with vigor.
I've done 5, but even then I was starting to burn out. I don't think that 7 is a number I would strive to beat. The law of diminishing returns applies to most things, including strip clubs in my experience.
I've done 4 days in a row a couple of times, but my 61-year-old body is telling me that 3 in a row, or better yet 3 days out of 5, is more reasonable. In fact, after a year-end "orgy" of 2 SCs tomorrow and 2 on a road trip over the weekend, I think I'll take a couple of weeks off to recharge.
Back in my 20's & 30's I used to vacation in Mexico several times a year. It was not uncommon for me to hit the strip clubs/bordellos 7 nights in a row.
Now I occasionally will hit clubs 2 nights in a row but twice a week is my usual practice.
Life is for living – as others have mentioned on-here from time to time; later in life one often regrets the things they didn't do vs the things they were able to do and enjoy. When you are 80 y/o; would you look back and think:
a) glad I didn't go to those strip clubs and stayed home watching Jeopardy
or
b) man – I'm glad I went and had a blast w/ those beautiful women and got to experience/live those experiences
No-one knows what tomorrow will bring – might as well enjoy yourself while you can – not enjoying oneself does not mean this will somehow avoid bad things from happening in the future – bad things will/may happen regardless; if one enjoys themselves and bad shit happens in the future; then at least one got to enjoy themselves while they could; if one does not enjoy themselves when they can and then something bad happens where they can no longer partake in the enjoyment; then not only are you fucked dealing w/ w/e you are dealing w/; but then you also never got to have a good time and experience those things.
Time goes by quick and we can't afford to waste it.
w.r.t. SCing; if it's something one enjoys; then why not do something that one enjoys – don't we eat and sleep everyday?
+ Atlanta in October 2015; hit 6 clubs and 12 visits total in 5 days – hit Follies 4x; 4 other clubs 2x; and 2 clubs 1x
+ In November 2014; also hit ATL for 5 days and 7 clubs in that visit and about 10 SC visits in total
+ visited Detroit in July 2014 and hit 10 clubs in 5 days – reason I hit so many b/c a few were duds where I didn't spend any $$$ and left for greener pastures
+ March 2014 – hit ATL for 5 days and hit 7 different clubs and about 10 visits in total
When I do SC trips; I don't want to leave one PL-stone unturned and want to experience as many different clubs as I find intriguing since IDK when I'll be able to be in the area again.
This past weekend:
Saturday 12/19/15:
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+ did the 3-hour drive from Miami to Cocoa Beach – hit Inner Room from 6:30 pm to 8:30 pm – went to have dinner – came back and was @ Inner Room form abut 10 pm – 12:30 a.m.
+ left IR at 12:30 a.m. - drove about 30 minutes south to Palm Bay to scout a new club named Pin Ups; was a bust and was there from about 1:00 to 1:30 am.
+ drove south 2 hours from Palm Bay to West Palm Beach (on my way back home to Miami) – stopped at Cheetah in West Palm Beach and was there from 3:30 – 4:30 a.m.
+ drove an extra hour down to Miami – got breakfast – then got home around 7:00 a.m. and hit the bed
Next day Sunday 12/20/15:
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+ went to The Body Club in Miami – was there from about 4:30 – 7:30 and got multiple dances from about 7 or 8 different dancers
+ left Body Club and went to check out Climaxxx – was there about an hour
+ about 9 pm when to The Trap Lounge – was there about 2 hours
+ left Trap Lounge around 11 pm and went back to Body Club where I had started my Sunday – was there an additional 2-hours from about 11:30 pm – 1:30 am.
Slept like a dead-man Su night.
And no I'm not addicted (I think :)) - I just have a bit of a perfectionist streak that drives me to do things to the max or not do them at all.
Whew! Papi, just reading your itinerary for this past weekend made me tired. I'm all for living life to the fullest: when I travel abroad, I often go sightseeing from 8:30 or 9am until midnight or later; when I'm on a strip clubbing road trip, I often hit a club or two a day for 3-4 days in a row; etc. I guess my advice is to go clubbing as much as your time, budget, and appetite will allow. En verdad, Papi, entre nosotros chicos -- what you call a "perfectionist streak" might be just a *little* bit of addiction :)
Agree with most - if you can afford it - and you enjoy it - then go have fun. I call it like Casino's - know what you can afford to 'enjoy' and go have fun - but the point you start hitting the ATM left and right - and can't stop - then you have an issue.
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To each his own though. If you can afford it, are enjoying it, and it's not causing problems in other areas of your life, then maybe it's okay. If you are not sleeping enough, it's hurting your work performance, adversely affecting your personal relationships, or causing a financial strain, then maybe it is too much.
I think deep down, you know the answer, one way or the other.
I agree with this ^^^
7 day's is very impressive...the most I've accomplished has been 5 days....it's possible in my future i might try to get 7 in
Like Joe said, you are just getting warmed up.
Actually, I did this once when my significant other was on a weeks vacation...
Ahh... Good times. Good times....
Now I occasionally will hit clubs 2 nights in a row but twice a week is my usual practice.
a) glad I didn't go to those strip clubs and stayed home watching Jeopardy
or
b) man – I'm glad I went and had a blast w/ those beautiful women and got to experience/live those experiences
No-one knows what tomorrow will bring – might as well enjoy yourself while you can – not enjoying oneself does not mean this will somehow avoid bad things from happening in the future – bad things will/may happen regardless; if one enjoys themselves and bad shit happens in the future; then at least one got to enjoy themselves while they could; if one does not enjoy themselves when they can and then something bad happens where they can no longer partake in the enjoyment; then not only are you fucked dealing w/ w/e you are dealing w/; but then you also never got to have a good time and experience those things.
Time goes by quick and we can't afford to waste it.
w.r.t. SCing; if it's something one enjoys; then why not do something that one enjoys – don't we eat and sleep everyday?
+ Atlanta in October 2015; hit 6 clubs and 12 visits total in 5 days – hit Follies 4x; 4 other clubs 2x; and 2 clubs 1x
+ In November 2014; also hit ATL for 5 days and 7 clubs in that visit and about 10 SC visits in total
+ visited Detroit in July 2014 and hit 10 clubs in 5 days – reason I hit so many b/c a few were duds where I didn't spend any $$$ and left for greener pastures
+ March 2014 – hit ATL for 5 days and hit 7 different clubs and about 10 visits in total
When I do SC trips; I don't want to leave one PL-stone unturned and want to experience as many different clubs as I find intriguing since IDK when I'll be able to be in the area again.
This past weekend:
Saturday 12/19/15:
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+ did the 3-hour drive from Miami to Cocoa Beach – hit Inner Room from 6:30 pm to 8:30 pm – went to have dinner – came back and was @ Inner Room form abut 10 pm – 12:30 a.m.
+ left IR at 12:30 a.m. - drove about 30 minutes south to Palm Bay to scout a new club named Pin Ups; was a bust and was there from about 1:00 to 1:30 am.
+ drove south 2 hours from Palm Bay to West Palm Beach (on my way back home to Miami) – stopped at Cheetah in West Palm Beach and was there from 3:30 – 4:30 a.m.
+ drove an extra hour down to Miami – got breakfast – then got home around 7:00 a.m. and hit the bed
Next day Sunday 12/20/15:
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+ went to The Body Club in Miami – was there from about 4:30 – 7:30 and got multiple dances from about 7 or 8 different dancers
+ left Body Club and went to check out Climaxxx – was there about an hour
+ about 9 pm when to The Trap Lounge – was there about 2 hours
+ left Trap Lounge around 11 pm and went back to Body Club where I had started my Sunday – was there an additional 2-hours from about 11:30 pm – 1:30 am.
Slept like a dead-man Su night.
And no I'm not addicted (I think :)) - I just have a bit of a perfectionist streak that drives me to do things to the max or not do them at all.
Me too; I also spend a lot of time “sightseeing” when I take my trips (along w/ a lot of touching of the “monuments”)