An Aside on Strippers and Older Men
IronFox22
Ohio
As someone who has left youth mostly behind, I find myself looking into the mirror sometimes and beginning to think that I look, well, "old." I won't bore you with the details, but it sometimes make me depressed (as I'm sure aging does to everyone once in awhile). I'm always a little surprised, however, with how well this can be made up for simply by treating strippers with general respect. For the longest time, I thought that young, hot strippers were generally only attracted to buff, ripped men between 20 and 25, and that generally they did not enjoy older customers as much as they did younger men.
I now know that this is wrong, but I wish I had had more self-confidence over the years. Money is the primary object for strippers, of course, but respect and character go a long way. No matter what you look like, you can have some real good experiences--often with hot, young spinners that seem to genuinely enjoy being with you--both inside and outside the club.
You know that old adage that you should treat ladies like whores and whores like ladies? It seems to work pretty damn well.
I now know that this is wrong, but I wish I had had more self-confidence over the years. Money is the primary object for strippers, of course, but respect and character go a long way. No matter what you look like, you can have some real good experiences--often with hot, young spinners that seem to genuinely enjoy being with you--both inside and outside the club.
You know that old adage that you should treat ladies like whores and whores like ladies? It seems to work pretty damn well.
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Good thing you added "slovenly". There are a lot of 50+ women out there that are still bangin'.
Brilliant!
Bottom line is it's good when everybody wins. If I'm fifty or sixty or seventy, and some twenty-something likes me and my money, I'm good with it.
It's a Brilliant topic!
But, truth be told, I'm ok with that. I don't feel like I've missed out on anything in this life, so aging no longer scares me. After two marriages, two other long-term live-in girlfriends over the years, and three kids who will not be legal age until I am in my late 50s and beyond, I doubt I would do much serious dating if I ever became single.
Great topic!
I guess what I can say is live it up and have fun while you're young, so that you can have memories when you're older.
I love this hobby. Where else can most of us pull fit, firm, sexy 20 some year old girls still?
With $ in a strip club!
Like I said before, The worst thing for an old man is an old woman. ;)
IMO most women are not attracted to much older men (15+ year diff) – most people hook up within their age range give or take a 10 or so years max.
Might they like spending time w/ a nice older guy; perhaps, for various reasons – but not romantic ones IMO – sorta like some young women that may like to have friendships with much older women and not just women their age b/c they enjoy the older woman’s company; advice; wisdom; etc.
Would the stripper treat you the same way if you were not giving her any $$$?
Do you have the same “success” w/ non-P4P young civvies as you do w/ paid strippers?
I say live it up and have fun with young girls when you're older, so that you can have memories to smile about in the nursing home.
i've always assumed that, too. for one, strippers are in their twenties and they aren't going to have much in common with guys who are decades older than them.........so what are they gonna talk about while sitting at the table chatting up the guy?
two, it seems like it would be more pleasant for strippers to dance for guys who are in their own age range as opposed to grandpas who's bodies have greatly detoriated
Sure, RickyBoy. Which is why you pay strippers $3000 each every 18 months just to talk to you.
Plus, as ranukam points out, when you're 27, 29 year old woken look ancient. To older guys I assume 32 year old women look young. I don't pay for dances with women who aren't at least a level hotter than women I can still pull for free in the civilian world.
@johnsmith- For the past 6 years or so, I've able to go to nightclubs and pick up some hot 20 something year old girls. 27 certainly isn't old in the grand scheme of things, but as far as the nightclub scene it's getting up there in age. I can MAYBE do the nightclubs for three more years and not feel like a old man in a young guy's place. That's just me though. That's just an example.
One thing I've learned in my advanced years is the ability to intently active listening (at least pretend to). These ladies just want to be listened too and they respond to it. After all, most young women really just want to talk about themselves anyway.
You are only as old as those you feel (or fuck)
Love those strippers, I get older and they stay the same age -- borrowed and adjusted from the movie "Dazed and Confused"
As long as old men have money, young women will be interested.
I have a civilian girl I see in one town I visit who just turned 25 last month. I'm about to turn 51. She loves older men and fucks like a mink. And she is not a stripper, but loved going to a club with me the other day. And no need to pay her either, she's a gold mine. You just have to find those rare young girls who like older men and then fuck as much as you can.