Damn Judgmental

Of course. Nothing makes sense sometimes in a strip club.

I can't remember how many dancers have "laid claim" to me at a club. And literally get upset with me (and the other girl) it I even sit with or talk to another dancer.

But yet, I don't tell them they can't sit with any other PL who comes into their club. And I certainly wouldn't be mad at them if they go sit with someone else. It gives me more opportunity to sample different girls.

I've stopped trying to make sense of it, and just chalk it up to part of the strip club culture... I just assume it's going to happen at some point if I frequent a club a lot.

Has she noticed that the Internet is full of naked women that all men look at?

"Pour lye onto your hand, watch the skin bubble and burn, wash it away with vinegar. Look at it next time you ask this question and remember it was still a better idea then dating a stripper."

Brilliant! A little extreme, but still brilliant!

On a slightly more serious note, she may not like the idea of dating anybody she meets in the club! The club is kind of like the dented cans aisle at the supermarket! Most of the cans are fine, but the dents make it hard to identify the cans that are all puffed out due to botulism! :(

Is she actually a dancer there? Perhaps a former dancer who stopped dancing because it didn't work for her?

I would probably call a dancer hypocritical if she said something like that, but I'd cut a bartender or former dancer at least a little bit of slack.

Strippers saying they don't date customers is news to you?

Yep, it's a proven fact that most strippers meet their boyfriends in church. 2nd most popular place is the library and if a library isn't near, then Barnes and noble will do.

Always remember that girl who work as strippers have a different mindset (or no mind at all)

Why wouldn't a dancer want to date the typical TUSCLer? untoldentertainment.com

Their confirmation bias dictates that whatever comes out of their mouths is true, just because they said it. You could put a lot of work trying to change the perception she has. I'd rather look past her statement as she is right, so tell her that you still can have some fun together. She can take it where she wants it to go, and it's a low pressure pitch by you, but at least the seeds have been placed in her head.

Strippers and dating. ..

I think most women have silly ideas of how they will meet a partner. Especially younger women.

Touchè @JamesSD. Regardless she said she's coming over tonight.

I got this a few times when I was in my 30s and it was not necesserily in the context of me asking her out; more in the context of random convo.

I don't think anyone has ever accused strippers of making sense.

Here's what you can do. Ask her which regular bars she visits. Then pick a night and you can both meet up. Now she can say she met you at the bar.