Why Do Strippers Do What They Do?
davids
Ok, I know most dancers have a cover story something like "oh, i'm a medical student with another job and i just do this for a little extra cash because it's fun and I like meeting new people". But what's the reason you think most of the girls are "dancing"? I suspect most are in some bad situation and desperate for cash: single mothers, drug, alcohol or gambling addicts or they don't have a decent amount of education and aren't highly motivated by career ambitions.
Now I know some of you are going to try and prove me wrong by saying " I knew this one stripper who really was a law student because I later hired here when she started practicing" at the same time you fail to mention the 92 others who do meet my criteria. Again I am interested in averages here not exceptions.
Also, if I am right, does getting a "dance" from women in desperate situations who don't really like what they are doing turn you on? Do you even care? Do you find the more desperate the situation the woman is the more willing she is to do "extras"? Does that bother you?
Now I know some of you are going to try and prove me wrong by saying " I knew this one stripper who really was a law student because I later hired here when she started practicing" at the same time you fail to mention the 92 others who do meet my criteria. Again I am interested in averages here not exceptions.
Also, if I am right, does getting a "dance" from women in desperate situations who don't really like what they are doing turn you on? Do you even care? Do you find the more desperate the situation the woman is the more willing she is to do "extras"? Does that bother you?
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Some people actually care about other people besides their immediate friends and loved ones.
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Oh, plus I am sure you can find plenty of burger flippers who despise their customers too (rolls eyes).
Some people care if the consumer consumables they purchase are made by child labor or slave labor or communists.
Who knows and who cares why Davids needed to ask the question to start with?
He may consider it his business NOT to feed off of the misery of others. He may consider it his business to become an educated consumer. He may consider it his business to learn about how other strip club customers feel about the subject and to if necessary urge them to modify their behaviour. Etc. Etc. Etc.
To those customers who do NOT care and just want to enjoy the benefits that strippers provide and have FUN, I would ask if they care about other members of society who might be being victimized? Do you care about the drug addict? Do you care about the abused child? Do you care about the innocent man rotting behind bars? Do you care about the little old lady who is swindled? Do you care about the little old man who is forced from his home because of rising prices he can't afford?
I lean heavily toward NOT caring. Every dog or bitch for themselves. The other person is just there for your pleasure or profit.
Could be as simple as his upbringing or his code of right v. wrong. Some people don't like to feed off of other people's misery no matter how profitable or enjoyable. So if he believes these young women are basically being forced to sell their bodies it might be a real battle of conscience for him.
This has been a good thread: shows to me another reaons why strippers have such contempt for their customers and hence themselves.
There are some on this board who would argue that, if you start worrying too much about why they are their, you run the risk of getting to involved.
I'm not one of those who thinks like that but it is a valid reason for being cautious about asking the question.
Well FONDL and shadowcat certainly know how to change the subject don't they?
There was a special on porn stars on HBO last night (can't remember the name, sorry) and when asked why the female stars started, all cited desperate need for money due to above reasons, or just the desire to be financially independent doing something they didn't have a huge problem with.