I don't understand the concept of a mistress
tusclfix
Kentucky
Thursday, February 26, 2015 1:38 PM
Was watching some show on tv and it just occurred to me that I don't understand the concept of a mistress. As in a lasting sexual relationship with someone you're not married to, while married.
Don't get me wrong, I understand the need of men to have an actual lasting relationship, and I understand the need for some men to have extra marital activities. But if the former, wouldn't marriage already fulfill that? And, if the latter, wouldn't it be more efficient and diverse to just spend the money on OTC and ITC activities?
Same thing applies to the Sugar Daddy relationship. Why not, just get married or just play the field?
I guess, maybe it's for men who want a permanent relationship but not get married, or just not with the person they're currently married to. But if the latter, why not get divorced? And, it doesn't explain some men who have mistresses that don't actually want to get divorced.
I guess I just can't relate and am confused.
Insights welcome....
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