The first time you go, you're only window shopping. Leave your cards at home, come with just enough cash for cover, a couple drinks, and maybe $20 in singles to stage tip.
Don't buy lap dances your first time. Definitely don't even think about VIP until you've had some good lap dances with a girl on future trips.
No matter how sweet she is, a stripper just wants your money.
Or maybe, figure out how much you can afford to spend before you go to the club and avoid any temptation to spend more than that amount while you're there.
1a-Take a set amount of cash you can part with based on how long you plan on staying. Make it last and when you're tapped out DON'T GO TO THE ATM.
2-Don't sit in the corner and slowly sip a drink.
3-When you sit at the stage tip even if you aren't interested in the dancer at least tip $1
4-Tip your waitress at least $1 every time they brink you a drink. Last weekend a dancer knocked over my drink sitting at the stage and I had a waitress bring a towel to clean it up. What did I do? Tipped her a dollar even though I didn't cause the mess. It's just polite and they'll appreciate it.
5-Smile. Even though i'm having a good time my wife keeps telling me to smile more.
6-When you get a LD simply ask the dancer what her boundaries are. Things will go better if you both know ahead of time.
My advice is to just dive in and enjoy the adventure. Make a fool of yourself. Learn from the mistakes you make on your own, instead of filling your head with a lot of expert opinions about what you shouldn't do. You only get to be a newbie once. Why take all the fun out of it?
If you come to a point where you feel you really need a lifeguard to keep from drowning, by all means come back and tell us how it went all wrong.
It's extremely difficult, (especially if it's been a while for you being with a new girl) but try, try, try to NOT act like a kid in a candy store. It's tough. But it's easy to go over the edge and lose your discretion.
When you go to a casino you only take the money you could afford to lose. Think the same way about the strip club. You are not going to get that money back. Limit your losses by not using credit or debit cards.
try to know ahead of time how much the dances are – probably not a good idea to depend on a dancer to be honest w/ you (although many will be honest about the price).
don’t let her start dancing in the middle of a song and have her charge you for it – ask her to wait till a new songs starts (although sometimes dancers will start dancing in the middle of a song to warm you up and not charge you; but I would clarify w/ her first) – ask her to let you know every time she starts a new song that way she wont try to charge you for 3 or 4 songs when you think you only did 2
the VIP room is where a PL can be taken big time – know how much the house charges and the going rate in the club for extras (if it’s an extras club) – don’t just agree to what the dancer says
if going to VIP; make sure you clarify your expectations beforehand and don’t settle for a vague “I’ll show you a good time” from the dancer
as has been mentioned; do not pay b/f services are rendered (except for the VIP room fee since that goes to the house)
I noticed you reviewed a Detroit club so I assume you are from there and will SC there – Detroit is a bit of a different beast and I believe many clubs there extras and dances are both done in the same private booths w/ no house fee or a small fee – in this case you either negotiate the extras w/ the dancer or just tell her you just want dances
you can read the reviews of a particular club and try and PM someone whom has reviewed it and seems to have good info on the club – or you can ask questions on the board about the club to see if someone is familiar w/ it
Not much to add, but one thing I have found in clubs I frequent, tip the barmaid well, not a single! On future trips the same, and soon she can become a source of excellent info. Of course doesn't always work that way. Never tried it with a male tending bar, but have befriended a couple of bouncers. Also good for info. Even the manager can be a good contact, but beware of all of these, as there are always those that will try to take advantage of you. Takes time, but you can eventually weed those out. Good luck on your journey into PLdome! :)
Prepare yourself for a paradigm shift. Most dancers are from different planets from us. Their rules, expectations and practices are...different. Not all, but most. I recently met a beautiful 22 year old stripper and after negotiating, we went to VIP. She's nude ( except shoes). She unzips my fly and sucks my dick, I come in her mouth, she swallows, then licks me clean. We share a whiskey, talk, snuggle and I went to kiss her ( yes, with my spunk in her mouth). She turned away from me. What's wrong?
Forget the extra shirt. Simply take your SO with you so when she smells like a stripper or is covered in glitter at the end of the night she's smiling. No explanations needed.
Never use a credit card in a SC; many PLs have gotten burned w/ bogus charges like drinks for dancers they did not buy and dances from dancers they did not buy – i.e. never hand your credit card to anyone in the club; if you absolutely need to use it; best to get a cash advance from the ATM and live w/ the fees.
On he subject of ATMs, if you have to use an ATM, get a hand stamp and go find one nearby. Not only is it way safer, it gives you a chance to decide if you really need to spend that money.
^ I sometimes watch some porn or sexy YouTube vids and that gets me in the mood – well, more precisely; sometimes I’ll be watching porn or YouTube vids and then I get in the mood to SC..
If you have a smartphone; watch some porn or YouTube vids and see if that gets you horny (do this at the club or right b/f you get to the club).
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The first time you go, you're only window shopping. Leave your cards at home, come with just enough cash for cover, a couple drinks, and maybe $20 in singles to stage tip.
Don't buy lap dances your first time. Definitely don't even think about VIP until you've had some good lap dances with a girl on future trips.
No matter how sweet she is, a stripper just wants your money.
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Or maybe, figure out how much you can afford to spend before you go to the club and avoid any temptation to spend more than that amount while you're there.
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Clubs are the land of broken dreams
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"There is no sex in the Champagne Room" most of the time.
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1-Take cash. never use the ATM at the club
1a-Take a set amount of cash you can part with based on how long you plan on staying. Make it last and when you're tapped out DON'T GO TO THE ATM.
2-Don't sit in the corner and slowly sip a drink.
3-When you sit at the stage tip even if you aren't interested in the dancer at least tip $1
4-Tip your waitress at least $1 every time they brink you a drink. Last weekend a dancer knocked over my drink sitting at the stage and I had a waitress bring a towel to clean it up. What did I do? Tipped her a dollar even though I didn't cause the mess. It's just polite and they'll appreciate it.
5-Smile. Even though i'm having a good time my wife keeps telling me to smile more.
6-When you get a LD simply ask the dancer what her boundaries are. Things will go better if you both know ahead of time.
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The road to the strip club is paved with good intentions
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My advice is to just dive in and enjoy the adventure. Make a fool of yourself. Learn from the mistakes you make on your own, instead of filling your head with a lot of expert opinions about what you shouldn't do. You only get to be a newbie once. Why take all the fun out of it?
If you come to a point where you feel you really need a lifeguard to keep from drowning, by all means come back and tell us how it went all wrong.
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Never pay in advance.
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All good advice.
Rule number one: Do Not Take a Credit Card or Debit Card. preset your spending with limited cash
Rule number two: Do not get drunk.. keep your wits about you
Rule number three: Tip. even if it is a small amount tip the girls and waitress, it pays off later
Rule number four: See rules 1 & 2
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All good advice.
It's extremely difficult, (especially if it's been a while for you being with a new girl) but try, try, try to NOT act like a kid in a candy store. It's tough. But it's easy to go over the edge and lose your discretion.
I did it... and I'm still paying big time for it.
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Thanks for the good advice to us newbies. It's brilliant!
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When you go to a casino you only take the money you could afford to lose. Think the same way about the strip club. You are not going to get that money back. Limit your losses by not using credit or debit cards.
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OP: " What is your advice to a new unexpert clubs customer..?"
Read RickyBoy's The System. Then re-read it at least 40 times.
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try to know ahead of time how much the dances are – probably not a good idea to depend on a dancer to be honest w/ you (although many will be honest about the price).
don’t let her start dancing in the middle of a song and have her charge you for it – ask her to wait till a new songs starts (although sometimes dancers will start dancing in the middle of a song to warm you up and not charge you; but I would clarify w/ her first) – ask her to let you know every time she starts a new song that way she wont try to charge you for 3 or 4 songs when you think you only did 2
the VIP room is where a PL can be taken big time – know how much the house charges and the going rate in the club for extras (if it’s an extras club) – don’t just agree to what the dancer says
if going to VIP; make sure you clarify your expectations beforehand and don’t settle for a vague “I’ll show you a good time” from the dancer
as has been mentioned; do not pay b/f services are rendered (except for the VIP room fee since that goes to the house)
I noticed you reviewed a Detroit club so I assume you are from there and will SC there – Detroit is a bit of a different beast and I believe many clubs there extras and dances are both done in the same private booths w/ no house fee or a small fee – in this case you either negotiate the extras w/ the dancer or just tell her you just want dances
you can read the reviews of a particular club and try and PM someone whom has reviewed it and seems to have good info on the club – or you can ask questions on the board about the club to see if someone is familiar w/ it
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And then do the opposite of what RickyBoy says.
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Not much to add, but one thing I have found in clubs I frequent, tip the barmaid well, not a single! On future trips the same, and soon she can become a source of excellent info. Of course doesn't always work that way. Never tried it with a male tending bar, but have befriended a couple of bouncers. Also good for info. Even the manager can be a good contact, but beware of all of these, as there are always those that will try to take advantage of you. Takes time, but you can eventually weed those out. Good luck on your journey into PLdome! :)
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Hey..thank you all for your time, this was very helpful. May I ask what is the RickyBoy system?
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Is your heart healthy enough for sex?
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RickyBoy's The System:
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Most brilliant achievement by a strip club customer in world history,
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True story.I used to live with a stripper,she lost out to my cat.lol.
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No matter how much she acts like your girlfriend, she is not your girlfriend. Ignore this truism at your peril.
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Prepare yourself for a paradigm shift. Most dancers are from different planets from us. Their rules, expectations and practices are...different. Not all, but most. I recently met a beautiful 22 year old stripper and after negotiating, we went to VIP. She's nude ( except shoes). She unzips my fly and sucks my dick, I come in her mouth, she swallows, then licks me clean. We share a whiskey, talk, snuggle and I went to kiss her ( yes, with my spunk in her mouth). She turned away from me. What's wrong?
I don't kiss customers. It's too intimate.
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Go to the bathroom before you get to the club
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^^^^ shit thats a good one
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If you have a significant other have at least an extra shirt in the car. Glitter and stripper perfume lingers.
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Forget the extra shirt. Simply take your SO with you so when she smells like a stripper or is covered in glitter at the end of the night she's smiling. No explanations needed.
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Never use a credit card in a SC; many PLs have gotten burned w/ bogus charges like drinks for dancers they did not buy and dances from dancers they did not buy – i.e. never hand your credit card to anyone in the club; if you absolutely need to use it; best to get a cash advance from the ATM and live w/ the fees.
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Get out of Bogart's and upsell yourself to the Criket at least.
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On he subject of ATMs, if you have to use an ATM, get a hand stamp and go find one nearby. Not only is it way safer, it gives you a chance to decide if you really need to spend that money.
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^ I sometimes watch some porn or sexy YouTube vids and that gets me in the mood – well, more precisely; sometimes I’ll be watching porn or YouTube vids and then I get in the mood to SC..
If you have a smartphone; watch some porn or YouTube vids and see if that gets you horny (do this at the club or right b/f you get to the club).
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^^ Sometimes a good strong drink may relax you but one needs to be careful not to over do it or make it a habit.
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Don't fall in love.
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Definitely don't get entangled. It feels good for a while, but then...
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don't drink and club. you end up broke and credit cards maxxed out!
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Everyone forgot one rule.
Have Fun!
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Don't do anything that I wouldn't do but if you do
Don't get caught!
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Just be congruent.
liveyourlegend.net
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It's not about her, it's about you.
These ladies will know who you are based on congruency.
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