How many women have you had?

In high school i got laid by my high school sweet hart. Divorced her then got married again. Divorced her and got in the stripper game. Im 38 and only had 2 wives and 3 strippers. 5 girls total

I would enter the number but it's so big it might crash the server.

Caveat. I'm from SoCal, so if any one from there wants to chime in; it might be bar setting. It's probably harder to get laid in other parts of the country with all that church morality, old fashioned values and what not.

I have no idea. Sounds like you're counting scalps. I got married at age 24 and for more than 30 years only had one affair - at age 40 I hooked up with a 29 year old civvie and she was HOT, HOT, HOT. Around age 57 or 58 I got a job which required travel about 100 days a year. I started using escorts and while some were very beautiful and accommodating it just wasn't the same. I didn't know them and it was simply a physical act. For me, the sexual experience is magnified when there's a personal basis for the sex. When we can converse and learn from one another - when there's affection.
In my 60's I hooked up with strippers and have been seeing my ATF for more than 5 years. The best? When I had that 6 month affair at age 40. Pure bliss.

^^^@gawker Good for 40... That's awesome. Probably more romance involved too.

Define "had." For example, girls gives me a blowjob in club with CIM. Have I had her? How about full service? What if it is OTC? How about titty fuck and cum on her breasts? The answers to these questions greatly impact my number.

Or is "had" limited to civilians?

Not a clue.

@JS69 Well, I was counting vaginally. How ever wherever.

For me, the sexual experience is magnified when there's a personal basis for the sex. When we can converse and learn from one another - when there's affection.

Agreed

Seems like I have nothing to be too worried about. You guys older than 39 seem to be getting enough, and maybe even more action than guys in their 30's. With reasonably aged pussy. I would not mind fucking 29 year old in my 40`s

To measure sexual prowess, we really should ask how many tunes a guy has had a dream stripper vaginally uncovered.

However, answering your broader question as defined, I've had aprox 15-20. Most were strippers.

Do immediate family members count? :O

Somewhere in the 40-50 range.

I'm in the mid 40 range. Many of those were during a 3 year non monogamous relationship in my 20s where she would hunt down girls for us to fuck together.

She was crazy, but you can put up with a lot of crazy from a hot bisexuals submissive.

Hmmm I think there may need to be some clarification in this thread - if it even matters.

Are we talking in general or only non paid rendezvous? Lol

I just had 3 sexual partners in jr high/highschool. Lots of bjs but sex seemed rare. During my sophomore year of college I partied a lot and it was quite a dark year for me. I think that was my official jump into adulthood. My record was 7 different girls on 7 different nights of going out in a row. Then I think I went on a two month drought. I also had sex with 2 different girls within 1 hour of each other and neither ever knew of the other. My junior year I met who would become my wife and only has sex with an occasional stripper here and there after 5 years of marriage. Up until the 5 years (along with 3 years of dating before marriage) I was monogamous. After having sex with a stripper in Canada, I didn't feel guilt and continued to do it on occasion. Fast forward to my mid 30s and I have sex with all sorts of women now.

I don't think your best sex years are behind you... When I was 20 I once had sex 9 times in one night having an orgasm 7 times. I could never do that at my age now but the sex is longer, better and more passionate - so as you are older focus more on each individual experience more than just the numbers.

It's a shame it's not socially acceptable to fuck who you want. I think a lot of marriages wouldn't have needed if the partners could do as they please when it comes to sex. To bad jealousy gets in the way. Nobody is immune to jealousy! Lol

Are we talking about couples or group/orgy?

I'm thinking Lopaw is modest. She probably has everyone beat.

33 & 1/3

Somewhere between 30 and 40. Only two of whom were strippers. The number jumps way up if Bill Clinton is wrong and a blowjob is sex.

If we including paid in that number, I somehow doubt that many of the guys around here would have a prayer of coming up with an accurate count.

I stopped cutting notches in the bed post a long time ago.

The average man only has a total of 7 sex partners in his lifetime.

Everyone on here said they had way more than that

Lol

7 per lifetime makes sense if you're only fucking civilians. But if you do striopers or escorts, or if you are rich, obviously the number is going to be a lot higher.

Keyword AVERAGE. that account for people who don't get laid at all living in mom's basement. I'd like to see what the average is for cities like LA NY Chicago etc...

Ya for large cities I can't imagine it's under 15. Hell I got laid on accident that many times...

Damn 7 is the average for a man's lifetime? Shit I had 7 by the age of 17.

I realize that John Smith

But the guy who started this thread said he had a total of 28 by the time he was out of college. That's four times the average.

And let's be real, he probably wasn't having sex with any strippers or escorts while he was in college

^^^@viking no I definitely wasn't. Could not afford to.

God Bless SDSU

^^^yes, one of Diego's finest attractions, along with P.B.

Most of my fucks were when I was younger (19, 20ish). Back then I was a horndog, and I pretty much wanted to fuck anything I saw lol. That led me to settling for a lot of 6's and 7's, I didn't care because I was getting different pussy every night. When I got a little older, my standards got higher, so now I'm fucking better looking women, but not as many women.

Sorry bros, I'm not going to BS you about how many I had.

One girl I fucked by just pushing her against the wall, raising her mini-skirt pulling down her panty and fucking her right there. I don't even know her name.

So many stories, man, so many stories.

That will be written down sometime in the near future when I'm old enough to write my memoirs.

^^^^ yo bro, rape isn't cool

Kidding.... cuz I'm hoping you had established consent.

I dunno man, some women tend to just give-in to the right man. They just simply spread wide.

I dunno, can't explain.

Govikings: guys who post here almost certainly aren't the kind to settle down for the third pussy they fuck. We're the kind of guys who really love naked women and for whom porn just doesn't cut it normally.

Alabegonz, at what point did you get tired of the mace?................Just keeding

I've never kept track or felt any desire to keep track. I spent my Naval career in Europe and it was a different girl almost every night. If I knew you were going to ask this question I might have kept track. But as it stands I have No Fucking Idea !

Around 40 for me. Half of those during the past three years. I'm in my late 40's and have had much more fun in the last three years than while in my 20's.

The average for a man's life is 7? I was above average by age 20.

Before I got married, I was at 34.

After I got divorced and into the SC scene the past 4 or 5 years... I'm now at probably close to 200 or more.
But, I live in Detroit where a bad day at a strip club means you leave with "only" a HJ... And I can't tell you the last time I've had a HJ from a stripper in a Detroit club. The extras are just too prevelant. I've actually had one club (Penthouse) where I have never, ever struck out with a girl of my choosing there. It's the closest thing to a sure thing that I've ever experienced.

I suspect it's about 20 to 30, if you are talking about vaginal penetration. In college, I had 9 different ladies, 4 of whom were official girlfriends, 4 of whom were one night stands with college girls, and 1 who was the lady in the apartment next door my last year, who apparently let anyone with a cock fuck her whenever, my first sexual experience with a MILF even though the term didn't exist then. After college, I lose track, but I've had plenty of ITC and OTC experiences, and I've also met ladies in bars. I don't have any idea as for BJ's, but usually, a BJ led to pussy fucking. Anal is up to 3.

I lost count a long, long time ago--- but I'm in my late 50's so I have a lot to recall (or maybe some fading neurons, who knows)!

Four stages for me:
1. high school in a small Bible Belt town-- zero! It was only much later that I realized that some of the cute girls in church spent time on their knees for reasons other than prayer.
2. college, pre-marriage --- lots of college girls including a few longer relationships but lots and lots of flings
3. marriage-- monogamy for many years until menopause and weight gain reduced her interest in sex, leaving me in search of "opportunities" but still satisfied with the non-sexual aspects of the relationship
4. strip club era-- thanks to tuscl and a few other web sites, I discovered that strip club culture had evolved, at least in some areas of the country. Nothing like having a bit of discretionary income and willing young dancers!

I've got to get to Detroit and get my numbers up.

zero civvies
zero strippers

I've got to get to Detroit too

A lot. I did well in college. Even better in the very wild years right out of college.

And that doesn't count the professionals.

First married at 39 and then divorced from 46-56. Not counting paid for experiences my count is around 50 if you include non penetrative interludes. I was in the Army and that led to a lot of time doing nothing so I came up with an accurate list that I have kept up since then. A little OCD but it is nice for nostalgic purposes. I also tried to see if there was a pattern amongst them. Other than white over black and slender over thick there was no pattern. At 57 I am still not as old as the oldest one I had and my TOO young has moved up considerably.

One...

When did "sleeping with" become a synonym for fucking?

@Clubber ^^^ I'm guessing the Victorian era, but you would remember that better than me :p

I've lost count and don't feel like traveling down that memory lane right now.

It would be interesting to see some stats related to number of sex partners and longevity of life.

^^^ yes that would be interesting

I lost track a long time ago, but it's easily in the 100+ range. I currently average 2-3 new ladies a month in addition to my regular rotation.

I'm a little surprised at how low the other numbers are, either that or I must really get around a lot more than I think I do.

Can I count the girls I had to inflate first :-)

Only kidding guys.....