Yeah, yeah- other than a ton of money and your big dick- what you you find your fav (or FDJ- fav du jour) appreciates?
For me, I know several who are hygiene freaks, so in addition to ensuring my personal hygiene, I carry sanitizing wipes, some spray hand sanitizer and a handkerchief. Even though some of the girls have them, I've noticed they really appreciate someone who shares their interest about this and will wipe down the couch in the CR and clean their hands before she does it (kinda like holding open a door). I find these little things get me a thoughtful and engaged companion in return. (Sure, I know there will be comments about your money and big dick making none of this necessary, but I am curious about the more chivalrous or at least thoughtful among us.)
Chocolate too. Hard to go wrong with chocolate (if the dancer knows you).
For OTC I always bring sanitary wipes, lubricant ( so my big dick can play "hide the pepperoni") and hand sanitizer. One of my favorite dancers also likes alcohol wipes to clean my dick before a blowjob.
Food and alcohol. The girls seem to genuinely appreciate it, I really enjoy eating and drinking with them ... and it's a nice side benefit that by the time we're done eating, she's probably spent an extra 45 minutes with me :)
In the non-alcohol clubs I go to, I'll smuggle in a water bottle filled with vodka. My faves will often rotate through stopping by just to sit and drink it with me.
Being clean is def appreciated by dancers – but $$$ is 1st and foremost – so being clean is a good thing in *addition* to paying her well; not in *place* of paying her well.
I mention the in “addition/place” distinction b/c I’ve heard of dancers complain of customers that just want to buy them drinks in order to have their company but not buy any dances or VIPs – and many of these custies actually think the dancers are ok w/ that – so yeah – many dancers like to have drinks bought for them; but this is in addition to selling dances/VIPs not in place of.
The topic of gifts in general has actually been discussed by dancers over on stripperweb.com – for the most part they don’t really care for gifts unless it’s something really expensive like jewelry or a very expensive perfume.
A while back I was at a SC and there was a flower guy there – I told the dancer I was w/ that I wondered if he actually sold any flowers and she said he usually sold out by the end of the night – and by the end of the night; the dancers’ dressing room would be littered w/ flowers all over the floor of which no dancers took home nor really cared about – yet PLs probably thought they were doing something to endear them to the dancers.
@PC-100% spot on about the strippers not giving 2 cents about flowers. These ain't civie gals that you're trying to establish something greater between two people. They're strippers. They take their clothes off for greenbacks.
w.r.t. gifts; call me cynical and perhaps I am – but I think most dancers would rather have, and need, the money, more than the gifts – i.e. they would probably prefer the $50 cash rather than a $50 gift – just my opinion; not saying it’s a fact.
They love the fact that I will sit and listen to them vent about all kinds of shit - especially about their latest baby daddy drama and how the rest of the dancers in the club are ratchet and always stealing her stuff.
But I think that it's my raging big ole camel toe that seals the deal.
I'll second food and booze. Younger strippers seem to fucking love candy. It's more of a "friend" move than anything to get you laid for free or something.
One dancer I knew enjoyed Cherry Lifesavers or root-beer barrels. Every time I went to the club, I made sure I had some with me. Actually remembering some of the stuff they talked about in previous visits always seems to help, too; I guess they think I'm actually paying attention.
I haven't had too many odor problems. Like Shadowcat though, there's a dancer I've gotten dances with on multiple visits, but now she's gained a lot of weight and is just straight fat. I don't get dances with her now, and she asks me why. I like being honest, but I can't tell a girl she's fat. I wonder what I should tell her.
I think most girls like flowers just not from customers.You don't wanna go home after a long shift carrying something that reminds you of work.As for gifts-the best one is money or at least store vouchers;any other items better be expensive and not very personal,it's happier that way.
I usually bring mints and leave them on the table. They are sometimes very popular among dancers. I do it cause I wanna kiss and all the girls will know that I have fresh breath.
I have been giving my latest favorites t-shirts. I've probably given out a dozen and have 6 or 7 in stock. All size medium. The last one I gave read "If your dick was as big as your mouth I might be interested".
At the Columbia SC Platinum Plus, I am still known on the day shift as the "Candyman". Their favorite is peppermint patties.
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last commentIn the non-alcohol clubs I go to, I'll smuggle in a water bottle filled with vodka. My faves will often rotate through stopping by just to sit and drink it with me.
I mention the in “addition/place” distinction b/c I’ve heard of dancers complain of customers that just want to buy them drinks in order to have their company but not buy any dances or VIPs – and many of these custies actually think the dancers are ok w/ that – so yeah – many dancers like to have drinks bought for them; but this is in addition to selling dances/VIPs not in place of.
The topic of gifts in general has actually been discussed by dancers over on stripperweb.com – for the most part they don’t really care for gifts unless it’s something really expensive like jewelry or a very expensive perfume.
A while back I was at a SC and there was a flower guy there – I told the dancer I was w/ that I wondered if he actually sold any flowers and she said he usually sold out by the end of the night – and by the end of the night; the dancers’ dressing room would be littered w/ flowers all over the floor of which no dancers took home nor really cared about – yet PLs probably thought they were doing something to endear them to the dancers.
Money.
But I think that it's my raging big ole camel toe that seals the deal.
If you remember, you ARE paying attention. :)
I give them xanax bars
At the Columbia SC Platinum Plus, I am still known on the day shift as the "Candyman". Their favorite is peppermint patties.