For full disclosure, I am still new to the strip club scene and trying to decide whether the winter months are better for visiting the strip club or waiting for spring and summer. I like to get great value for my dollars and prefer to visit during the daytime, and avoid nighttime and weekends, with its loud and boistrous crowds and showoffs. This has worked out well for me. More extras for less money. Summer has been especially good to me. I am in a dilemma whether winter may be a good value for my dollars or better save and wait for spring/summer months.
I think that with winter, there are little distractions in terms of entertainment and the strip club may be the only entertainment option around. The strip club may be crowded with horny guys and your money may not go far enough. During the spring and summer months, I think that there are more avenues for your entertainment dollars from theatre shows, amusement parks, travelling escorts, etc. Therefore, the pull on the strip club dollar may be more, and there may be less people in the club. This is my reasoning and I may be wrong. Let the great Sages speak that have spend time comparing winter with the other seasons.
The only suitable months for strip clubbing are May and the ones containing R or U :) Seriously, I have had happy times at least one strip club a month, with one exception, since 1996 and enjoy the hobby in any weather. The main advantage of summer clubbing is that I can wear shorts, which leads to some nice hands-on contact at the divier clubs that I visit in East St Louis and Detroit.
Strip clubbing is a year around sport. As long as the weather doesn't prevent you or the dancers from getting to the club, it continues to go on. Wardrobe may have to be adjusted but even in the very cold climates you can work around this with a willing partner.
I'd hate to overstate the obvious, but any time you wanna go is a good time to go. Winter has its challenges, because you pretty much have to wear pants and just getting to a club may be a challenge, depending on where you're at. Once you are settled in, they will make you comfortable regardless of what it's like outside.
From my experience, the time from around Holloween to NewYears day is the busiest strip clubbing time. This is where the girls I have talked to say they make "bank".
From everything I've heard, and witnessed, business at the clubs really tails off at most beginning in January. So you might get more bang for your buck in the off months. Vegas is probably the exception. I'm sure is pretty busy there all year round.
Only on days of the year ending in 'y' in months having 28 or more days and when the season is spring, summer, fall, or winter. Consider that the Dougster System for choosing when is a good time to go.
From the tone of your posts I suspect that you are single. And clearly you are a nice guy.
Since you have been clubbing for some months, why not start dating some of the girls in a civilian manner. I don't think SC's should be a regular source of sexual gratification, just a way of getting turned on an meeting girls.
" I don't think SC's should be a regular source of sexual gratification." SJG
Yes but you are all in favor of happy endings in AMPs. Sounds like a double standard to me. Strip clubs value is precisely as a source of sexual gratification.
You can go to the strip any time of the year and have a good time. The same girls will work all year around. Entertainment at a strip club is a year around thing. Even in a colder climate, the girls still will have to work for money. Just keep yourself warm with a few chicas on your lap......
I don't know if I wholly agree with Bullwinkle. It probably depends on the club. At my #3 club, I can decide to show up two consecutive Friday nights at 10 PM and one time, it will be almost empty, and the next, it will be almost full. It doesn't matter what time of year it is, and this seemingly random pattern happens all year. The only thing that makes things predictable is if there's a big event going on nearby. My #2 club seems to be full in winter and empty in summer, which I consider to be largely a result of the fact there's a big college campus nearby there. But #1 is the reverse, since it's the middle of nowhere.
Have thought and wondered the same thing topic creator and I think it all depends on the club and you. Most places do not get much business in the winter but the pay off is usually better service and the ladies will see you are willing to come in during the crappy cold part of the year.
The dancers also are usually cold as well having to work in little to nothing but will often be more apt to "warm you up". I can say that the deep cold in late Feb and March might be best avoided as that is the time where most people are sick or get sick.
JS69, No I don't think AMPs should be a source of regular sexual gratification either.
Happy Ending, to me, it means HJ. I don't go for that. I go for FS. I do it this way because I shop until I find a girl I like, and well, that is how I express my like to her.
But I don't endorse any sort of P4P sex as a regular source of sexual gratification. It goes back to what a dancer told me long ago, that using SC's for sexual gratification is perverted.
I have thought about this long and hard. Using it for sexual gratification is perverted because the venue and the money are being used to put up an emotional wall. To be perverted is not to be having too much sex. It is to be blocking your enjoyment of sex and your engagement with your partner, with something. The P4P mode is just that. It is paying money for something which generally otherwise is free, so that you can do it without becoming emotionally involved. An exclusive diet of this kind of restricted sex is perverted. It is even more so when it is ejaculation oriented and not GFE.
So P4P sex venues, including SC's and AMP's, give you a new perspective on relations between men and women, and they give you a way to score with a new partner right away. To this end, they are valuable. But that is it.
Now, when I was in a dysfunctional marriage and basically trying to stay sane and envision a different kind of life, I made use of AMP's and SC's. I did this because until I could implement an ethical exit plan, I had no other recourse available for even verbal engagement with women. But I always was using it as a learning experience. I never saw it as a way of life, or as a replacement for getting my life back.
Thanks to Warhawks, Bullwinkel, and Papi Chulo for great words of advice. I will give winter a try with the hope that there would be less dollars and customers, and more opportunity to enjoy.
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last commentSeriously, I have had happy times at least one strip club a month, with one exception, since 1996 and enjoy the hobby in any weather. The main advantage of summer clubbing is that I can wear shorts, which leads to some nice hands-on contact at the divier clubs that I visit in East St Louis and Detroit.
Best advice you're going to get is from Lopaw. Go a few times and find out for yourself.
From everything I've heard, and witnessed, business at the clubs really tails off at most beginning in January. So you might get more bang for your buck in the off months.
Vegas is probably the exception. I'm sure is pretty busy there all year round.
Since you have been clubbing for some months, why not start dating some of the girls in a civilian manner. I don't think SC's should be a regular source of sexual gratification, just a way of getting turned on an meeting girls.
SJG
Yes but you are all in favor of happy endings in AMPs. Sounds like a double standard to me. Strip clubs value is precisely as a source of sexual gratification.
The dancers also are usually cold as well having to work in little to nothing but will often be more apt to "warm you up". I can say that the deep cold in late Feb and March might be best avoided as that is the time where most people are sick or get sick.
Happy Ending, to me, it means HJ. I don't go for that. I go for FS. I do it this way because I shop until I find a girl I like, and well, that is how I express my like to her.
But I don't endorse any sort of P4P sex as a regular source of sexual gratification. It goes back to what a dancer told me long ago, that using SC's for sexual gratification is perverted.
I have thought about this long and hard. Using it for sexual gratification is perverted because the venue and the money are being used to put up an emotional wall. To be perverted is not to be having too much sex. It is to be blocking your enjoyment of sex and your engagement with your partner, with something. The P4P mode is just that. It is paying money for something which generally otherwise is free, so that you can do it without becoming emotionally involved. An exclusive diet of this kind of restricted sex is perverted. It is even more so when it is ejaculation oriented and not GFE.
So P4P sex venues, including SC's and AMP's, give you a new perspective on relations between men and women, and they give you a way to score with a new partner right away. To this end, they are valuable. But that is it.
Now, when I was in a dysfunctional marriage and basically trying to stay sane and envision a different kind of life, I made use of AMP's and SC's. I did this because until I could implement an ethical exit plan, I had no other recourse available for even verbal engagement with women. But I always was using it as a learning experience. I never saw it as a way of life, or as a replacement for getting my life back.
SJG
But I have heard of some PLs not SCing much in Winter b/c they can’t wear their perv shorts.
SJG
Don't worry so much - just enjoy your nights in the SC.