Stripper Shit
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
I've been with the ATF for about 4 months now. I really thought that I had found a mythical creature in her -- a stripper with no stripper shit. She seemed to have it all together -- no lies, prompt and responsible, no drugs, dependable, no rip offs, no asking for extra funds, specific plans for the future, etc.
Well this myth, like all others, was finally proven false. Whenever something seems to be too good to be true, it is not true. There are no exceptions to this rule.
There have been several signs of SS on the horizon this week even though I initially tried to ignore them. Her seemingly well laid out school plans sound in disarray, money management problems became evident, and schedules kept getting changed. Now, even though we made detailed and specific plans for tonight, even though those plans involved the extra girl that I mentioned in an earlier post, and even though like a stupid PL I made no alternative plans for tonight because she is so reliable, she now says she doesn't "feel inspired" to meet me outside the club tonight whatever the hell that means. Actually I know what that means. It means stupid stripped shit. Most likely she found some PL willing to dump ridiculous sums of money on her at the club without requiring her to put forth much effort so she doesn't need me tonight.
I was planning to take a trip with this woman. How is that even possible? How can you do something that requires several weeks of advance planning when she can't even schedule and keep a commitment 24 hours in advance? How can you do anything in life if you suddenly back out because you don't "feel inspired" to do what you committed to? SS.
Here's the bottom line which I should have understood from the outset but somehow lost sight of. All strippers, every single one without exception everywhere, are all full of stripper shit. It goes with the job and can't be avoided. If you are with a stripper and there has been no SS. that just means that you haven't known her long enough. Stay with her and it'll come out in full force when you least expect it.
Of course this doesn't mean I'll stop seeing the ATF. I'm still a PL, and I love the way she lets me fuck her in the mouth and swallows. But I have to admit that I am very disappointed to be taught a lesson again that I should've known all along.
Thanks for letting me vent. The little head now insists that we hit some clubs tonight because he really had his heart set on a blowjob. The little fucker has a one track mind. I might stop at the ATF's club so she can see me spend all her money on the other girls. Would that be wrong?
Well this myth, like all others, was finally proven false. Whenever something seems to be too good to be true, it is not true. There are no exceptions to this rule.
There have been several signs of SS on the horizon this week even though I initially tried to ignore them. Her seemingly well laid out school plans sound in disarray, money management problems became evident, and schedules kept getting changed. Now, even though we made detailed and specific plans for tonight, even though those plans involved the extra girl that I mentioned in an earlier post, and even though like a stupid PL I made no alternative plans for tonight because she is so reliable, she now says she doesn't "feel inspired" to meet me outside the club tonight whatever the hell that means. Actually I know what that means. It means stupid stripped shit. Most likely she found some PL willing to dump ridiculous sums of money on her at the club without requiring her to put forth much effort so she doesn't need me tonight.
I was planning to take a trip with this woman. How is that even possible? How can you do something that requires several weeks of advance planning when she can't even schedule and keep a commitment 24 hours in advance? How can you do anything in life if you suddenly back out because you don't "feel inspired" to do what you committed to? SS.
Here's the bottom line which I should have understood from the outset but somehow lost sight of. All strippers, every single one without exception everywhere, are all full of stripper shit. It goes with the job and can't be avoided. If you are with a stripper and there has been no SS. that just means that you haven't known her long enough. Stay with her and it'll come out in full force when you least expect it.
Of course this doesn't mean I'll stop seeing the ATF. I'm still a PL, and I love the way she lets me fuck her in the mouth and swallows. But I have to admit that I am very disappointed to be taught a lesson again that I should've known all along.
Thanks for letting me vent. The little head now insists that we hit some clubs tonight because he really had his heart set on a blowjob. The little fucker has a one track mind. I might stop at the ATF's club so she can see me spend all her money on the other girls. Would that be wrong?
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1. Look reasonably good.
2. Not afraid to dance in front of people.
That's about it. Nowhere does it state you have to be prompt, reliable, hard working, intelligent, or anything else you might expect from a human being. They don't have to show up on time, or do anything their entire shift, have any skills, know anything, care about anything, etc.
And since being a stripper is considered by society to be only for sluts and whores, all strippers are fighting the knowledge that society sees them that way, and grapple with that in their own ways. And the job attracts only those women who are screwed up enough to be able to deal with that.
So stripper shit is the rule. It always will be the rule. And anyone who thinks their ATF is different is fooling himself.
I would say, just like what happened to me, it caught me by surprise and I found myself stewing in a bad moment.
My reading on that one, she is probably not ready for you, yet. So you may have to grease it up a little more, which she will probably like because she gets money from it. Then she will tease you up with the idea of going out wherein you will get caught in there and from there she will play you like a banjo.
This is for sure, certainly for sure, if a dancer really likes you, she will tell you right away like "we could go out after work, I'll give you a private dance, I know a place we can go." And you will get laid that very night, six pack sure.
Going back to your story, sounds like she is not going to cross that line, yet. So, it is up to you if you are willing to play it long like keep spending money on her until she falls in love. I read it takes a year or two to even make her feel something for you. Might take two to four years to get her to bed, considering she is not a junkie or escort.
I'm going to hope that was intended as a joke. Really. Because the pathetic-ness of that is beyond comprehension.
Tell me you're not serious.
What especially pissed me off here is she decided to cancel the night before the date, at around the same time she was texting me with details about the date. I know this because she was on the web site the next morning as working that night, which means she told them she would be at the club the night before.
But I found a dancer to make the little head happy last night so I'm over it. There's always another stripper to choose from.
For those reasons, I plan OTC almost exclusively on a same day basis, often ITC with a negotiated OTC finish. I chuckle every time I read some guy come on here and complain about dancers who don't "meet their commitments" or "do what they say they will." LMAO. Unless you have some leverage, such as being an ongoing material contributor to her income or you are paying her a premium for OTC, you've got no leverage and she has very little reason not to bail. Shit, even if you are one of these things it is still far from a certainty.
In her case, she cared so little about how you would react that she didn't even bother trying to concoct a plausible excuse. She didn't "feel inspired" - LMAO. Ouch.
In any event, just another lesson learned. If I were you I wouldn't bother going to her club and playing games. In the end, it may just make you a target for ridicule. Just shake it off and find someone who wants your money. Water off a duck's back dude.
Good luck.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
Now in the rare instances in which I really want OTC with a girl who works in a late closing club and cannot leave early, I will plan next day OTC, though it is a crap shoot. I also end up having to pay a premium as they usually need to skip a shift or meet up on a day off. I do this once in a while, but I really need to like a girl a lot to go through the trouble.
You end up in a stripper's life, you might find out more about her than you expected. One thing to assume, stripper or civie gal, you ain't the only one. Good looking gals have options and we're one of many. Like the tile guy.
Yeah, it was intended to make him laugh, though the sentiment was real for some time with this dancer known as B I was visiting regularly, thought I would get her to go out with me if I spend and buy dances from her. Turns out she was so good at it I never knew my situation was like perfect for her. So I backpedalled a little bit, started the no-contact protocol only to see her blow my text with "Wanna see me, I miss you so much" messages.
Compared to my CF who see me more than customer, she would ask me to wait outside the club so we could go out to eat or do something else, like get intimate.