Friends With Benefits.....With A Stripper
Clackport
Washington
Slick's recent discussion thread about his friends with benefits stripper that went to medical school inspired this topic.
Do any of you TUSCLers have or have had a friends with benefits relationship with a stripper?
I've had a couple, but it's very hard because the majority of strippers either want money for the sex or they want to be your girlfriend.
Do any of you TUSCLers have or have had a friends with benefits relationship with a stripper?
I've had a couple, but it's very hard because the majority of strippers either want money for the sex or they want to be your girlfriend.
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If my current OTC situation, the first time she came to my hotel, when she was leaving I slipped money into her purse and she seemed surprised. She said she would have came over even if I wasn't paying her (face palm to myself) but every time since then I go through the same routine and she never mentions anyway about it. The way I see it is: she needs money and I'm happy to give it to her for the service she provides. I don't want it (in this situation) for free because I want to mKe it crystal clear I don't want to develop any type of boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
And to answer your question every other OTC I hVe ever had has been p4p or evolved into some sort of girlfriend relationship. As strikingly charming and handsome as I am, I don't have strippers just calling me up on a Tuesday night wanting to have sex for free. I have had several "girlfriend" offers, but nowadays I know to bypass that and just get p4p OTC.
But she still came over for bud and sex. And she invited me over for wine and sex and the bud I had. But one night she called and insisted I come over and fuck her. OK. When I got there, the front door was kicked in and a bunch of stuff was broken. She was naked and drunk on her bed.
She had a fight with her sugar daddy who was paying for the place and all the stuff in it. I stupidly spent the night, and in the morning I took her to breakfast.
That was the last time I saw her.
But on a serious note – IMO/IME is not very easy just to have a sexual relationship w/ a woman w/ no strings attached (e.g. $$$ or relationship) – I know it happens and certain guys seem to be able to pull it off with a fair amount of regularity (even if the guys are not that good looking).
As for me personally; I’m kinda of an “acquired taste†– i.e. most women I’ve been involved w/ has been b/c they known be for a while and developed a liking to me – i.e.. I don’t have much game – I recall in my younger days I would often get the kiss of death from women; i.e. “I like you as a friend†(and we all know where nice guys finish – not FWB at least).
I’m also not much of a risk taker and a bit wary of a woman that will have sex w/ no strings attached – I either think she has another agenda in mind or think “do I really want to be w/ a woman that just fucks for the hell of it†– not saying there is anything wrong w/ that.
But a FWB would be the way to go w/ a stripper until/unless she proved she was actual dating material.
to each his own, I call my OTC connection, she comes over at my requested odd times (early in the morning or really late at night) fucks me and leaves, that's how I like it, I don't even have to cuddle! lol In the past with 'girlfriends' there was a lot of time involved in the relationship (phone calls, dinner dates, other shit) at the time I was into it but right now I am not. guess I'm just too busy with my real life at the moment to get caught up with all the mechanics of a relationship currently.
Some days she would go for a barter, so there is an alignment of interest, more like coincident interest. The coincident part of it come in so many ways, like food, clothing, medical items.
Of course, medium of exchange is still money because it is transferable, divisible, uniform and such and such that she always for it.
Priorities and tastes/preferences change over time – for many; the older you get the less drama and shit one wants to deal with – kinda been there done that – if one is past the “romantic†stage; and just wants the puss; P4P often times looks like a better value proposition.
+1 to that Papi. I actually said something similar to that to my CF, and her reply was "that's not how you see us is it?" I don't want to overthink things so I'm going with friends with benefits.
Spent 1K on my S.O.'s birthday and got nothing sexually. All day, over and over, just kept thinking: "what pleasure could I have been derived from 1K within P4P!?!". Then again, it wasn't about me.
Happy birthday!
There is no relationship w stripper that will not cost u.
The MILF I've seen a few times won't take my money, though she'll let me buy her lunch and pay for the taxi (she won't let me pick her up or drop her off at her house or work), so I guess she qualifies.
Other than that, no.