Your reason for going to the club...
Since I'm new to this forum, but not necessarily new to the industry, a question has crossed my mind, not just out of curiosity, but in an effort to provide the best service that I can to my clients as an entertainer. Besides the obvious reason of viewing boobies and bottoms, what's your reason for frequenting your favorite club(s)?
I've spoken to many patrons (males, females, & couples) and the answer to that question has come out in the course of conversation in various detail and for many different reasons. Would anybody care to share?
I've spoken to many patrons (males, females, & couples) and the answer to that question has come out in the course of conversation in various detail and for many different reasons. Would anybody care to share?
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They show up to pass the time, chat with ladies.
And if chemistry is there, why not move it forward with some intense sexual activity.
Now, to answer your question...
Men are different from women. Very different. That's why you almost never see strip clubs for women with dancing men. Yeah, they exist, but usually only for bachelorette parties where a bunch of girls go to have some fun.
For men it's different. For men, sex is one of the most important things in their lives. And hot women are equally important. And sex with a hot woman is one of our primary goals in life.
We are also very visual creatures. We love looking at hot, sexy women. And many men will also go to the club looking to have some sort of sexual encounter.
We also are different in that, in general, we don't need an emotional connection with the hot girl to have fun or to have sex. We're just as happy to look at her, and have sex with her, and then leave. That's how god made us. We are very shallow creatures.
Now, the point of this is that if you can accept men for who they are, and give them what they want, you will be successful. If you want to make money, be the woman they want you to be, and they'll be falling all over themselves to tip you. Which means be different from most women in the world.
Accept that you are there to entertain men, and accept them as they are, and not judge them, but treat them with respect. And all that means is "do unto others".
Look good. Show an interest in your customers, and treat them like kings. Don't sit in a corner texting all shift and leave the customers sitting alone bored. Don't spend all shift in the dressing room BS'ing with your friends. If you really care about doing a good job, then go out on the floor, and be nice to your customers.
Also accept the fact that not everyone is going to want to spend time with you. You're not everyone's type. Nobody here is everyone's type. So deal with it, and don't think you're being rejected. Just move on to the next guy.
Also accept that you're in the customer service business. Which means you need to accept customers for who they are, and recognize they come to the club with different attitudes and backgrounds. One of them may have recently lost a parent, and is feeling like shit. Another might have just lost a job and just needs some cheering up. Another one might have broken up with a girlfriend. And another might have just won the lottery. But don't expect them to entertain YOU. Don't look at them from a distance and do what most strippers do...."oh, he didn't smile at me, so he must be an asshole so I'll ignore him", or "oh wow, he's cute, I'll sit with him". You're not there to get married, you're there to entertain customers and make them feel good.
If you can get the attitude that you're there to accept customers for who they are, with a goal to make them feel better than when they arrived, you'll be far ahead of 90% of the strippers out there.
This ain't rocket science
I dunno man
I dunno
She sounds like she's going to go for that wild super hot thing called...
"Intelligently designed conversation."
My take is Cara is on with this group I'm talking about.
Now I'm up to date with the 90's... Because I've also had sex with strippers born in 1990, 91,92,93,94,95...
In a few months the 1997 models, will be legal for me to stick my erected Jonson in ...Oh yea.. I love the strip club..
The end goal is sex outside the club ... I might take many trips getting to know a dancer, but eventually I pop the question, and if she declines, well, I'm back on the journey again, and loving every second. If she says yes to OTC, now we start partying and having sex outside the club. I usually OTC only one girl at a time, so for however many months it's working for us, we party ITC and then go party and have sex OTC
If I ever see one dancer working in a club and she talks to me for a bit, I might ask her remember when I told you I was all charged up and you didn't believe me? She got zapped big time when she touched my head, lol. Haven't had any electrical problems since a whole year or two, I think.
If I see another dancer who has stayed in contact with me every so often, I might ask her if she had any paranormal activity recently. She claims she had activity that went on for a long time until I sent something over to cut it out. I haven't experimented with all the weird paranormal stuff beyond that. I'm afraid messing with the paranormal might cause trouble. If the last dancer isn't full of crap, then what is listening to me and able to get rid of poltergeist in an instant? It's probably just a story. Just like I told another dancer about a dust devil formed around me one time years ago and she told me the same thing happened to her before too. On the other hand, maybe I'm friends with succubi and dancers from hell and I just don't know it. It's just another night at the strip club.
I need variety or 1 woman than can provide me with the variety I seek. And until I find the latter, I will continue to enjoy the variety and freedom clubs provide. Monogamy isn't for everyone, yet society continues to reinforce the narrative.
I'm married, and I don't want to have an affair, but I missed out on dating lots of different women when I was younger and am now finding I'm a very sexual person. Getting to see, touch and kiss beautiful women's bodies is incredible.
I also really enjoy a good conversation, and the illusion that a woman might want to dance for me partly because she finds me interesting after such a conversation makes the dance even better.
But I'm pretty new to this hobby, so maybe I'm still figuring out what I'm doing in the clubs. The other day, I was high and taking my wife from behind, and I imagined she was a stripper I met recently...that was a good orgasm!
LOL – that was golden
Just as many/most men have enjoyed looking at beautiful naked women on magazines since at least the 1950s when Playboy came around; it should not be surprising that looking at beautiful naked women in the flesh; and being able to touch/feel them; is something most men would enjoy.
Of course – there are certain things a dancer would do w/ her S.O. that she would not do w/ custies – that is the obvious part.
What I mean is - as a dancer you know what turns on your man as “a man†and not necessarily just b/c he’s your S.O. Would you as a woman get your man all aroused and then now allow him to touch/feel you – you know that would frustrate him as man and would probably piss him off. If you know what to do to turn on “your man†as a man – then those are pretty much the same things that would turn on a custy as man.
I don't get many other chances to talk to people under 35, and people who aren't trapped in the rat race.