Negotiating
jackslash
Detroit strip clubs
I read this in a review of one of my favorite Detroit clubs:
"She started at $$$, negotiated down to $.5 for unlimited time FS."
I'm not much of a negotiator, and I would like to pay $50 for FS. But I have some questions:
1. Is it even possible to get a dancer to take only 1/6 of her initial offer?
2. What techniques would you use to persuade a dancer to lower her price this much? It seems to me that you can only say you don't have that much money, that you only have $50. Telling the dancer she is only worth $50 would insult her.
3. Can such negotiations work with any dancer who is not ugly and desperate? Dancers who have options would move on to other customers.
4. Doesn't too much price negotiation give you the reputation for being a cheap bastard? In your regular club, dancers would avoid you.
5. When you talk to the hottest girl in the club, do you want to lose her by haggling over the price? I have walked away when a dancer quoted $700 or $1000, because I don't like being taken advantage of. But if the price is reasonable, I'm willing to pay it.
6. Would you get the same level of service at a much lower price? It seems to me that a woman would make sure you did not enjoy it as much.
"She started at $$$, negotiated down to $.5 for unlimited time FS."
I'm not much of a negotiator, and I would like to pay $50 for FS. But I have some questions:
1. Is it even possible to get a dancer to take only 1/6 of her initial offer?
2. What techniques would you use to persuade a dancer to lower her price this much? It seems to me that you can only say you don't have that much money, that you only have $50. Telling the dancer she is only worth $50 would insult her.
3. Can such negotiations work with any dancer who is not ugly and desperate? Dancers who have options would move on to other customers.
4. Doesn't too much price negotiation give you the reputation for being a cheap bastard? In your regular club, dancers would avoid you.
5. When you talk to the hottest girl in the club, do you want to lose her by haggling over the price? I have walked away when a dancer quoted $700 or $1000, because I don't like being taken advantage of. But if the price is reasonable, I'm willing to pay it.
6. Would you get the same level of service at a much lower price? It seems to me that a woman would make sure you did not enjoy it as much.
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Assuming the dude who wrote that isn't full of shit (which is most likely) I bet something nefarious happened. Like the stripper was actually an alien in disguise and he was tagged for retrieval and anal probing.
Quick -- PM the guy to see if he got a thorough alien reaming after he returned home.
A: Not the girls that I deal with, but I'm sure that anything is possible in the right circumstances. Bad night, lots of competition, limited prospects, drug cravings, etc., can all lend to desperation. I could see one of the 6s that are said to infest the Detroit clubs getting desperate enough to simply give it up for whatever cash she could get.
2. What techniques would you use to persuade a dancer to lower her price this much? It seems to me that you can only say you don't have that much money, that you only have $50. Telling the dancer she is only worth $50 would insult her.
A: No clue. I've never tried to talk a girl down that low, though most of my p4p is OTC. But I have negotiated a little harder when I smelled weakness, usually by saying that I'm really looking to spend no more than $xxx.
3. Can such negotiations work with any dancer who is not ugly and desperate? Dancers who have options would move on to other customers.
A: All the way down to $50? Doubtful.
4. Doesn't too much price negotiation give you the reputation for being a cheap bastard? In your regular club, dancers would avoid you.
A: With respect to regular LDs maybe. I doubt that many girls are giving others a true line item accounting of what they charge each customer for BJs, FS, etc., so I wouldn't worry about it too much.
5. When you talk to the hottest girl in the club, do you want to lose her by haggling over the price?
A: No I wouldn't. But that doesn't mean that you have to be a sucker orr accept a price that is above market. Opinions do differ though and some guys take a perverse pleasure in trying to squeeze one of these girls for every dollar.
6. Would you get the same level of service at a much lower price? It seems to me that a woman would make sure you did not enjoy it as much.
A: I would guess that this depends completely on the girl and what she is doing for you. I'm not sure that she would intentionally sabotage your experience, but she could certainly be less enthusiastic and more rushed. On the flip side though, if what you are getting is FS, then it is the same pussy whether you pay $50 or $500, no?
His "$" signs stand for a C-note; i.e. $$$ is $300 and $.50 means $150.
Never did understand why dudes just don't put in the number instead of some type of voodoo bullshit hieroglyphics......
Anyway, a little negotiation never hurts. The enticement of a big tip for a good performance ensures enthusiasm.
It seems that in my last several visits I get a dancer saying "usually I get x to y to go into the VIP" and usually x is reasonable and y is high. I usually say "how about we meet in the middle." And that usually works. A lot of times I get asked what do I want to pay, and depending on the services negotiated this seems to be somewhere between 200 and 300.
My suggestion would be to give close to what the girl wants and I bet your services will be better. I always feared if you low ball them then your service may not be up to par or you may be rushed out of the VIP area.
I'm still not clear if you want to give your dancer 150 or 50 but 50 won't cut it and 150 may not either. Offer 200, after all what's another 50 - that's just 2 lap dances at most places. At a lot of places, 50 is the cost of valet, cover and your first drink.
R u serious? If I'm not mistaken, you club in the Detroit area as I do. I would never, EVER pay more than$150 for no song count fs here. Not even at penthouse. Usually I Don't go for fs but I can still get a couple warm up dances and a bbbj for $100 or less.
I know 2 guys who won't pay more than $100 for bj and fs. Again, even at penthouse. But those guys are like professional negotiators. Lol.
Of course, I'm a major PL.