Stripper sugar baby

No offense, but she probably faked "getting off [at least twice]."

I always find it kind of funny and sad when guys talk about how much the sex worker enjoyed fucking them. In reality, one can only imagine the thoughts going through her mind as she was having sex with you. Probably a lot of regret and wondering how she got to such a point in her life. I doubt anything leading to an orgasm.

Also, this does not sound like a "sugar baby" or "sugar dating" relationship. It sounds like you pay her $200 for sex. Which is really, really cheap so I can only wonder how many other guys are getting inside her.

Sorry to be so cynical but thats probably way closer to the truth.

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LMN: Some/many sex workers enjoy sex, even if they're not specifically in to who they're with. I generally know when my partner gets off and when they don't. Sex workers have orgasms lots of times, of course not every time. If someone says she came I'm not going to doubt it unless I was there.

Sure sex workers can enjoy sex with their clients. They're just like any other women, you just have to hit the right spots.

I’ll side with LMN (feel free to question my judgment :)) in the “general” sense – IMHO we (PLs) get turned on by their bodies and they (providers) get turned on by the dollar $ings – but there is the caveat that some people really “enjoy their work” and a provider is not necessarily excluded from that “caveat”.

lol...lets be real here, 99 percent of these girls wouldn't be prostituting themselves or even just stripping if they didn't need the money. As much as someone who solicits sex wants to believe its a mutually enjoyable experience, the reality is that these girls are usually in destitute situations (self-made or not) and feel that their only option is to let some guy use their body for cash to pay their rent, car, kids, whatever. its not like the majority of them are happily going into these agreements, despite the fake smile they give you.

Next time you fuck a stripper who has a trust fund and is really just doing this for the love of it, I'll believe that she orgasmed.

My observation is that for the most part they enjoy what they do. The money may be the main catalyst but neither is it the only element of the equation. Dark matter is the framework that allows galaxy /star /planet formation but it is not the only matter in the universe.

In sugar dating money is the framework for the mutually beneficial relationship but there are visible elements like chemistry and lovemaking.

The fact that you used the term "lovemaking" when describing sex with a prostitute pretty much makes it clear that you are deeply confused.

Not saying that it may be the norm – but it appears some of these chicks do really enjoy fucking (or at least the super wetness of their pussies make it seem that way)

Vaginal lubrication is a biological response. it can happen during rape and has long since been thrown out of the legal system as a sign of consent.

Why not just accept that these are desperate girls, often with pathological issues and addictions and destitute conditions, that we all take advantage of? I don't really give a fuck from a moral standpoint, its just laughable to me when people try to romanticize the experience of fucking a hooker.

There was a recent episode on the Elite Way podcast about 5 reasons women have sex for money. New dick and the chicks who love new dick.

BTW just a side point that I mentioned a bit earlier - this, IMO, would not constitute as a sugar baby/daddy relationship. This just sounds like standard payment for sex.

To put in perspective, a friend of mine who is a gay man in his late 50s had a "sugar baby" who was a guy in his mid twenties. He paid the guy a "salary" of 4k/month plus paid for all his bills, expenses, etc. He also bought him a new BMW 3 series. In addition, he would pay for vacations to Europe, Bahamas, etc. On top of all of that, he would pay him for sex, which was usually preceded by an elaborate mid 3 digit dinner which he would obviously pay for.

Very different.

Sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships take many forms, though usually it takes the form of a set monthly amount for seeing each other a set number of times in said month with some consistency as to timing.

Unless you're paying a LOT for exclusivity, many sugar babies see multiple sugar daddies.

It's basically you get a discount for buying her time/sex in bulk chunks.

Oh, and @LMN if you think for a second that you're the only one she's fucking even though you're paying her a ridiculous amount of money, you'd be amazed to find out that her going rate is a lot less than that and she's taking you for a ride.

With backpage call girls giving $50 specials here, $200 is a strong offer to a stripper or sugar dating site gal. Heck I have 4 on roster at 140-150.

So here on Houston my best offer to them is 200.

At ritz Houston they would come down to 150 in CR individual enjoyment rooms when I was hesitant at $200.

Sugar Baby has no clause regarding exclusivity. To me, it sounds like the stripper is providing companionship + sex which is basically what a sugar baby does.

@goonster

I'm not being "taken for a ride". The first time I met her,

I choose to pay her a lot more than most because, most importantly, I can do so without it negatively affecting my net worth and paying her that much means if I want to see her she will leave work or not go to work, blow off her boyfriend or any dude paying less.

I chose the premium to ensure the best possible service and that's what I get as a result.

$200-$500 isn't enough for someone to quit their job and be on call whenever I want.

^^^ Uh uh uh, SB deal has also sex package if included. It's in the fine print.

SB deal usually has sex included, yes, but the very basis of it is a monthly salary, payment for all bills/expenses, and vacations/shopping trips.

A close friend of mine is a gay man with way too much cash who goes through a lot of SB's. Always pays them 4k/month plus pays for all their bills/expenses, plus vacations and then additional payment for sex.

@LMN uh huh... Keep telling yourself that. You can get the same behavior from them for a lot less. Take it from somebody who's been bagging strippers for longer than you've been alive.

It's only about the money boys.....and who says there is a SD-SB rule book. If the author of this discussion wants to think this $200 fuck is a SD-SD relationship then let him. Unless the stripper fucks you for no money or provides her own money to you for whatever then it is what it is. Another PL getting taken by a stripper. Lol.

@Hotstuff: It's not uncommon for many sugar relationships conclude activities such as you describe with a trip to a motel. For sex, in case that wasn't clear.

Sugar Baby (fun girl) is a loosely defined term IMO

For me it's a go to fuck girl on roster I plan c on an ongoing basis usually rotating with other girls. I have done about 15 women off SD sites. Contributions were on per session basis. It is p4p - I simply make them an offer, the SD site BS about sugar dating is simply a ploy to mask what it really is. I don't give them allowance, handouts, loans. Those types of ROB can fuk off.

I consider women off SD sites as providers just like I do strippers or professional escorts off sites like eccie. Net

My goal is fun and get good price on pop.

@goonster

You seem to be struggling to grasp this very simple concept

If I pay her more than any other client and more then she'll make at work, she is going to prioritize me. She isn't going to prioritize the guy paying her $500 when I want to see her that night and will give her $900. Its very simple.

What is a huge amount of money to her is inconsequential to me.

@LMN I get the concept just fine. My point is that you can get her to prioritize you for a lot less, but hey, it's you're money.

I can afford to pay her that much too, but I don't because I'd rather get her at least twice for the same amount of cash. I also prefer professionals instead of flakes because you have to throw a lot of money at a flake to get her attention, whereas a professional, you simply tell them when you want to see them and they show up and do their job and get paid their going rate.

To each their own.

I remember trixxi saying (in one thread a few weeks back) she was thinking about going for a SD/SB deal. She should be chiming in here. Like real soon.

shit... I wish I had 2k+ of disposable income per month.