Piggybacking on tlk's “stripper in need†thread.
I will say that it's usually a shakedown for $$$ and this is what I would post – yet the few times I've gotten texted/called by a stripper; I almost always get excited for some PL reason.
How about you? Are you innocuous to their ploys or do you start panting like a good PL?
I've been doing this sort of thing long enough that if they're contacting you first, they either want money, or they want to date you. Usually, they want money, but it's the remote possibility that they actually like you as a person and just want to spend time with you that gets you revved up.
Nowadays I mostly just ignore it. I get so tired of the SS.
I was given some info about a dancer at my favorite club who is up for extras OTC and given her number. Met her Thursday, got a dance and had introductions. Got messages last night and tonight to come visit. I'm out of town so I told her I couldn't. Tonight she responds saying she needs someone dependable and it's not going to work out. Haha. I just wished her luck in her search. Good thing I found out about this crazy one before I really spent any money.
Text and calls are just part of the repotoire. I got strippers hitting me up by telegraph, telegram, smoke signals, carrier pigeon, morse code, and bike messenger.
Oh shit. One just hit me up by ESP. She says she wants OTC. It's about time I TCB and get some TLC.
^^^^. You forgot sky writing!
Yes I did. Can't read it at night.
I have never had that problem. I have only given my number to 4 strippers in all of the years that I have been at this. They had my trust.
Sure ranucam sure....🚫
There are about 5-6 ladies that I have a texting relationship with. They all know I'm an out-of-towner so they don't bug me to drop everything and come into the club. They do periodically reach put to see when I'll be back in town again but I have no problem with that. I enjoy each of them in their own way and no one has crossed the line to cause me to drop them from my speed dial. But the moment they start asking for $$, they're dead to me. Establish some early ground rules and some mutual respect for the arrangement and there shouldn't be a problem.
Hey Scat,any idea of what happened at PP Cola last Thursday during the day shift? I think your honey hole got shit canned.
Remember when you were a kid. Before sex. Before heartache. Before becoming jaded and cynical. When her call was what you waited for. When her call made your day. Damn I was young and dumb.
^^^^Those were the days my friend.
I had one that, despite being told repeatedly I'm from out of town, would text me for same day or next day. She once wants me to wire her cash (rofl). The really funny thing is she always bailed on otc, and usually didnt work itc when I was in town.
Texts from strippers are so commonplace now that I barely want to bother reading them. They are often texting the same text to multiple guys, trying to drum up business. The funniest are the ones from out-of-town strippers who should know that I don't live there, yet obviously just texted me the same generic message that she sent to her other marks.
Depends on the stripper. If it's my latest infatuation, I'll probably answer it, otherwise I might nor might not, depending on how I feel.
If it's my ATF, well, then I'll carry on like a school boy on his first "sure thing" date and fall all over myself answering it.
I only text one dancer and she texts me back but it has never been about money. It's been just an easy way to communicate. We do not text each other very much. Last night I ran I into her after not seeing or talking to her for 3 weeks. She said she was going to text me if she decided to work at the beach and I agreed to text her if I decided to visit a club out of town.
So, yeah, if she's texting, she's trying to keep herself top-of-mind with you. But, if it's my CF, I don't care ... like gmd, I'll fall all over myself answering it. Then again, our conversations are personal, not blast-o-grams to call customers. I've gotten those before, but usually not from CFs.
Two years ago, I had a fave who liked some of the same TV shows as me. I thought that might have just been her hustle to build something in common with me, but some nights, when we had two shows on TV back-to-back, we'd literally text back and forth for two hours straight commenting and making snarky remarks about the goings-on. Two or three nights a week, we'd be texting an hour or more about our shows. That was kinda fun
^^ you were probably texting back and forth with her much younger brother.
My ATF and I used to schedule/communicate solely through email.
Most of the emails were me asking if she was working and her confirming. I didn't clog her inbox with non-scheduling randomness and she didn't clog mine with blatant "come see me ****day!" one-liner emails.
That being said, every month or so she'd send me an email saying hi, referencing something we'd talked about, and telling me about what was going on in her life. Maybe she'd include a link to something interesting/funny she read on the internet and thought I'd like.
I viewed it as customer service, marketing, keeping herself top of mind, maintaining the business relationship, etc. Still, I couldn't help feeling an uplift upon seeing an email from her in my inbox.
We're human and I think we fundamentally want to be liked, feel needed, and be thought of.
Texting?Nope,I gave her a key.
" ^^ you were probably texting back and forth with her much younger brother. "
Or her out-of-work boyfriend (I just assume she had one) ... now that I think about it, who else would have so much time to sit around texting about American Horror Story and Its Always Sunny in PHiladelphia?
She text or call me.
I get excited.
Zero in on where she is.
Drive to that location.
Pick her up.
Take her out for a date.
I'm still on the high tho still enjoying her company.
That said my Clubbing time went from 100 to zero.
I like getting texts from strippers. These are hot young girls who call me "sweetheart" and "babe" and "hun," and they can't wait to see me. The best thing of all is their sincerity.