Customers Trying to suck on my breast
This is pretty rampant in my city. This is a high enough contact area as is that offering anything further is just ridiculous. I'm very averse to any fluids from my customers coming anywhere near or on me, but saliva especially just really gets me. I also hate it on a personal level in the bedroom, so it squicks me out doubly. Gross. Gross. Gross. You don't know where those titties have been (likely in many other mouths if you're getting away with it) and I don't know where your mouth has been.
One of the dancers I've worked with had the idea of putting hand sanitizer or other foul tasting products on her nipples/breasts to deter customers from doing it; I thought it was pretty clever.
One of the dancers I've worked with had the idea of putting hand sanitizer or other foul tasting products on her nipples/breasts to deter customers from doing it; I thought it was pretty clever.
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Detroit is a special case - so let's leave they out - but in some west Michigan clubs you pay as much as $200 per half hour plus tip for a VIP room. Generally, these are non extras clubs. The minimum, I say minimum required, is titty sucking.
@gin- titty sucking is pretty common nowadays. I would say you have to get use to it, because it ain't gonna stop.
Ha, there's a long thread on stripperweb right now about this; predictably for that site, the girls practically froth at the mouth over how horrible it is. Agree that there are a lot of clubs where it's de rigueur. My advice would be to keep your nipples away from the guy's mouths, because putting them there is, for a huge number of strippers, basically an invitation to suck, and that's how your clients interpret it. Learn some defensive positioning, including using those beautiful casabas as if in a pillow fight :)
Sipping on Gin...Where's Juice?
If a dancer puts her nipples up against my lips, I assume she wants me to suck on them. Some type of sanitizer does seem like a good idea. I do not want to catch whatever the previous guy had.
Shark,I do believe that is the first time you made me laugh.
"When I was still working at a club, during the last year, I would have my boyfriend produce seed and then I'd rub it into my boobs. I would spay a little vanilla just to enhance the aroma. Several times I went to work immediately after."
Closed mouth kissing of the breasts is enjoyable and rarely have I experienced an adverse response. Open mouth kissing is another thing. I will generally only engage in such behavior if french kissing precedes it. It is only natural for the mouth before the breasts, the breasts before down under...
And as others have said, if you put your nipples on my lips I will suck on them. What the hell else am I supposed to do?
And if I find cum on your tits it better be mine or keep moving darling.
1. Good example of "How to Make Yourself Miserable" 'Gin' doesn't like titty-sucking/saliva on body even in private life but takes a job in a 'high contact' club, then bitches when the obvious happens.
2. Good example of Eric Berne's [Games People Play] RAPO
"Sexual Game 3: RAPO
Thesis. This is a game played between a man and a woman which might more politely be called, in the milder forms at least, 'Kiss Off' or 'Indignation'. It may be played with varying degrees of intensity.
1. First-Degree 'Rapo', or 'Kiss Off', is popular at social gatherings and consists essentially of mild flirtation. White signals that she is available and gets her pleasure from the man's pursuit. As soon as he has committed himself, the game is over. If she is polite, she may say quite frankly 'I appreciate your compliments and thank you very much', and move on to the next conquest. If she is less generous, she may simply leave him. A skilful player can make this game last for a long time at a large social gathering by moving around frequently, so that the man has to carry out complicated manoeuvres in order to follow her without being too obvious.
2. In Second-Degree 'Rapo', or 'Indignation', White gets only secondary satisfaction from Black's advances. Her primary gratification codes from rejecting him, so that this game is also colloquially known as 'Buzz Off, Buster'. She leads Black into a much more serious commitment than the mild flirtation of First-Degree 'Rapo' and enjoys watching his discomfiture when she repulses him. Black, of course, is not as helpless as he seems, and may have gone to considerable trouble to get himself involved. Usually he is playing some variation of 'Kick Me'.
3. Third-Degree 'Rapo' is a vicious game which ends in murder, suicide or the courtroom. Here White leads Black into compromising physical contact and then claims that he has made a criminal assault or has done her irreparable damage. In its most cynical form White may actually allow him to complete the sexual act so that she gets that enjoyment before confronting him. The confrontation may be immediate, as in the illegitimate cry of rape, or it may be long delayed, as in suicide or homicide following a prolonged love affair. If she chooses to play it as a criminal assault, she may have no difficulty in finding mercenary or morbidly interested allies, such as the press, the police, counsellors and relatives. Sometimes, however, these outsiders may cynically turn on her, so that she loses the initiative and becomes a tool in their games.
In some cases outsiders perform a different function. They force the game on an unwilling White because they want to play 'Let's You and Him Fight'. They put her in such a position that in order to save her face or her reputation she has to cry rape. This is particularly apt to happen with girls under the legal age of consent; they may be quite willing to continue a liaison, but because it is discovered or made an issue of, they feel constrained to turn the romance into a game of Third-Degree 'Rapo'.
In one well-known situation, the wary Joseph refused to be inveigled into a game of 'Rapo', whereupon Potiphar's wife made the classical switch into 'Let's You and Him Fight', an excellent example of the way a hard player reacts to antithesis, and of the dangers that beset people who refuse to play games. These two games are combined in the well-known 'Badger Game', in which the woman seduces Black and then cries rape, at which point her husband takes charge and abuses Black for purposes of blackmail.
One of the most unfortunate and acute forms of Third-Degree 'Rapo' occurs relatively frequently between homosexual strangers, who in a matter of an hour or so may bring the game to a point of homicide. The cynical and criminal variations of this game contribute a large volume to sensational newspaper copy.
The childhood prototype of 'Rapo' is the same as that of 'Frigid Woman', in which the little girl induces the boy to humiliate himself or get dirty and then sneers at him, as classically described by Maugham in Of Human Bondage and, as already noted, by Dickens in Great Expectations. This is Second Degree. A harder form, approaching Third Degree, may be played in tough neighbourhoods.
Antithesis. The man's ability to avoid becoming involved in this game or to keep it under control depends of his capacity to distinguish genuine expressions of feeling from moves in the game. If he is thus able to exert social control, he may obtain a great deal of pleasure from the mild flirtations of 'Kiss Off'. On the other hand it is difficult to conceive of a safe antithesis for the Potiphar's Wife manoeuvre, other than checking out before closing time with no forwarding address. In 1938 this writer met an ageing Joseph in Aleppo who had checked out of Constantinople thirty-two years previously after one of the Sultan's ladies had cornered him during a business visit to the Yildiz harem. He had to abandon his shop, but took time to pick up his hoard of gold francs, and had never returned.
Relatives. The male versions of 'Rapo' are notoriously found in commercial situations: ‘Casting Couch' (and then she didn't get the part) and 'Cuddle Up' (and then she got fired).
Eric Berne, Games People Play, 1964."
A few clues...
Snoop Lion (back in the day, when he was still Doggy Dogg) sang about "Gin and XXXXX" (fill in the X's)
A certain "youngster" named for a drink cotainer has added a set of ginger girl photos to his profile (good choice dude! I've finally added photos back to my profile). They kind of resemble Gin's photo above. Coincidence?
On the other hand, perhaps Gin is really a stripper. If so, all I can say is nice tits. I'd refrain from sucking 'em, if asked, 'cos I'm a gentleman. But I wouldn't like it (unless you said "hey, why don't I give you a BBBJ and then you can jizz on my titties" -- then I'd happily refrain!)
Bustop
4817 Broadway St
Boulder, Colorado 80304Reviewed on: April 20, 2014
Visited on: Saturday Evening
Dancers on Shift: 6-10
Star_Rating_4 Dancers
Star_Rating_4 ValueStar_Rating_4 Atmosphere
Star_Rating_4 Overall
I worked there with two other of my friends. We all thought the club was the best in Colorado. The club in the inside looked like most clubs. They had a separate sides for the topless and the nude side. I spent all my time on the nude side so I will comment on that. It was smaller than the topless side but I thought it had a better stage layout. Like a huge T with a short, stationary poll in the middle. The mirrors is what I liked. It stayed open until 4am (or 3am, im not sure.) The nice part about this was that if you were still getting dances at the time that they closed they would stay open so that you could get more dances. That is the first time a club was more interested in the girls making money than them. ;D . The dances were 30.00/song minimum but most customers payed 40.00/song. The club takes 7.00/ dance. They were basically topless dances cause you can't touch them with your g-string off. With my experience men could care lass about the bottoms as long as your touching them. The club also takes 15% of your money at the end of the night as tip out to the bouncers and DJ. I thought this club was a bank maker. All the guys I talked to were more then willing to get a dance. The nude side doesn't pick up till around 9-10 but when the other side closes at 2am they walk over the nude side to sober up and spend all of their money, so it is nice. I loved this club can't wait to go back. ;D
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Maybe you need to look into another line of work.
Maybe you need to look into another line of work.
No one should force you to have your nipples sucked. You clearly feel disgust at the idea of having your nipples sucked. However, that is not a good reason for you to ban other dancers from permitting nipple sucking, or even to rudely and self-righteously proclaim how disgusting nipple sucking is.
Generally, when a dancer puts her breast near the custy's mouth, it's seen as an invitation, so don't do this. Dancers deserve to have their boundaries respected, and customers deserve clarity and honesty from dancers about their boundaries. It's just dumb to hate on the mutually-consented-to kinks of others.
A stranger on was a girl was lightly touching breasts ok, nipple suck off limits. Touching around pussy ok, fingers in pussy and ass off limits. Cock in pussy for a fee ok, Cock in ass ok for a much larger fee.
Kissing always off limits.
This was in San Francisco.
Did not take her up even though she was a 9.5 because seemed to mechanical and very expensive.