Is Dancing at a SC a way for girls to have control over men?
Jpac73
Dancers like to say that alot of the customers are pathetic Losers(which could be true to some extent) but when you think about it they may just be as pathetic OTC when it comes to men. I have been observing in everday life(mostly at my job) that alot of women are foolish when it comes to men. There are 2 women who keep chasing after this guy that I work with when he has already made it clear he has a girlfriend. These girls are nice looking on top of that so WHY are they chasing this one guy? The point I am trying to make is some dancers might try to make like men are weak & stupid at the club but in reality alot of them are weak and stupid as well. Just like the RIL is chasing after the dancer with eyes wide shut, she is probably chasing after some guy outside the club that doesn't give a dam'n about her. I think some dancers get a feeling of authority and control over men while being at the club. We are on their turf so they control all the cards, but let them try that shit to a playboy out in the "realworld" and it would be a different story.
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This is particularly true of those people who are used to getting what they want. Remember that hot chick in school who could have any guy she wanted? And who did she end up going pining over... The only one who didn't want her.
Use this to your advantage in SC (and elsewhere) and beware of those women who will try to use it against you.
Several SC employees tell me that many strippers are in it just as much for the control as they are for the money. This where Yoda's simplistic model profit maximization model breaks down, for instance.
Some strippers have even told me about judgements they have made about men in general based on their SC experiences. But it's not a fair comparison: Look at the way the best male players play the weakest females (or even the strong ones for that matter) and I think you will find there are as many female PLs in the world as male PLs. Maybe even more!
Playing hard to get works just as well for men as it does for women: if you really mean it.
If you look at strippers lives who are they, for the most part, to be calling other people PLs? Most are single mothers, poorly educated, not too bright (other than in manipulation which they learn from others), and probably addicted to something.
Finally, I also have come to believe that some strippers started out as overly nice and naive girls, just used and taking their revenge out on SC customers.