An Open Letter From A Detroit Extras Girl

I like her style and candor. Once again, Jack with the jackpot.

Interesting read!

I take exception with one comment she made though. In my experience it's not the pretty face, the tight body or even the extras that separate the top earners from the rest. It's the art of conversation. New dancers that get dances from me are few and far between, but the ones who succeed are the ones I enjoy talking to. I turn down lots of hot dancers because they can't carry a conversation. A good grind is nice, but I'd like the grind along with someone I enjoy talking to.

@Rockstar-Total agreement from The Kid.

that was interesting

A red flag from McAfee went off when I tried to access the site but I overruled it and went anyhow. I bring this up to remind everyone that the site is not the most reliable for accurate reporting. I thought it was an interesting read but not earth shattering.

Good read. Thanks for sharing, jack

shadowcat: "I thought it was an interesting read but not earth shattering."

Yeah, seems pretty standard to me. What are the parts people are finding "interesting"?

Well, the interesting part, of course.

Seems like the dancer was merely convincing herself that what she was doing didn't make her a prostitute.

I thought that she had to provide extras against her initial desire not to demonstrated how naïve she really was. She said she researched the clubs and she ends up at one where extras are so above board that the girls put their shoes out to keep the bouncers at bay!

I've been to many clubs where dancers are fired and PL's escorted out for taking liberties. That's the kind of club she should have worked at. Also, as I've said, any dancer with passable looks will make a living if they get their patter down. If she's as hot as she thinks she is, so much the better. She struck me as a classic SW dancer: mostly clueless.

The "interesting" part is just how non dramatic, i.e. uninteresting, she is about the whole thing. No "woe is me" bullshit, no "I'm not a whore, I just fuck for money" malarkey. Just strait up "I do extras, I like the money."

Pretty straightforward.

from the article:

"if a dancer cannot garner a solid base of regulars, she might as well throw in the towel. If a dancer is flitting from one customer to the next and not making conversation, only asking for a private dance, she is sending a subliminal message to the other customers. Without a single word, she is shattering the fantasy, she is exposing the gritty truth that we are only there to make money. If a customer can feel that he is special, that you hold some concern for the minutiae of his life, he will keeping coming back to spend money."

so, IMO, I think this dancer understands the importance of building a rapor.. most dancers do not.

Thanks for sharing - interesting read.

I have done a number of extras girls, quality of the experience can vary. The best ones are ones that you can get otc on a regular basis.

Letters #2 & #3...

http://titsandsass.com/letter-from-an-ex…

http://titsandsass.com/an-extras-girl-in…

^^^^
Nice article. Legit in some way. Totally understand the appeal the writer is saying. Sounded like the story told by the dancer I met yesterday.

She was a pretty popular dancer at The Landing Strip. And then she worked as an escort for well over 5 years. She was well known on P411. I must say she had skills, but got a bit big headed. Left the scene after getting married.

I would like to read but link doesn’t work for me.

@ Rockstar666 - I couldn’t agree more with you.

^ That might be because it's a decade old post.