There's a club called K9 in Prague, well it's really a brothel but the main bar area has a pole/stage where the girls 'dance'. One of the rules that the girls must obey is that they can't approach any guy, they can smile, wink at guys etc but they can't physically approach a guy. The guy has to gesture to a girl to join him if he's interested.
I’m one of those that prefer to be approached; but as long as the rules were known/clear; I would not mind being the one to signal a dancer over.
The problem is when there is no clear guidelines – e.g. in some clubs; girls don’t approach much even if you are making eye contact w/ them trying to let them know you have interest in them.
It be be neither a benefit nor a hindrance as far as I'm concerned. I've seldom been shy about approaching a dancer, not telling one I'm not interested.
I can see why some might like that sort or thing, but I just can't bring myself to give a shit one way or the other.
I agree with that too, wouldn't mind being left alone for the first 10 minutes. After that, very much prefer to be approached. I guess someone who feels awkward about sending a girl away might prefer a no approach Club, but I think it's silly
I think it's silly too. However I do remember visiting some clubs and not being able to hardly catch my breath feeling like a piece of meat thrown to the wolves when I first entered a club and sat in a spot where everyone kept saying wanna dance? It was as if there was a line up. It's been a few years since I remember that. Maybe not too many clubs do that anymore.
Normally I insist on having the dancers do the approaching, except in the rare occasion that I want a dancer that is super busy and hard to get a hold of. But I just returned from a visit to my fave club tonight and it was non stop dancer hustle from the moment I walked in the door and continued right up until I was leaving. They even got me in the ladies room! After tonight I might have to reconsider my position on this.
If that was the rule I wouldn't have an issue with it. As long as if u waved them over they had to come over. We all know some strippers will find an excuse to blow u off or would rather sit texting on their phones
In the Milongas of Buenos Aires, it's customary to raise your glass and make eye contact with any prospective dancer. A smile and a raised glass indicates it's time to Tango. A pass of the hand says it's a no go. What's great about this is that a dude doesn't have to do the schmuck walk back to where he was if some chica shoots him down.
When none of my regulars are working, I like being approached. But if they are working and I'm waiting for one of them, it's an annoyance when a bottom feeder newbie pesters me.
I like the idea of a signal, maybe something on your table, that says if you want to be approached or not.
Hip Hugger is about the biggest shithole that there is. I've heard that unless your a white male you are not even welcome there. Been there once and I'm still trying to clean the stank & skank off of me.
I thought one time it would be nice to be able to put up a sign at your table, no wanna dance dancers. However I bet the dancers wouldn't like it and if the guy left and you sat there and didn't notice it, you could be out of luck. Plus if you sat in a chair away from a table or at a stage, you might not have a sign to display. Lol, that would be funny. Sit at the stage and put up a sign, no dances wanted. I can imagine that going over well.
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The problem is when there is no clear guidelines – e.g. in some clubs; girls don’t approach much even if you are making eye contact w/ them trying to let them know you have interest in them.
The Yanks are coming
I can see why some might like that sort or thing, but I just can't bring myself to give a shit one way or the other.
I like the idea of a signal, maybe something on your table, that says if you want to be approached or not.