Nevermind favorites, any dancers you avoid?

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• chandler

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  19 years ago

  For just about every category of girls I avoid, there is at least one prominent exception. Typically, right after I decide I don't like, say, tall girls, I'll go to a club and fall crazy in love with the tallest girl there.
• lousybuck

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  19 years ago

  dancers who smell like *anything* good or bad. bad is bad and even good has to be explained when i get home. also, dancers who wear glitter for the same reason. too pushy is a no. overpromising is a no. mechanical is a no. general negative vibes are a no. life is too short.
• FONDL

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  19 years ago

  Two categories of girls that I avoid: big girls, either tall or heavy, because I'm a little guy and LDs with big girls are uncomfortable; and the annoying super-aggressive girls. I also usually find fake boobs to be a turn-off although there are exceptions.
• JC2003

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  19 years ago

  Dancers I avoid are the ones I don't want dances from. The only other kind of dancer I avoid are the ones who hang out with you forever without asking you for a dance. I don't mind if they're trying to make conversation but if they're just sitting with you, they're making it hard for other dancers to drop by and ask for dances.
• FONDL

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  19 years ago

  Nobody likes the divas, yet they seem to do OK in clubs. Which leads me to the conclusion that many (most?) dancers categorize customers from a distance before ever meeting them, and then treat them according to that judgment. (Come to think of it, many of us probably do the same with them, I know I do.) So a girl may act like a diva around some customers but not others. I've learned the hard way to avoid all dancers who don't appeal to me. They may be very nice people and great conversationalists, but that's not what I'm there for. I've had too many occasions where I let an OK girl sit down with me and the next girl on stage turns out to be exactly what I'm looking for.
• phonehome

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  19 years ago

  There is a certain physical apearance I like, I like Blondes but have had a fave or two that were brunnettes or red heads, I like them well gifted up top, if they had the gifts on layaway for a while that is just fine, I have a had fave or two that were C-cupps but fate would have it that they all went for the upgrade. It's more the attitudes I don't care for, two in particular. One is the "DIVA" she is a 10 and she knows it, she has had her ass kissed and gotten anything she wanted from boys/men ever since she starting growing tits. She doesn't do stage work because she is "too good for that" She works (if you can call it that) no more than one or two days a week, Friday and/or Saturday most often, she doesn't approach any guys, especially "regular looking guys" (us), we are supposed to be chasing after her like little trained dogs that she then chooses who the lucky one that she will play with is. She sits at the bar or in the dressing room waiting for that one "big spender" to come in and drop a grand or two on her, normally doesn't happen so she sits and bitches about how everything is unfair or there must be something wrong because all the "plain looking girls" are making so much more than she is. "how can this be, I'm so beautiful"? "they must be doing extras" The answer plain to everyone but her is that, the others are not as plain looking as she thinks and they are hustling there asses off, they get up on stage, they approach every guy, they may get rejected by some, just a "dancer drink" from a few, and the rest just a dance or two but at the end of the night it all adds up. So if the choice is a nice looking natural C cup that could loose a pound or two "girl next door" that is paying attention to me, without pouncing on me the minute is get in a club or a drop dead beautiful enhanced DDD blonde Diva/Playboy Playmate that makes it obvious that I am not worthy of her presence, I will choose the former. The other attiude is the "he is my customer" type. As far as she is concerned I am her property, no other girl is to as much as look at me and I better not even think about doing anything with any other girl. If she isn't there, then I have no reason to come to the club. My attitude has always been that "you may be my fave (for now), but I am never your customer"
• FONDL

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  19 years ago

  I had a situation once where I went into a new club that I really liked and met a very pleasant girl who I enjoyed talking to even though she wasn't particularly appealing to me. So I tried a LD with her and it was downright painful, I couldn't wait for it to end. She was kinda husky and gave an overly-aggressive dance. Anyway after that every time I went into the place she zeroed in on me. I finally stopped going there. This is a place where all the seats are at the bar and it's BYOB so you can't even refuse to buy the girl a drink. So if there's an empty barstool next to you a girl will eventually sit down to talk and there isn't much you can do about it. It's the only thing I don't like about the place.
• lasvegasescorts

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  19 years ago

  I hate it when you know some dancers in a clun and you walkin the door and they spot you like you are prey and it can be hard sometimes to get rid of them becasue you want to smple new fruit from the vine. I had one that I couldn't even sneak past the entry ans she had me spotted and while she was fun and we even went out once , she was not someone that I wanted to see really, unless I got very bored.
• FONDL

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  19 years ago

  Chandler, I've had that happen too. I really like a girl when we first meet, but in subsequent meetings I begin to find things that I don't like (which is sorta like dating as I recall.) Maybe she starts taking me for granted and doesn't try as hard to please. Or her conversation becomes really boring, like always talking about her personal problems for example. When that happens I usually just stop going to that club for awhile and try another one. That's kinda fun to do now and then anyway.
• chandler

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  19 years ago

  The tough cases for me are girls I've gotten dances from a few times, then soured on. They may not have changed. I may have simply lost interest, or there may be a lot of fresh talent I prefer. My usual signal that I'm not interested in a girl is to avoid eye contact when she approaches. There are enough other things to look at in the room, so that I don't appear too rude, but they get the idea. You just can't do this, however, with somebody you've had dances with in the past. So I just tell them something like I've got a few other girls in mind tonight, and after a couple nights of that, THEY start avoiding eye contact. Some probably badmouth me, too, but I'm not too worried about it. There simply is no graceful way to handle the situation.
• FONDL

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  19 years ago

  I tend to classify dancers into 3 groups: those who I find very appealing (the smallest group), those who I enjoy talking with but don't find them to be patiuclarly appealing (the next smallest group), and those who I have absolutely no interest in (the largest group.) I avoid anyone who falls into the latter group. There doesn't to be a particular reason, they just don't fit into either of the first two groups for me.
• DandyDan

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  19 years ago

  This is a dumb question. At least 75% of all dancers aren't worth the time ever, either because of looks or attitude.
• AbbieNormal

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  19 years ago

  I'll agree that I "avoid" most dancers, I can usually pick them out pretty quickly when I go into a club. I'm more interested in a limited case, like your regular club where you kay be known and popular as a good tipper. To what lengths will you go to keep your reputation but still not have to deal with certain dancers?
• chitownlawyer

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  19 years ago

  I used to avoid a dancer who was super aggressive, always "up", very loud, etc. Then she got fired, supposedly for drug use.
• mtang

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  19 years ago

  some of this stuff is funny... all of the above plus girls that don't bother talking to me either before or after a dance, that really annoys me.
• casualguy

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  19 years ago

  I avoid a lot of dancers. For some it's just their looks. For others it may be a bad attitude or a snotty attitude if they got turned down for a dance and act better than everyone else including me. I may want to avoid dancers who immediately ask for a dance or immediately ask for a drink but they are hard to avoid without knowing anything about the dancers in a club.
• FunSeeker

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  19 years ago

  I'll avoid any dancer who asks (without even introducing herself) - "you want to buy me drink", "you want company", "you want a dance", etc... I also don't like dancers with too much perfume.
• SuperDude

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  19 years ago

  In the past two weeks, one dancer at my regular club, has become so aggressive I will either stop going there or complain to the manager. As soon as she saw me last Friday night, she grabbed my crotch and asked for $300 for the experience of my life. I declined. She then complained that I did not spend enough money on her the last time I was there, which was the first time we met..and on and on. This is a person to avoid. I have always found it helpful to get dances from others, leaving the "hustler" out of the rotation for the evening. If she gets pushy after not getting the message, then the truth is easy to deliver.
• ShotDisc

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  19 years ago

  Too much perfume. heavy smokers, groups of girls who pounce on you as soon as you sit down. those who are obviously only there for the hustle.
• chandler

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  19 years ago

  Right up there with looks, I avoid many many strippers because of their smell. Bad, strange or too perfumed.