Not sure what to think - I got propositioned for OTC
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Sooo, hey guys. Been a while. Some of you might remember me, but I didn't try to make myself known (or hated) like some other folks on the boards. Kind of a long post incoming but I'd appreciate if you guys help me out with this.
Anyway money has run pretty tight for the last several months, and I've had to cut back on the clubbing experience which is why I haven't been around. I know my own lack of self-control and didn't want to get tempted by reading this site. A few nights ago I went to my local favorite club for one last hurrah, ready to empty my load (of cash in my wallet, of course). I was PLANNING to have it be my last foray into the strip club underworld for the foreseeable future, until the dancer I selected propositioned me for OTC.
She assured me that she'd never done anything like this in the club before (which I don't believe of course), but that for financial reasons she needed the extra money, and figured me to be a safer choice than the other patrons in the club so she made me the offer for OTC. I've never seen a dancer be quite so forward so I was caught a bit off guard, but I rolled with it and agreed.
After we finished a great VIP session she wanted to talk to me further about it and asks if I'm going to stick around. I don't usually hang around the club long after a VIP like that but figured it'd be a good call to do so just this once. So she vanishes into the back and I'm waiting in the club. Sure enough she comes back and asks for my number so we can stay in contact. I'm ready to give her my number, so she says she will look for a pen and paper and come right back. Twenty minutes pass. I catch the figure of a girl who looks like her, dressed in plain clothes, carrying a duffle bag and scurrying out of the club like she's in a hurry.
I figure that even though it looks like it was her, it can't possibly be her, after all why would she pass up the opportunity for extra earning? Another twenty minutes pass and still no show. By this time the club is about to close, so I ask the bartender if she's still here, to which she replies that no, she has already left. This confirms my suspicion that it really was her that I saw leaving earlier. I left immediately.
Now I'm kind of confused. Been thinking about it all weekend. What was the purpose of stringing me along? Just to get me to go back? Maybe she was being honest about never having done it before and got cold feet? Embarrassment?
Then I got to thinking, or maybe OVER thinking, but it almost seemed too perfect. You know the saying, "when something seems too good to be true, it probably is" - did I narrowly miss a run-in with LE? Isn't that entrapment?
So what's my next step? To come back to the club and try to pick up like nothing happened?
Anyway money has run pretty tight for the last several months, and I've had to cut back on the clubbing experience which is why I haven't been around. I know my own lack of self-control and didn't want to get tempted by reading this site. A few nights ago I went to my local favorite club for one last hurrah, ready to empty my load (of cash in my wallet, of course). I was PLANNING to have it be my last foray into the strip club underworld for the foreseeable future, until the dancer I selected propositioned me for OTC.
She assured me that she'd never done anything like this in the club before (which I don't believe of course), but that for financial reasons she needed the extra money, and figured me to be a safer choice than the other patrons in the club so she made me the offer for OTC. I've never seen a dancer be quite so forward so I was caught a bit off guard, but I rolled with it and agreed.
After we finished a great VIP session she wanted to talk to me further about it and asks if I'm going to stick around. I don't usually hang around the club long after a VIP like that but figured it'd be a good call to do so just this once. So she vanishes into the back and I'm waiting in the club. Sure enough she comes back and asks for my number so we can stay in contact. I'm ready to give her my number, so she says she will look for a pen and paper and come right back. Twenty minutes pass. I catch the figure of a girl who looks like her, dressed in plain clothes, carrying a duffle bag and scurrying out of the club like she's in a hurry.
I figure that even though it looks like it was her, it can't possibly be her, after all why would she pass up the opportunity for extra earning? Another twenty minutes pass and still no show. By this time the club is about to close, so I ask the bartender if she's still here, to which she replies that no, she has already left. This confirms my suspicion that it really was her that I saw leaving earlier. I left immediately.
Now I'm kind of confused. Been thinking about it all weekend. What was the purpose of stringing me along? Just to get me to go back? Maybe she was being honest about never having done it before and got cold feet? Embarrassment?
Then I got to thinking, or maybe OVER thinking, but it almost seemed too perfect. You know the saying, "when something seems too good to be true, it probably is" - did I narrowly miss a run-in with LE? Isn't that entrapment?
So what's my next step? To come back to the club and try to pick up like nothing happened?
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I suggest you continue to go to the club. When you see her next, wait to see if she brings up the subject of why she didn't follow through with you. Then, react accordingly.
As for my own sensitivity to situations like that, once a dancer doesn't follow through on something she's said she'll do with, or for me, that's the last time I'll spend money on her.
If she brings it up, just shrug and say "shit happens, don't worry about it." If she doesn't, wait a bit, like a visit or two, and then just casually mention "you still want to give me your number, or has that ship sailed?"
If you get it, great. If not, and you're happy with the way she's treating you in the club, fine. Even if this *wasn't* your last hurrah for a while, you're out exactly nothing either way.
When it comes to strippers – it’s better just to roll w/ the punches - when one can have a good time with them – great; enjoy the moment – when shit falls apart; then hook up with another stripper or if you can have a good time with the same stripper at another time; then enjoy that time/visit.
We can’t make/take it personal – the service they provide is more like an auction than a business transaction – i.e. one makes an offer but there is no guarantee one will end up w/ the product.
I just tossed 10 stacks and i didnt even know it !
Like golfing. You swing hundreds of times and then that one time you hit the ball perfectly and it flies true to the pin and the clouds part. But there is never an explanation for why that shot was any different. But it would be foolishness to go bankrupt trying buy lessons, bags, memberships, clubs, accessories, and obsess over replicating that perfect shot.
I'll add that you had better get your head on straight about OTC with this honey or you will end up spending a small fortune for very little ROI.
Best of luck.