The Age Old Debate
gavinmacloud
Michigan
If you have ever read my profile or reviews, you know where my loyalties stand. But I'm curious to know how other hobbyists feel and think. Would you rather share company with more attractive women - but ultimately receive much less bang for your buck? Is your sense of value tied to the visual experience rather than the visceral?
Also, does one's personal life factor in? If you have a significant other, are you more likely to seek out an opposite attraction at the clubs? As an example, my wife would be considered attractive by any measure, but is mostly proper in her demeanor. As a result, I think I seek out more lascivious clubs that satisfy my inner (and sometimes outer) degenerate.
On the other end, do those with partners deemed less attractive seek out strip clubs where the dancers are commonly seen as more attractive - even though they may spend more money and go home with balls of various shades of blue?
I'm sure this unscientific query will end up confirming the old saying, "Different strokes for different folks," bit I'm curious to hear y'all's thoughts...
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They don't have to be 9's or 10's for me to want to dance/chill with them. Friendliness goes a loooooooong way.
I'm not trying to generalize here, but in my experience, more often than not, the super hot strippers KNOW they're very attractive and therefore don't do as much.
Slick, I think your example is an exception to that.
Now, to be fair, I've been told that my standards for "hot" are lower than some other guys, and that some women whom others call hot, are *not* by my standards, notably Hollywood Hotties such as Angelina Jolie and others.
So maybe that skews my position somewhat, but the girls I consider attractive also seem to be some of the busiest in the club, hookers or no, so I can't think I'm too far off the norm.
To try and answer the question though, I do both. I like a bit of variety, I'd say that probably aligns with the idea of seeing out the opposite of what you've got at home. I think that's really the principle behind seeking out something different than what's waiting at home.
Just can't generalize!
So I will go for more mileage every time.
In local area clubs I have been known to so no to dozens of dancers while waiting for one of the hot dancers who give great lap dances to be available, and the dancers know not to even bother asking if certain dancers are there.
Out of town it is different. Even so I have rarely been to a club where there wasn't at least one hot dancer who gave lots of mileage, and thanks to sites like this I will know who those dancers are and plan my time accordingly.
When out of town, I rarely have to make a choice, since I will visit before the club gets too busy, and the hot dancers are there. However when I do have to make a choice, I'll only choose a dance from a dancer who is at least an 8 in looks, and her dance quality is rated high. Otherwise I'll just sit in the club an hour or two and watch the dancers on stage.
I think personality is a vitally important part of the interaction with a stripper. What I mean is, I will go for a girl who's hot, but if we just don't connect on a personal level, I'm not likely to buy another dance from her. On the flip side, if there is a girl who is quite clearly the life of the party, I can always go for that, even if they have a less than perfect body. I actually wish this one fat chick would actually return to my favorite club, not because she had a great body but the fact she was a fun girl, not to mention the fact she was a very naughty girl.
As long as a dancer is skilled and knows how to grind well, and doesn't take too much of a break during the dances she can have zero personality for all I care. Skylar at Fantasyland, who retired about a year ago, had a personality less interesting than watching grass grow, and never talked at all when giving a dance. She made up for it with a very hot body and a very good lap dance.
So yeah, for me, I get both: hot chicks + good chemistry.
I also go for chemistry all the time, even if the chick is 8 and below.
But ya know, it's probably just me. I'm willing to sacrifice looks for personality/naughtiness/expediency when it comes to the ladies.
As it is, I think I make my decision on overall fun factor, where Fun = beauty + services + personality. There are combat minimums (not interested in anyone under 7.5, maybe 7 if I'm drunk, no matter how awesome they are), but they can make up for a little weakness in one area by being better in another
I like balance. I will not spend money on less than a 7(tastes vary of course) usually and if I do it's a pity dance. So I don't compromise on the beauty front too much. That said, the 8.5s and up are in fact most likely to put forth the least effort/mileage. So I usually go with a 7 or 8 that may not do anything "extra" but will put in effort in the other areas.